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ilove2lick... LOL yes.. because clearly us ladies need to pay yall; :
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some other guy paid you for the funny guy's time?
can he pay for my time too? lol
does he get a freebie?
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No lol, but I am putting it towards our meeting in about 7 hours...
Because the money was not the issue, the disrespect and complete disregard for my boundaries were.
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Jay beat me to the joke 
Not saying it's your fault but when a lady messages first it does change the dynamic of the meeting. Sucks that a person will take advantage to get a freebie.
Burger panties is funny lololololol ).gif)
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Koi. You know what you're actually correct and I apologize for not understanding sooner my bad everyone. I like to treat my regular friends like actual people and maybe the lines got twisted. I take full responsibility for my mistake and lack of clarity. In the past when we would talk about meeting and I sent my menu he would literally always get an attitude claiming that I threw off the vibe and made it about money. idk if that was a setup into having me lower my guard but I will say that I should be more like the person that I am in the blogs if that makes sense.
I just dont want people to think that I hate all men and treat everyone like I do in the blogs because I am genuinely a sweet and shy person but I think Its best to just keep things black and white and never in between. I made a mistake and will own it but I honestly wasnt posting this for sympathy, life lessons or backlash. I genuinely thought that it was funny but I also now see where the issue was made on my end and I truly am sorry
I should probably be less "human" when it comes to my interactions on here and more "in n out" like my burgers with the panties lol
My God I just love them little things especially when they're all wet and wrapped around my meat hahaha. Have to peel them back slowly to savor the flavor and the moment.. LMFAO
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huh? no lol it was their way of saying "sorry that happened, heres something to secure our meeting so you dont think that I am going to pull the same thing" kinda thing
I would never allow someone else to pay for another persons bad behavior.
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The first time I had sex, I was alone!
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LOL Yogi!.. Was it with "Palm'ela" I think that I've met her once or twice...
Completely random but does anyone know how to make bread? PM me please!! I dont want to reach out first and cause a a war lol ( but seriously, I have some questions"
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Don't contact the men !
It's creepy as fuck !
It also puts the man in an awkward scenario, as they don't want to hurt your feelings, yet you knowingly put them in that position ?
Men like variety, and 99% are here for variety and are already in a relationship in the real world and need this outlet to stay sane from their relationship !
Once again, if a man wants to spend time with you, they will seek you out and be in contact with you !
No Match.com
No E-Harmony
or whatever else
Not here for relationships !
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How many times are you going to repeat the same thing? We get it lololol
Y'all every get the juice runoff wheen you go to take off the burger panties and then proceed to either use 20 napkins to dry off or lick your fingers clean?
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@captain if you get a text saying “come stretch my a-hole”, you wouldnt go for it?
I am not a butt guy but I would have 😂
this scenario reminds me of a case where a friendship/fwb thing was going on and at the end the guy owed a lady a breakfast Burrito, I forget the details, I just remember someone owed someone a breakfast Burrito..
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June, you are amazing; you make unwrapping a burger sound so appealing!!!
… but you can text me with "please come and stretch out my asshole" …
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Koi lol its the 54 percent babes i think hes slow. I dont think he understands that i said that we were already talking and had plans to meet however i asked to meet earlier
Could be early age dementia so i dont want to be rude but im just going to ignore him because yes this is not match.com so pay up every time or be a grown man and pull up your burger panties and say no
Theres only one person who ive sent a pm to unsolicited to and i honestly wasnt expecting a reply since i hadnt saw him in like 10 years... anywho .......
But omg yes!!!! Or when it starts to drip before you take the panties off so you have to slide your tongue around the outside and in between the sides before it makes a lovely mess .. i get way too excited
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Oh my God yes!!!!!
Also that comment about him saying you were throwing off the vibe and daily texting should queue you in that he is probably looking for something more. At least, that's how I interpret the situation.
Palm'ela!!! That's too good!
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I’m bringing in n out next time!!!
