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rikiboiflik
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Am I doing something wrong
Aug 31 2026 08:07PM more by rikiboiflik
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

Hey everyone. I've been on here a few weeks and I'm clearly doing something wrong, so I figured I'd just ask.

I've requested a few groups (n00bz especially) and sent a handful of messages/flirts with no luck. My guess is my profile isn't giving anyone a reason to say yes, but I'm not sure what to put there to start.

Any advice is appreciated!
      
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KAPRICE
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Aug 31 2026 10:18PM     link to this

Paste in one of the messages you sent for an opener. Lets see what we are working with.
SydneyClaudel
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Aug 31 2026 10:52PM     link to this

Welcome to HX! I don’t think you’re necessarily doing something wrong because you’ve not been given a negative rating. It might be that you have no ratings. Being new is all that’s going on i am guessing.
DelilahRose
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Aug 31 2026 10:53PM     link to this

Just need some people in ur network..dont give up
deep.passion
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Aug 31 2026 11:00PM     link to this

I'll say you should take a bunch of dic pics and flood the photos with them!!
That should do the trick!!

If that doesn't work, start a blog complaining about the site!!

Good luck!!!
dznutzgg
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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Aug 31 2026 11:11PM     link to this

big gurls need luv too
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SydneyClaudel
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Aug 31 2026 11:13PM     link to this

Deep… you saying that is going to get lou all hopeful and excited.
deep.passion
LA, CA
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Aug 31 2026 11:24PM     link to this

Sydney, you just read my mind...lol
What s mind reader!!!

Let's try again
What am I thinking of now???
SydneyClaudel
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Aug 31 2026 11:36PM     link to this

Oh good lord, I always wondered if you had multiple personalities.
deep.passion
LA, CA
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Aug 31 2026 11:39PM     link to this

Well i have a public vanilla personality
And then there's the behind closed doors, passionate, and freaky personality 😜
SydneyClaudel
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Sep 1 2026 12:05AM     link to this

Understood 😜
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 1 2026 12:28AM     link to this

Someone say freebie?
SydneyClaudel
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Sep 1 2026 04:19AM     link to this

Pfft 😳😂😂😂😂
mach5
AZ
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Sep 1 2026 06:41AM     link to this

Look for ladies who are noobie friendly. Also, these clubs are run by members, so you won't always get an immediate response. Patience grasshopper.
maleinocca
OC, CA
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Sep 1 2026 07:58AM     link to this

I think that happened to me too , I think it because the club owner may not be active all the time .
So maybe you just need to wait .

I also thin u need a few ladies in your network .if I was a club owner that’s something’s I would check ,your activity represents you . So go out there and get at least 3 ladies In ur network

If u have questinons about the site , ask them here, and members will
Help you
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Sep 1 2026 08:13AM     link to this

A dog's name shouldn't be more than two Syllables. They learn better that way.

Look up Mari, and attraction coach. Write something interesting in the profile.

A pic with 2 or 3 girls standing with you helps. But for here , blur the faces.

Give them at least 24hrs to reply.
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dznutzgg
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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Sep 1 2026 10:06AM     link to this

Lou.... op is free, fresh, and new. U know what to do
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 1 2026 12:57PM     link to this

Holla!
deep.passion
LA, CA
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Sep 1 2026 01:43PM     link to this

The OPs handle sounds right up Lou's alley
Think maybe he's on the wrong site
Maybe Grindr would be best with that handle
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 1 2026 05:41PM     link to this

And by alley he means ass!
June.Moon
CA
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Sep 1 2026 06:55PM     link to this

Use your other handle
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 1 2026 09:06PM     link to this

Tatiana36dd
NC
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Sep 2 2026 11:36AM     link to this

Yup. You got to be a rockstar to get ladies crawling at your crotch to meet you lol. When gents text me in NC and I dont find their initial text productive then I dont reply or reply only when I am free. When they ask why they had to text me 3 or 4 times for response, I let them know that nothing in our initial correspondence did anything to make the panties wet. I work as most know 2 other mexical jobs so when I travel and make appts it has to be ideal.
TheWickedWitch
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Sep 3 2026 06:26AM     link to this

You have no ratings. Visit a friend from cacutieclub or queenofdenyle i think it's called and then you get a good rating and you'll see a big difference
loveitalot
San Diego, CA
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Sep 3 2026 06:35AM     link to this

Go to the home page and and check out the new ladies with no ratings, a bit risky but they would be taking the same risk with you.
Good luck!
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Sep 3 2026 06:05PM     link to this

Are you willing to screen?

If so, do it with a reputable provider.

and be sure to act right!

You should be fine.


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