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Maybe they are better able to find their target market there. That’s cool.
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HX is good for volume and on demand bookings if you will haircut your pricing. Seeking yields a lot more per meet but also way more work.
Both have their merits. But not interested in meeting pros on Seeking.
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we love young women getting their worth 🤍 no matter where they find it 
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There are plenty of gentlemen here who generously spoil us and are enjoyable to be around. We wouldn’t be here otherwise. Also, the safety network is a huge part of what makes this platform attractive.
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And Lou, dont forget Lou!
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Especially Lou!
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I also said that it was due to shitty men like you that run them off, but thank you for appreciating my comment lol
Its not seeking thats taking away from hx, there are many other competing websites plus now and days women can sell feet pics and make the same amount without having to do literally anything or meet up with anyone
And you know what, i love that for them.
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OP
For the record, how about abiding by the terms of service.
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The safety network. The fact that men get rated too, we have a track record as soon as some of the ladies we've seen admit to having seen us (aka, placed a rating), and if you're a decent guy it's easy for a lady to check up and see from your past dates that you're okay, makes this a vastly superior site for me at least than any of the alternatives I'm aware of.
And no, greenclod, it's not about the price. For me at least, well, I'm a tired old veteran and as the old saying goes, you can take the soldier out of the army but you can't get all the army out of the soldier. Also used to work for the government while I was already active here (now fully retired). I got stood up at the parking lot or the door of the room (refused to answer when I knocked) more times than I actually got seen setting things up on other sites before I discovered Hx, as well as starting message exchanges and getting ghosted at that stage (at least no commitments were made and then broken when they ghosted me without setting an appointment). Seems having a network makes the ladies comfortable enough to give me a chance, and all of them have told me I'm fine once they started to get to know me - but on initial sight I appear to be a bit intimidating and ladies have worried that I might be LEO because the military/veteran behavior makes them think of those other guys… without a network or references, I'd probably keep getting ghosted a lot.
I love Hx. Admittedly I'm low volume and I keep doing extended periods of inactivity then coming back for awhile, but I'm glad it's still around and operational, and although there are many ladies no longer here that I wish I could see again - there are also ladies still here that I've seen before and am really looking forward to seeing again as well as more than a few new ladies who interest me. I'm very glad Hx is still around and operational.
However, if it doesn't suit you, GTFO - there are plenty of other places to cruise for meetings if Hx doesn't work for you, but the ladies & gents that Hx does work for don't need you wandering in and spewing your verbal diarrhea all over the blogs. Go where you can find the markets you're looking for and peace be with you.
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Seeking is heaven so much variety and high quality 😏
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There are plenty of sexy beautiful women here OP and classless to say otherwise.
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I tried Seeking but that site is ruined because they're so fearful of providers that you can't even discuss arrangements, etc. Also, I've never been able to get my pictures approved there. I don't think that's where successful providers have gone. I think successful providers are on Tryst, PD, Eros, etc.
As I said in another thread, HX is kind of like the Costco or BJs of provider sites. Unfortunately, while I have met several gems here client wise, we also have the overall lowest quality of client. I have to sift through a lot of frogs to find a prince here. I choose to do it but many providers of my success level would not have that kind of patience.
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Estella is dead on in her assessment. Honestly it’s the same reason I am loath to share information on good finds with other clients. So many of them think a proper intro is “rates/menu?”
Or “do you do X?”
Just try to explain that the average girl on Seeking (many of whom are here on HX as well) want to be taken on a date and then let things progress from there. It is more like a civilian experience. That fact is lost on the clientele on HX.
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Hx is still the best overall site for meet-ups.
All of the rest are " Sus " at best, and way over priced.
OnlyFans hurt the industry big time during covid as young ladies
could command big bucks for dudes in Wichita Kansas and the like,
to purchase fapping materials (Videos & Pictures), because there's no ladies
like Latinas, Asians, Black ladies, other exotic ladies in those types of markets.
