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So I’m going to share a little story, and I want you guys—especially the ladies—to tell me if something like this has ever happened to you before and how you handled it.
I have a regular whose identity I’m obviously going to protect. He’s been wanting to do a threesome for a while. I don’t really know many girls from the page personally, and I’ve never done a duo with anyone from the page before. However, when I had previously posted asking about duos, a couple of girls reached out to me privately saying, “Hey, you look cute and fun. Maybe we should do doubles sometime.” I responded nicely and said, “Absolutely! Let’s stay in touch, and I’ll let you know if something comes up.”
Fast-forward to now: my regular asked me to find another lady for a duo. The plan is to take a little trip to Huntington Beach, spend a few hours at the beach, have some drinks, enjoy a nice dinner, and then head back to the room together.
He asked to see a few different ladies so he could choose based on his personal preferences. I remembered the ladies who had previously contacted me through the Hxx page, so I reached out. I explained the situation, told them what the donation would be and what was expected, and asked them to send me a couple of pictures that I could show him.
My regular happened to be on a family trip, so it took him quite a while to respond. Late that night, he finally got back to me and told me which lady he wanted to choose.
Well, apparently the person he chose was NOT the same girl who had been waiting for my response. When I let the other girl know, she responded in a way that I felt was extremely rude and unprofessional. She started making accusations, saying that this guy wasn’t really my regular and implying that he was a pimp, among other things.
I told her that I didn’t need to deal with that kind of energy and that, ultimately, I was glad she wasn’t the person chosen because clearly our personalities and energy wouldn’t have been a good match. What really bothered me was how quickly she jumped to assumptions and accusations simply because she wasn’t selected.
The whole situation left me thinking, “Wow, I’m actually glad this happened beforehand,” because I can only imagine how uncomfortable the actual appointment could have been if this was her reaction to something so simple.
Ladies, has anything similar ever happened to you when arranging a duo? How do you normally handle situations like this?
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