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Lefty.. if i lived closer to you, id have your number on speed dial. Id make you stare into my eyes while you open every hole
Definitely make sure that you subscribe to see my travel plans. I wont be reaching out to let people know where ill be ahead of time because i dont want anyone thinking im doing a freebies tour lmfaoooo
Would think that someone would enjoy meeting a person that actually liked spending time with you instead of a robot going throuh the motions. Intimacy is way better when both people are in a parallel state of attraction vs me having to fake it and just lay there hoping youd hurry up and finish and if i was a man and someone said "hey come stretch my asshole please" id damn near run every light to get there
But then again some men are secretly DL and here to please and impress other men. They dont really like women they just like sex and bragging rights
But why would i expect more from a costco... may have to look into trader joes lol
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Wait wait what did I miss??
Alright men send your menus lmao
June, you’re killing it
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Lefty... let me lick the juice off of you!!
Omg that reminded me of how 16 years ago my ex boyfriend put peanut butter on his dick and asked me to suck it off so that he could time it.. maaaan i didnt eat peanut butter for like 3 years after that. .. that was the longest blow job that i had EVER given
Koi.. yeah that is so true. Now that i think about it, he did ask me out to the movies the day before but i fell asleep.. im glad that i didnt waste my time and go
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Maribel 🥰🤣😍😘
I said did we go to sleep and wakeup in another universe? Because if your own wife doesnt want to sleep with you why on earth would you think .... nvm
(PS he is not married so idk why that keeps being mentioned lol)
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Imagine finding woman that genuinely love what they do. Not the fake display of words on a profile but has the actions and boats of reviews to back it up. Yes they have bad days because they are human and not all people connect the same way but overall they are a good people, doesnt steal, keep their words and makes up for their mistakes...
And then you manipulate them into thinking that theyre the ones who are lucky to be in your presence and that you dont have to pay them and can use things like loop holes and lebels to your advantage...
Then imagine why you have to make 25 blogs wondering where did all the good women go and why are the women on hx so jaded
(Jaded/ˈjādəd/Jaded means feeling tired, bored, or lacking enthusiasm because you have experienced too much of something or had bad experiences)
Blaming other sites when the problem is and has always been right in the mirror
.... just imagine...
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Yes June...'she' never leaves me!!!!!!!!
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“Imagine finding woman that genuinely love what they do. Not the fake display of words on a profile but has the actions and boats of reviews to back it up. Yes they have bad days because they are human and not all people connect the same way but overall they are a good people, doesnt steal, keep their words and makes up for their mistakes...”
Well said!
The true gems!
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You have a more personal relation with him, should asking be a problem ? I don't think so. But if he sees you that much. isn't he broke ? and maybe a why he asked ? after seeing him so much, trying to gauge how you really feel about him. At that point a lot of us guys might be thinking if there is a freebie somewhere.
I had one reg years ago that would ask a lot of questions outside of here. We had these long txt convo's a lot. Then one day asks if I was a Trump supporter. At the time I said yes, not anymore. The next day after knowing her for a few years dumps me because of that. Sad, but oh well. Been retired from here for a few years now.
Now I don't mind if my regs txt me to ask, but they never do.
If someone new does and I'm not interested just ignore.
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Lady : Come see me , oh and give me a payday while you're at it
It's just another form of solicitation !
And it's classless to say the least !
Should be considered SPAM !
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And any dude that submits to that behavior...
Please turn in your Man Card at the nearest Urgent Care center, and have yourself tested for your current Estrogen levels !
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It's not that serious lolololol
As long as both people remember it's all fantasy.
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idk if youre aware but this entire site is a form of solicitation lol from the blogs to the photo uploads. Because yes any dude that actually likes seeing women should be deemed less than a man to please another man lol
also we were already supposed to meet and even had a date to the movies the day before so the only classless one here is you and your lack of comprehension skills. We get it already you suck dick and thats okay! now go away
Lefty .. I love when real men are on here to actually meet women and not impress the boys.
