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1HotStrumpet
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 49 yrs old
Orange, OC, CA
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Registered Dec 10 2016
Released Dec 10 2016

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I'm Unique Because...
I prefer to go against the grain, swim upstream and dare to be different. I refuse to be the typical sheeple like most are out there! I like to stand out in a crowd. I hold my head high when I feel Im somewhere I dont have any right being at and so out of place its obvious. I still walk in like I own the place. But at the end of the day Im me. I wouldnt want to be anyone but me cause its fun to be me. Makes people wonder and also be nervous and think hmmm... what is she smiling about?
I'd Like to Meet
I would have loved to meet the future me years ago. I would have told her to enjoy life like there is no tomorrow. Dont put all your eggs in one basket. When a guy comes along dont always rely on him to be there for you or even save you when u get into a bind or situation you may not be able to handle. Don't try and do everything for other people cause they don't always reciprocate or even hold the same values that you do. Everyone is different and not everyone will agree with you on the things you believe in. Things that may be important to you are not going to be the same things that other people believe in. Including yourself. You are not perfect so stop trying to be. People are flawed and full of flaws. It's what makes us human. People are going to let you down and you will have to accept it. You can't change people and how they are but u can try and make them think about who they are and what they do. Don't be so hard on yourself when they reject you. Not everyone will like you so don't go out of your way to make them try and like you. It doesn't matter anyway cause at the end of the day as long as you like yourself and can face yourself in the mirror and say I'm ok. Then you will be. Don't give up and dont stop trying. You will find your place in the world even if the world doesn't accept or like you. Just love yourself and love your life cause it is short. If you blink u will miss it. Be good to yourself and other people even when they dont deserve it. Who knows what you can do unless you try. And above all else forgive yourself for the things that you fell short on. There will be alot so stop beating yourself up on what you could have done different. You cant change the past but you can learn from it and be a better person. Treat those the way you want to be treated and live by it. Dont be angry at those who have wronged you. Forgive them cause that is baggage you dont want to carry with you. And remember at the end of every day look in the mirror and tell yourself, Im ok.
Useless Daily Update!
We all know why we are here and what we are all looking for. I am in Anaheim Hills. IF you are ready to meet me PM ME 1ST on here and then shoot me a text (714)727-9621. LOOKING FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU AND MEETING WITH YOU UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL.
XOXOXO,Shawna A.K.A 1HotStrumpet
Favorite Things
Well u asked for it... favorite things. Anything black in clothing. Black is my happy color. FX POINTS CAUSE I HAVE NONE RIGHT NOW! *hint,hint* Cleaning, I love to clean stuff! Laundry, call me crazy but I love to do laundry. Thrift store shopping for clothes. I can spend hours in a thrift shop clothes shopping. I love a good deal. Music, everywhere I go and everything I do including expressing how I am feeling I use music to be able to do that. And of course last but not least...Men! I do love men and what they can do for me and especially to me! Hehe!!
What Makes Me Laugh
This should be easy. People who underestimate me and think I'm a dumb blonde bimbo. I LOVE my haters! They make me snicker to myself. When old people get all fired up and mad then they start to cuss...I cant help it! I lose my shit every single time. And 1 joke that always got me going and still does after all these years. Whats red and bad for your teeth? A BRICK! Now stfu!! Not sure why that cracks me up every single time.
Interests
Shopping, coloring, dancing( I LOVE to dance), music, reading(Im a bookworm), naught toy store shopping( I love trying new toys, so fun), getting my nails done, food (trying new food places is awesome), endulging in sweets or doughnuts (love, Love, LOVE doughnuts), thrift store shopping( love a good deal) and numerous other things that list is way too long to mention. So I guess just ask me. NEW interest to add to the ever growing list. Learning about the 16 personality types. Im a INTJ-Introverted, intuitive, thinking, judging. That my MBTI score. Taken the test several times at different times. Always the same answer. If you are curious about it check out 16personalities.com and see what your personality type is. Maybe learn something new about yourself.
I Have a Dream
Dreams are usually whatever your mind decides it wants or needs to show you at the time. I know for me personally my dream has always been 1 thing and that is STABILITY. Once again having a place to call home. My place of solace my place of self expression that I can fill with the things I care about and show people what I love and what I really am all about. A place that is a vision of self expression and a place that I am proud of. I have been lucky enough to have had my own apartment at one point. Unfortunately Covid happened and I lost it. All I can do is hope that someday I will be able to have that again. I miss my apartment alot. But it was a experience on what to do and not to do. And so I learned the hard way and next time things will be different and I won't take it for granted but instead cherish it. Stability is priceless cause it gives one that piece of mind that only a roof over your head at night can bring. So I am grateful and humbled at the same time. Someday I will have it again. It's just getting there that is the hard part. Trust the journey is all i can do. That is my only dream and it is for myself for once and that is stability.