Hx will always be the safest platform, and I'm tired of ladies like Estella
complaining about charging a grand an hour and no details, and then crying because there's no simps here on Hx to bite on your bait !
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CaptainMitchell,
I am not complaining and I do not charge 1k an hour.
I am explaining how having lower quality clientele does not attract higher quality providers.
I take this site for what it is and I have met good clients here. It just takes a lot more work to do so than some other sites so providers with options don't try it.
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OP can go crawl back under his rock.
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LOL. HX is Walmart. Estella was being kind saying Costco.
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HX is a platform. Each lady is a brand and that is up to her how to brand herself to reach her target market. This isn’t a homogenized group of men and women.
My target market is based on geographics, demographics. psychographics, and behavior.
It is my brand and my business and I’m committed to providing the best service to those who seek a similar style, environment, and preferences that align with what I specifically offer.
There’s a market here for what works for each person specifically.
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Doesn't mean that there isn't a typical demographic for Walmart vs. Costco vs. Nordstrom.
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I agree and I think this is a mall where they all can be found.
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Honestly I feel the scene moved over to Miami, the damages from covid are still lingering
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I dont know, making radical policy change in a good way feel so easy to me
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I was never here in 2016, but of course things were better in 2016 just in general but of course things can change for the worse
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"Just try to explain that the average girl on Seeking (many of whom are here on HX as well) want to be taken on a date and then let things progress from there. It is more like a civilian experience. That fact is lost on the clientele on HX"
And if the date works out well & it goes to sex, no charge?
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Honestly, yes, Seeking has sought to rebrand itself as some kind of dating site rather than a sugar baby site. 
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I beg you, please don't make another sequel of this blog..lol
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seeking is not all that for either side anymore also, it has been loosing members over the years
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What site has more members?
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Coming back here in 2026 and taking 4-5 year break from HX, I do notice there being a lot more agencies. Not saying agencies are good or bad, but yes there seems to be less options outside of agencies. Prices are not really that much higher given the horrendous level of inflation. I do like the safety network here and some of the clubs.
Wonder how P411 is. Wonder what clients and providers think of other sites. Some of the prices on TER are intimidating for sure and yes HX is a great value. One thing I hate to say I care less for is that a lot of photo processing is harder to detect now compared to 4-5 years ago. I provider I did not rate totally fooled me when I met them, so I guess AI processing throws me off. 2 other providers I did see ended up looking better than their photos.
All in all its still a good place. I do feel sad some of the orgy clubs closed, that's probably the worst of it.
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im not sure which has most but still more than in majority states
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HUH? Which one?
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Lmfaoooo @ costco
Because you cant find Lamborghinis at a fiat dealership for nissan prices
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Seeking also has been ruined in that time period though. It got incredibly greedy now charging $150 a month and the quality is much lower. All sorts of data stealing tools, no privacy. The strip club business also imploded and turned into a high priced brothel model only. It’s hard to say why all of this is true in a shitty economy where everything costs so much. OF doesn’t explain it since only the top couple percent of OF creators make any money. Where the girls went, who knows.
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There are no Lambos on HX. Mostly used cars and American ones at that. Chryslers and the like. Not a lot Hondas or Toyotas that have been maintained well. But some. And that’s what the effort is for.
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It all depends on what you want. Want on demand and available with so so quality? HX is your place.
If you want to find that girl you would NEVER have a chance to talk to in real life because you don’t associate with 20-something Latina girls and you are a mid 50s Asian like me…yeah, Seeking is way more gonna be your speed. Just realize you will need to do some work and actually be able to have a conversation but the end result is the same. She wants something and so do you. It just takes a different and longer route to get there.
If you want immediate gratification then Seeking isn’t for you though there are the ones that don’t care what you look like as long as they get their high exorbitant PPM rates.