AF he isnt broke by far which is why he paid every other time. I even asked him if he wanted to set up a monthly kind of thing but he said that he couldnt ( which would have been less but whatever). If i wanted to meet and get my rocks off with no strings attached I would say so. I just dont see why someone would assume but I know that we had a date to the movies the day before but I do know that when my grandma passed and I went silent for a while he would text me constantly saying how worried he was about me and even randomly showing up to my place to check on me. Telling me that I need to open up and stop being so guarded. (literally his exact words) then when he would ask to meet and id send my rates he would get upset saying the vibe was killed and stop replying.
but even on a regular day he would text me asking what I was doing, how my day was and when i stopped replying would reach out again and again like heeey!?! you alive?.. to keep the convo going.
I honestly think it was all a scheme to get me to let my guard down. Like he could have literally just left me alone but he went out his way to input himself into my life. So me reaching out to him was not anything unordinary for us because he is not married, lives alone and comes by more than once a week. my mistake was not sending the menu again no matter how much he gets mad lol
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@KoiPond0
How would you know ?
Please elaborate.
You've been here since Christmas 2025 and haven't seen anyone.
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Unnecessary cortisol spikes with all this blogging. Just block the dude and move on 🤦🏻♂️
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exactly Koi. no matter who messages who this is not match.com and this is HX
LOL acting like I want to date you because I am craving your dick is delusional. This is a fantasy, I am not your wife though even she probably doesnt want to see you naked either soooooo
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every other time = all of the times before
idk why i feel the need to clarify but I just know someone will misinterpret that
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Someone lock this blog up
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Oooooor just dont read it
It was never that serious in the first place yall took a joke and made it into something bigger. The guy was blocked and i got my money back way before the blog was made
No one is forcing you to come back to reply lol im having fun
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I have never met June in person, we have spoken and texted in the past.
She contacted me a while back to meet, however i was out of state but had we met up I understood what it was for and was clear who was paying.
June is free to contact me again, changed carriers and a lot of numbers were lost, including yours.🥲
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Thank you! I cant wait to meet but ill definitely let you reach out first lol im not taking no chances
The only time i will reach out to guys unsolicited is if our paths didnt cross and they say things like "i cant really plan ahead of time so just let me know when youre in the area like a day before and ill try to make it happen" and the thing is dont tell me to let you know when im available if youre going to complain when i do lol . Grow some balls, loosen your burger panties and say how you really feel
I get booked VERY fast so sometimes if i know that someone has mentioned wanting to meet me or asked me to let them know when i travel down, then I will let them know my schedule
Why ask me to let you know when i am available if youre going to throw a temper tantrums about exactly that...
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June, I believe if I ask anyone to do something and they do it, I have given up the right to complain about it. lol
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Have you heard about the pirate that walks into the bar with a steering wheel hanging from his fly?
So, A pirate walks into a bar with a steering wheel hanging from his fly. The bar tender see's that and says hey you have a steering wheel hanging from your fly.
The pirate responds, "Arrr, they're driving me nuts"
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Honestly, June, I’m glad you made this post because some of these comments were making it seem like you just randomly messaged this person out of nowhere, when clearly that wasn’t the situation and you guys already had an established relationship/conversation.
I’ll admit, I’ve definitely texted someone before just to let them know I was visiting or that I was around, but after reading all these comments… 😭 I’m respectfully going to rethink doing that again LOL.
That being said, “closed mouths don’t get fed” Wether you texted him cus you felt horny or needed some financial assistance at the time. I personally don’t see how some woman and men will sit there and say “I DONT TEXT THEM NEITHER SHOULD YOU” What might seem weird or unnecessary to one person might be completely normal to someone else, especially when there’s already an existing connection.
And honestly, if a client is adamant about not wanting you to reach out first or doesn’t want you initiating plans, they can simply communicate that which some actually do !!. It really doesn’t have to turn into “you messaged me first, so now I’m entitled to something.” 😂
At the end of the day, it’s not about anyone’s feelings getting hurt .
ALSO THIS IS ONE OF THOSE SITUATIONS WHERE WE ALL LEARNING FROM IT BECAUSE I DONT THINK NEITHER OF YOU HAD BAD INTENTIONS.
