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Sep 17 2026 11:00AM
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Booking Deposits
I am interested to hear your take on providers requiring a booking/security deposit to solidify your appointment.
From a providers perspective; the amount of money spent advertising, acquiring an incall (which we all know are ridiculously expensive for a decent location), gas and other expenses to be able to host for a SINGLE night, with no guarantee of recoup is always a gamble.
From a clients perspective; I have spent time, money and effort to have obtained my rating and built the trust I have in this community, that should circumvent any deposit. Sending money to a provider, regardless of her ratings is a risk of being burned by excuses of why appointment can’t be fulfilled, or just plain being ghosted after sending the money.
Both sides are at risk of being let down, but I want to know your opinion…
Does a provider requiring a deposit automatically disqualify her for you?
Does a client refusing to send a deposit give you any red flags about his intentions?
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Sep 12 2026 06:45PM
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WOC Avoid Betterman
If you are a woman of color, I would suggest avoiding this man like the plague. He reached out to me after I just so happened (thank goodness) to see him in another providers album in a not so flattering light and I made a light joke asking him if he was aware I was black (he made disparaging comments about black women in his text to another provider).
I’m guessing my light joke struck him the wrong way and his response is……what you see.
In my humble opinion a man with these opinions yet continues seeking out this same demographic he claims to feel this way about is DANGEROUS! Just throwing it out there..
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Sep 5 2026 02:38PM
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Labor Day Plans?
What’s everyone doing for the Labor Day weekend? Does anyone know of anything exciting to do?
I’m looking to get out more and make the most of my last weeks on HX!
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Mar 15 2026 01:58PM
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Sexy morticians...
How many have you ever met? Would you like to? 🥰🤫🤭
Graduating C/o 2026 with my AS in Mortuary Science!! ❤️
I was recently told that choosing this career path meant potentially being alone forever. Do you think it'll be a damper on my future dating life?
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Jan 30 2026 03:16PM
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Will anyone....
Be in Orange County tomorrow? (1/31/2026)
I'll be visiting overnight in the area and would love to grab a drink or a bite to eat with someone 🥰
I'm also open to any suggestions of good food/bars around - thanks in advance!! ❤️
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Sep 15 2025 09:24PM
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How Should You Say Goodbye?
I’m currently figuring out how to gracefully bow out with a bang  it seems I’ve registered a bit too late and the fun/serious gents have gone…or maybe I’m just not their cup of tea. Either way..
A farewell tour?
Hotel party? (I’ve never had the chance to attend one)
Let me know how I should go about it! 🥰 I hope to meet some of you before I go.
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Aug 22 2025 07:27PM
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2000s Video Vixens….
Have always been so gorgeous to me & the older I get, the more I enjoy the aesthetic of the 2000s era! I took some new pictures today channeling that look…
Do you think I would’ve been casted in a Pharrell music video lol? ☺️
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Jun 21 2025 04:18PM
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My Best Investment As Of Lately 💭
Has without a doubt been the GYM!!
Ive found myself discovering peace beyond understanding mentally..Im finally achieving a level of discipline Ive been avoiding forever & most importantly..Im looking delicious for my future friends💋
I’m open to workout partners as well!!! 🥰
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Apr 27 2025 12:18PM
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242 Days..
I've been gone! It seems like forever!
I'm so excited to be back and reintegrating into the community 🥰
I have treats for gentlemen kind enough to unlock mail/send HX points to get me back started.
Looking forward to reconnecting with you! ❤️
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Aug 3 2024 06:36PM
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Breaking Bad Habits
What are some pieces of advice you would give to someone looking to change themselves, starting inward? What are some of the things you would tell them to help guide them in breaking old habits that are causing them suffering in their day to day life?
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Feb 8 2024 08:56PM
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Open in case of emergency...
...I don't know who might need to hear this at the moment but,
Just breathe...
You're doing an incredible job...
You are trying your absolute best & I am so proud of you!
Tough times don't last forever, you're learning not suffering..
You got this babe..
Keep GOING!
❤️
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Nov 28 2023 01:45PM
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GIRLfriends 👯♀️🖤
I find meeting and building friendships with women (especially in the industry) to be extremely difficult. I would love to connect with new women & get into some adventures together 🥰
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