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Apr 22 2026 06:41AM
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I recently lost my insurance dammit
And have to pay out of pocket for everything now including my tests. I like to take them very regularly but my clinic is a few hundred dollars for me now, especially full panels (when it used to be free...sigh)
I am willing to pay it cause I like to stay on top of my status but does anyone know of a cheaper place in the OC area to get tested? I might even do the drive to LA if it is free and there is nothing in the OC.
Thank you in advance, hope everyone is have a safe, fun, week 
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Apr 19 2026 05:41PM
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Everything in my garden...
Everything in the ground HEALTHY (and in bloom or getting there):
Concord grapes
Tomatoes, all kinds
Broccoli
Ginger
Potatoes
Dill
Rue (magic)
Milk Thistle
Stinging Nettle
Strawberry
Chives
Dragonfruit
Eggplant  lol
Lettuce (all kinds)
Kale (all kinds)
Spinach
Pumpkin
Green beans
Basil
Garlic
Onion
Red clover
Rosemary
Carrots galore
Roses
Blueberry
Aloe plenty
Lotus
Water hyacinth
Fuck I am forgetting stuff I just know it
herbs, too many to list
flowers, too many to list lol
I guess
When I am not making things wet. I am making them grow. My jungle expands beyond my legs what can I say
At this point, you can just call it a victory garden. I will feed the army
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Apr 4 2026 07:37PM
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I got married young and missed the rave years dammit he was such a ball and chain lol
Now I am long divorced, Stella got her groove back and I think I want to do a rave but am I too old for this lol. Someone tell me the damn truth.
Also, am I a nerd if I wear headphones cause I low-key have noise sensitivity issues but still want to be there. I promise I can and will dress cute/slutty. That I can do
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Mar 25 2026 06:02AM
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Where do 2 hot MILFs go...
GabriellaLabella and I are planning a lot of summer trips together right now and could use a little insight on where to go?....
We thought about San Diego, we talked about Mexico lol....where else is fun?
Where can two hot mama's get away and into a little of that good ol' fashion hot girl summer magic?
I mean...def somewhere where we can get wet, we both like that
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Mar 22 2026 08:14PM
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This is hard one it really is
Well at least for me and I have a very active imagination yet still....
What would the world be like right now if there were no computers? If that simply wasn't...a thing.
As a child of the 80's I do remember a time this world was way more analog than it is now however the foreshadowing was rich even back then, at the cusp of the wave.
Now here we are. Not even an incoming age of technology anymore, that Baby is here.
So can you even imagine what life would be like if life didn't get so, digital? I am not sure I can.
I mean, would this space cease to exist? I guess by virtual of this design haha, yes!
What else tho? :+
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Mar 7 2026 08:46AM
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Wow that really worked
There is this trend going around where if you play the old disco song "Ring my Bell" by Anita Ward, you will get money as the song itself is a money spell.
So I thought, you know what, I believe...and I tried.
Less then 3 hours later, unprompted and out of no where, my fave credit card (I earn money back on purchases so I use it most) said you know what we want you to have $1000 more on your credit line. Now. I would not normally think that was so fantastic cause although I am flattered, I have been working on my debt and credit so it made sense and was already a goal to get more money anyways cause I am taking my soon to be graduate on a grad trip this summer.
However, on my todo list that day was
1. call your fave cc and ask for more money
But I ran out of time and could not make the call. Then on the way to dinner that afternoon, I got an email from that very credit card company telling me I earned an upgrade!!! Wow.
THAT IS CRAZY TIMING. Or the spell is true.
Either way, that was super fun. Great song too, I love to dance to it!
Try it, money never hurts. If you do let me know.
As Jung said, there is no such thing as coincidences
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Feb 28 2026 07:50AM
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Do you believe in love at first sight?
Or is it just cleverly cloaked infatuation? lol.
What are your thoughts on this? Has it ever happened to you?
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Feb 24 2026 09:34PM
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If you won the lottery what would you do?
After taking care of some loved ones...I feel like I would still want to work and be useful (vacationing might get old after a while) so I think I would have to buy land somewhere and raise a bunch of animals. Maybe give a bunch of rescued animals heaven on earth whilst gardening/farming for food and mental health. Definitely rehab/restore things: vintage homes, cars, and animals. Probably blog about it. I love to make content. I am super happy now I can't say I would do much else in the way of purchase power to feel even happier, but I would never say no to a lot of money and a lot more land to grow on and ability to share and care.
how about you...what would you do if you won the lottery?
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Feb 24 2026 09:49AM
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Updates
I have been using both pumpkin seed oil (ingesting and putting on skin) and homemade rosemary water (in a spray bottle I just spray on my roots daily) and when I say my hair is growing (and fast), full, healthy, shiny...everything. It is even noticeable, I have been getting comments and compliments.
I HIGHLY recommend these two if you want to do some hair and skin self care. Of course make sure you are not allergic and what not. But 10 out of 10 recommend.
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Feb 18 2026 09:38AM
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A question for all you business savvy beasts...
If a girl was gonna stay a 1099 and never again a W2 and wanted to have a few businesses but needed to start pouring into taxes and ss again, how would she do it? Asking for a friend
(for instance reselling + wedding rentals + content creation + selling of art) as the micro businesses and so then do I just do a Corp? That can't be a corp lol or maybe? An LLC? Like everything would fall under a TBYSStudio umbrella?...
Also what is a trigger for such event? I imagine profit but what if they take a while to get going? Is it too premature to create a business and I just wait?
Should I be asking my tax guy? lol. I know one of you is gonna say it
Thanks in advance for the help
This is my year guys. Never bartending again. LOL.
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Feb 12 2026 10:57PM
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F me sidewayz to any of theseee omg
Mazzy Star "Fade into you"
Chris Issac "Wicked Games"
AND THE ABSOLUTELY UNTOUCHABLE TITAN HERSELF SADE: "Cherish the Day"
Pure seduction to my ears, heart, and soul
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Feb 12 2026 06:36PM
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Just in time for Galentines day
...I have a crush on my favorite barista at my fave coffee place and we have been flirting all week and she knows my name but does so with a very salacious smile and nod
(I almost died, but may also be over reacting, but maybe not. It feels very lesbian-esqe. A friend confirmed this, its not all in my head I promise
insert befuddled emoji)
Being bi is a blessing and a curse.
I know how to flirt with guys. I do.
But.
I HAVE NO F-ING CLUE HOW TO FLIRT W WOMEN. AT_ALL. fml.
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