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AppleBottom
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you guyysss -- one of my biggest fears happened today
Aug 6 2026 03:11PM more by AppleBottom
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Being super vulnerable here but...

A guy showed up for our appointment, took one look at me, and could not have left faster. I always post current, unedited photos because I'd rather keep expectations real than surprise anyone. It definitely caught me off guard, especially since I do EVERYTHING I can to be transparent so this never happens. But now I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. (j/k, I'm fine, just makes me wonder what it was that was so off-putting to him). Thats whats going to bug me the most.

Ladies, have you ever had this happen?

No, he did not leave any donation and he was my only afternoon appt. I typically only do one morning, afternoon, and evening meeting so it is a huge chunk of my day wasted.

Yes, I know cancellations happen it was just the way this went down.
      
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littlemissalice
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Aug 6 2026 03:31PM     link to this

oh babe i'm so sorry
i had this happen to me once a long time ago
don't let it get to you - you're an absolute bombshell and he was clearly an ass
ThroatFan
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Aug 6 2026 03:38PM     link to this

His loss for sure. You're beautiful and if you were in SD, I would come over in a heartbeat.

Don't spend any more time trying to figure out a stupid mistake made by someone else.
FanTC65
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Aug 6 2026 04:23PM     link to this

From looking at your pics... I don't know what could have possibly been his problem. Wouldn't hurt to send him a message, and ask him. You've got nothing to lose. Maybe he'll shed some light, on the subject.
MyGuy
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Aug 6 2026 04:41PM     link to this

His loss.
He missed a wonderful oportunity.
loucfirr1
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Aug 6 2026 04:51PM     link to this

If it makes you feel any better I disappoint the ladies when they open the door.
HungryMan4u
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Aug 6 2026 05:04PM     link to this

As I have known AB for over a year, I can say that she is the most genuine, beautiful lady I have ever known. Her heart is pure,and her reputation is stellar.

And this one bad apple doesnt know what he was missing.

Dont let this one guy cause you any distress.

You have a legion of admirers..
SkurferGurl
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Aug 6 2026 05:13PM     link to this

WTF is going on??? That's ridiculous !!

Maybe, no definitely he got intimidated, or maybe he felt sick, suddenly got the shitz or someth'in ?
tbysstudios
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Aug 6 2026 05:49PM     link to this

I am sorry that’s not fun at all. You’re gorgeous I’ve met you at a party and thought you were a total doll. This person is just missing out, they don’t even know it.

I hope you have a better day!
a.alturez
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Aug 6 2026 06:24PM     link to this

Not gonna speculate.

I would never do that (even if warranted; I just would take the loss and make note) for the principle and consideration of the time and money aspect.

Thank you for being transparent and real.

Don't take it personally. If it was a consistent happening, then i'd say time to think about a new line of business.

FYI: one provider said she’d contact me if ever her appointment cancelled and she would offer me a special discount, so we both could be happy. Something to think about. It's never happened, for the better on her behalf.



I feel for the man that did this and I pitty the fool; definitely some kind of mental/emotional issue/s there. What did you say was his handle? JK not k. Let your ladies club know for their fyi.
Best!
artnjazz
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Aug 6 2026 06:39PM     link to this

Thanks for letting us know. Rate his ass accordingly.
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Aug 6 2026 06:46PM     link to this

Sorry that happened. Some people are all business. Just the way it is.

But we are all humans and should be able to communicate. It’s not easy, but ideally we should be free to say someone is not a persons type. Have some class no matter the situation.

Don’t worry babe, when I see you I won’t run away, I’ll come twice.
EdmondDantes
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Aug 6 2026 07:06PM     link to this

Should of said : Wait !!!


And showed him your doggy view


He surely would have stayed
asphalt
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Aug 6 2026 07:39PM     link to this

Any chance that he thought he knew you from somewhere, maybe work related and you just didn’t recognize him?
rugmuncher
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Aug 6 2026 09:14PM     link to this

Wouldn’t read into it. It’s a diverse market and you weren’t for him. Doesn’t mean anything other than that. Lots of people like you clearly.

You can’t control what idiots do. You can only control how you react to idiots. And sadly I am failing that with my response to certain morons on this site. LOL.
SydneyClaudel
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Aug 6 2026 09:21PM     link to this

Sounds like he ruined his own good time to me. Some people just have issues that have nothing to do with others. Not your fault. Not your issue. Normal people communicate with each other. His behavior is his problem.
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