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As far as whether you pay as much…varies. Met a girl on a site and so far it’s been two payments and hanging out five or six times and hooking up half those times. She doesn’t want money per se but she appreciates being taken out and me picking up a cell phone bill or some other expense. The other day I brought her an ounce of weed and she was happy.
More like a fun girl to hang with. Less a pay per meet and less a transaction.
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@greenrock Get yourself a TS
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From my perspective, I connected with incredible women on HX back in 2016 and continue to do so here in 2026. It's just a matter of taking your time and putting in the necessary research. I've yet to find another platform that even comes close to what we have here. I'm not going anywhere.
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Rug
That was my point... there arent any lambos on here because men here haggle you down to nissan prices lol
You literally called it costco for that reason and i was kust confirming that
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Just**
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Let's get serious here folks !!!
About 1/8th of 1 % of the entire population could afford to purchase, insure and maintain either a Lamborghini or Ferrari ...
Hx is Macy's on both sides of the equation ...
The male clientel here on Hx are an educated consumer, very few Simps here on Hx. You can make a lot of interest free cash here on Hx if you're a lady, you just have to focus on the end result and have a great product, great service at reasonable prices, and that will give you a great reputation and many will hear about it and will want to experience it for themselves ...
And to both male and female, don't try to get attached to each other, it's creepy from both sides ...
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For all those in the back, that is the point!
Girls, go where you get the most money for YOU
Sending all the GIRLS and BOYS - big money vibes
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and omg @June_Moon you are saying out loud what everybody sayin'! LMFAO
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First schedule an appointment with your Ophthalmologist , and then take a serious look in the mirror after your appointment --- applies to ladies and gentlemen too.
Unless Calvin Klein is hunting you down to model for them, none of us are Lambo's or Nordstrom or any other status symbol of the like.
Men with serious cash flow's don't share their ladies nor their side pieces --- let's just call it like it is.
This is an adult playground, nothing more and nothing less. Use it to advance yourselves in any way that is healthy towards reaching your personal goals. Men will always like variety and women will always like a man to repeat over and over and pay higher and higher prices regardless of your competition, and that is the major conflict in this adult playground.
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I don't care what cars people can afford, but at the end of the day, this hobby is a luxury not a requirement and most of you have wives at home
If you can't afford the restaurant, maybe try eating whats at home
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Lol @ lisa whoops 🤭
Idk i just find it wild at this point....
If you dont like someones looks or rates its not hard to still be respectful but to put a bunch of women down when you cant pull one in person is ridiculous to me
But bragging about meeting women 6 times and only paying twice is exactly why "Lamborghini's" will never be on here
How can you ask for "better quality" then in the same breath brag about not paying
That was my point thats all . If your boss tried that youd quit
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Yo, Rugmuncher -
Go enjoy Seeking (or whatever else floats your boat) and peace be with you…
but stop s*** talking Hx and discouraging ladies from operating here. Your negativity and attempts to drive things to lowest common denominator aren't helping the vibes here and good quality (if you look carefully enough) is available here.
Though I recommend sticking to the genuinely independent operators, not the agencies and bookers (unless the so-so quality you complain of is actually your thing)...
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HX was incredible from around 2016 to 2021. The site was constantly getting new women joining, many of them young, attractive, and in great shape. It was definitely a great era and something I’ll always remember.
Personally, I think COVID and the rise of OnlyFans changed everything. The site seems to be operating at a much lower level now, and a lot of the women who were around years ago have aged and still expect to get the same rates they were getting when they were younger and in better shape.
I’d say something similar happened with Plenty of Fish. Years ago, it felt like there were constantly new people joining, whereas today the user base seems much older and less active.
Regardless, roughly 2016 through 2022 were incredible years for HX.
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Correct to above comment “Private Delights” not Plenty of Fish
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One more thing I’ll add is the cost of living has also increased drastically and that could also contribute to less women able to afford expensive Hotel Rooms or to work out of Los Angeles in general.
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