MAYBE HE REALLY THOUGHT YOU WANTED TO HANG OUT 🤷🏽♀️ 😬
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Exoticbabygirl, I love the way you think. Not only are you beautiful, but you are so smart. ps. I'm still working on the Metallica concert. As soon as I have things worked out i'll get back to you 
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It’s easy to let people cross your boundaries here. Both male and females might consider creating boundaries so that things don’t get muddy. I’ve had some pretty muddy relationships with hobbiests in the past.
Also, I learned not to let someone leverage their “I’m a regular” customer and “since you enjoy seeing me” you should let me cross your boundaries.
Anyone trying to cross boundaries is going to have a rude awakening.
June, if someone texts you daily and then responds to your text with a smart ass comment like that, they have reached their clientele expiration date. They likely have feelings and might want you to express similar feelings by freebies.
So yeah, I understand the dynamics that are toxic here
Run away
Just put him in a nice time out till he can stop having unrealistic expectations of you. And watch that you don’t develop unrealistic expectations too.
No one is here to get hurt.
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@SydneyClaudel you said what I wanted to respectfully! 🤏🏽
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On another note HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONTH @Syndeyclaudel!
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I appreciate your well wishes!!!
🌹
The law of economics that describes decreasing value or satisfaction from additional units is the law of diminishing marginal utility.
It’s like this
I’m willing to pay $6 for a hamburger from 5 guys, and then at lunch eating that same hamburger is less satisfying because I just had a hamburger and my need was met.
Everything if consumed too often reaches a point where the consumer doesn’t experience the same level of satisfaction although the thing consumed hasn’t changed.
So perhaps the law of marginal utility applies here.
And now the customer feels he’s doing you a favor because he’s had his fill.
That’s a second possible theory.
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Lmao I actually love the Five Guys analogy 😂 but I think the flaw in that theory is assuming the “hamburger” is the same every time and that the consumer is the only one whose value matters.
Sometimes diminishing marginal utility isn’t about the product becoming less valuable it’s about the consumer becoming overly familiar with having access to it. And THAT can definitely create a sense of entitlement where someone starts thinking they’re doing you a favor by showing up. 😂
sometimes what looks like “diminishing value” is really just inflated self-importance from having too much access. 😭
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Honestly it was entitlement and i absolutely do think he had bad intentions because there was never any miscommunication since i never used the words "hang out" and only put that because i didnt want to TOS. The fact that we talk a lot so he knows my boundaries and knows better since we had a convo similar to this in the past . He also mentioned wanting to date me and i specifically tell him that im not interested and would rather keep things business but i dont mind catching a movie or something as friends.
So the constantly getting upset after i sent my menu every time was a clear indication that he was plotting all along. Or maybe he got mad that i missed the movie thay we were supposed to see and wanted his "get back".. idk. Dont care honestly
Overall i think i understand that no matter what, I will paint a house with nail polish bottles before i do that again.
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Aries... you would think so but from what ive gathered the men are too weak to simply say that theyve changed their mind or to say no in the first place .
Thank you exotic.. finally someone with a little common sense. Appreciate you always
Sydney.. its exactly what exotic said... self important from having too much access, especially knowing how i am normally inaccessible.. that ego boost that knowing how i am hardly available yet he gets to see me more than twice a week. Bragging rights and entitlement
The funny thing is he literally asked me if i still wanted to go to the movies right after not paying me and i think that was the best part of the joke
My boundaries are always set. I have never given any indication that i wanted to be more than friends. People are just asshole and do what they want because theh know that they wont have consequences for it
Instead of people acknowledging that technically he robbed me they would rather blame you because you texted them first even though that was the agreement and the man literally would show up to my house unannounced to check on me when he knows that im sad or my texts arent normal responses (one word answers and being short)
But i guess thats ok and im wrong for texting back
Because why not just leave me tf alone in the first place lol .. yeah he was definitely plotting to manipulate and blur the lines
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Omg JR!! Good one..
Happy bday month sydney
Lesson learned!! You cant treat clients like decent human beings. Get them in, set that alarm and get them out !!
Give them an inch and they run a mile, give them a mile and they run a marathon lol
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Anywho
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Let it go yall its not that serious
But on a serious note ill be in Anaheim today from 1-3
400hr deals all September
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See you soon OC
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