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Aug 27 2026 08:54PM
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LUNAR ECLIPSE Happening NOW!
Apparently there is a lunar eclipse happening right now.  Earth's shadow should cover 97% of the moon!
Go outside and post your pics!
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Aug 6 2026 03:11PM
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you guyysss -- one of my biggest fears happened today
Being super vulnerable here but...
A guy showed up for our appointment, took one look at me, and could not have left faster. I always post current, unedited photos because I'd rather keep expectations real than surprise anyone. It definitely caught me off guard, especially since I do EVERYTHING I can to be transparent so this never happens. But now I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. (j/k, I'm fine, just makes me wonder what it was that was so off-putting to him). Thats whats going to bug me the most.
Ladies, have you ever had this happen?
No, he did not leave any donation and he was my only afternoon appt. I typically only do one morning, afternoon, and evening meeting so it is a huge chunk of my day wasted.
Yes, I know cancellations happen it was just the way this went down.
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Jul 18 2026 05:17PM
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Home Depot FX points - server down - Need favor please :)
Hi!
So I let my account go to basically zero (I know I know). I purchased a $100 Home Depot gift card but when I go to redeem it on our site it's saying, "Home Depot's servers are experiencing a temporary outage" (bc Of Course they are) and to try again in a hour.
Googling, I don't see any mention of an outage on their end and I purchased the gift card a little over a hour ago without issue.
Since I stayed an extra day in OC I need to be able to post a classified (and this is why we don't wait until the last minute). Of course this happens when I have 85 points left because I am a procrastinator.
I wasn't going to ask, but since we're here and it's getting late and no on has come to visit me yet :'( I'm going to. Would anyone be so kind as to please float me a few hundred FX points until I can get mine redeemed. I promise I'm not trying to scam you out of points and will send you back double what you are generous enough to lend me.
Otherwise, clear your schedule and come see me so I'm not over here twiddling my thumbs in this overpriced (just for the night—thanks, OC Fair ), but nice hotel room, wasting time I could be spending Having Fun With You. ;*
Thank youuu!
PS - Please message me before sending in case I am good on the favor.
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Jul 8 2026 10:15PM
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Ontario - Why Such a Disappointment?
Ontario... I'm honestly really disappointed.
I've had two cancellations today and very few bookings over the last four days. The first person was kind enough to compensate me for some of my time, but tonight someone booked four hours with me, kept pushing the time back, and ultimately never showed. I've seen him twice before, which makes it even more frustrating.
At this point, it's the fourth day that's essentially been a wash.
I came here because so many of you asked me to visit. I usually stay for several days so I have enough time to see everyone without rushing from one hang to the next. I don't book back-to-backs and many of you have similar schedules and request the same time slots. I sincerely enjoy spending time with you so I allow more days to get to do that. Quality over quantity.
While I do have my own civilian business and genuinely enjoy doing this, I'm not here to waste my time or money. Every trip means time away from my personal life and other responsibilities. If I wanted to spend money getting stood up and disappointed, I'd go back to regular dating.
I understand that things come up, and I know emergencies happen. But this seems to be an ongoing issue in Ontario, and I've heard similar experiences from other providers as well.
To the gentlemen who have been respectful, punctual, and true to their word—thank you. It really is appreciated.
To everyone else: if you're going to book my time, please be considerate and follow through. If you flake on a first meet, don't ask for a second.
Respect goes both ways.
that is all.
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May 21 2026 10:20PM
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Editing Classifieds and Being Charged x2+ FX Points?
Hi ladies,
I am noticing my FX points are getting used up quickly if I edit or tweak an already running classified. (Im buying all my own FX points since I don't have an album I can charge for bc will never post nudes).
Each time I post an ad, if I go back and change one tiny thing on it or slightly change the wording, within JUST a few minutes of posting, it charges me again.
I didn't notice this until a few weeks ago and totally forgot about it. I changed and tweaked several classifieds RIGHT after posting and was charged the full amt. again. So an ad I would pay 500 FX points, lets say, is costing me 1500 FX points in a matter of 3-4 minutes.
Yes, I read over my classifieds before posting them - many times - and don't rush through them but I also am particular about my wording and sometimes I will want to fix, add, or change something or just add punctuation.
I have also noticed when I edit them it keeps the time the original ad was set to expire so it does not even extend the time of the classified based on the new (duplicate) charge.
Am I tripping or does the classified system work like this?
Thank youuuuu!
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Apr 29 2026 03:41PM
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TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY - Come Be My Present (today or tomorrow)
Hi loves!
I still have some availability today and am open tonight.
Tomorrow I am available all day/evening.
COME BE MY PRESENT, PLEASE!
xoxo
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Apr 21 2026 02:06PM
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Celebrating My Birthday in OC Next Week April 27-30
My birthday is Wednesday (soo many April birthdays) and I don't have plans. I was thinking of taking another staycation somewhere in OC possibly Monday through Thursday or Friday.
Where should I go and what hotel would you guys recommend? 4 stars and up only.
I like staying at the Aryes in Costa Mesa but I've been there a bunch lately and don't want to bring any attention to myself, though I usually stay 3-4 nights. The OC has been pretty good to me.
If I have interest I will book a stay. Let me know if you would be interested in visiting any of those days.
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