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Consider this my retirement post. Well semi-retirement. I am really not going anywhere, but I won't be active. I will log on, check in on my friends and make sure the good guys in here aren't being harrassed by crazies. I will not name any names out of privacy for all of my new and awesome friends I met here. Except for Maribel. (She gave me permission to use her name in my farewell post.) I wanted to title this "It all started and ended with Maribel_310" but it didn't seem fitting, because it hasn't really ended. So I decided I'd run with "I'd break every rule in the book for Maribel_310" well, because I would! I know the rules, I know there is no emotional attachment. Keep the feels away, but in another life, I would not let her go! She is the main reason I continued this experiment of HX after being harrassed and bullied from some lunatic on my first day on the site. For those of you that don't know, I will tell you a little story.
When I created my account, I was absolutely naive. I had no idea what I was doing and it was kinda confusing to be honest, and I'd like to think I'm rather intelligent.. I roamed around, tried to get a feel and saw Maribels profile. I was hooked. I thought, okay, maybe this wil work out. I purchased one of her albums, then sent her a message. No response of course. I didn't understand this whole network thing at the time. I was discouraged and went to sleep. I woke up, went to the gym, came home and I wondered if she responded, so I logged in. No response from Maribel of course but I was lit up like a christmas tree with notifications. I thought, well this is unexpected but alright, let's check this out! It was all blogs about me. Calling me names, calling me out, accusing me of things I didn't even know how to do, and other weird shit. Just random weird ass blog post. From one person. (I choose to not mention her name, but if you look at my network, you can figure it out). I was like ahh hell nah and got ready to retort! Well, I couldn't because she rated me unsafe. She has a 5 rating, I had NONE. Boom, instant negative 3. So with a negative 3, you can't blog, and you can't respond to blog posts. So there was no way to defend myself. So I messaged her. Nothing.Messaged her several more times throughout the week, no response. So I rated her unsafe. Because what she did, was unsafe. I reached out to HX and they were cool but still said they weren't removing it. They gave me some good advise and said reach out to some new friends and build your network. Then to reach out again and they would transfer my network to a new account. I said, why not. Okay, et's keep this short, because honestly, you probably don't even care LOL! Building a network with a negative 3 is HARD. Nobody wants to see you and you can't blame them. But this felt like a challenge & I like challenges. So I started to reach out to every woman I was attracted to, and finally one beautiful little soul said okay. She asked A LOT of questions, she also tried reaching out to this lunatic to get her side of the story, but she didn't get a response either. Probably very reluctant, she said come on over, and I did. I love this woman for that. We had a blast, she rated me, and I moved on. I continued my journey till I had 4 new friends in my network and I thought let's try maribel again, and what do you know?!?! I got a response! Not the one I wanted, but I got it. She told me, in a very sweet way, "Please have 10 friends in your network and then give me a call". I thought 10!!! WOW. When I created this account, I didn't see myself going on this many dates! But hey, another challenge! Before I could even start, another amazing woman stepped in on my behalf, and she asked me my story. We chatted for a long time, and she publically called the lunatic out in a blog. She didn't have to do that. Lunatic responded to her real quick. Coming up with some random BS that made no sense. But this new friend kept at it, kept prying and prying and lunatic had nothing to say... My new friend helped me with an awesome rating as well. THEN, ANOTHER beautiful new friend reached out (this friend is WELL respected in this community) and we chatted. She determined I was indeed, safe.I crawled out from the hole of negative 3 and was back at zero. I could respond now. Lunatic was jknown for late night crazy rants, and I watched for them. Finally saw her blog something a lunatic would blog about and I went in hard. Called her a liar, told her to remove the rating and I would remove mine. The very first time she ever spoke directly to me and she said I should wear that rating like a badge of honor, and that she made me famous. LMFAO, I was in utter disbelief. How is this person a 5, I thought. After tht exchange, I left it alone per advise for my very well regarded new friend. I went about my business and got my network passed 10, I reached out to Maribel and she said let's go!
It took a while to finally meet her due to work, scheduling conflicts, locations, and, well, life. But when I did, it was perfect. It was all worth it. She is so beautiful inside and out. Her personality is infectious, and she is just so bubbly and full of smiles. She is soft, kind and sweet. She is my wife in another life for sure. My ATF, my only reason to have continued this crazy journey.
I met some amazing women, and I mean beautiful awesome amazing women. Kindness in their hearts, sweet and gentle. I also met some women that aren't so sweet. Some uncomfortable situations, some very weird conversations, and just bad experiences. I was never harmed, but there were times I wanted to run out the room. LOL There were some times I felt like a new man and some times I felt dirty. Some I still dream about, others give me nightmares. But all in all, I had a blast, and I thank Maribel_310 for sticking to her codes, and her morals. She is all I ever wanted in the beginning...
I will be around for my dudes. When I'm on, I will answer your messages. I will never not respond. It might be late, but you will get a response. I will check in on my favs, maybe a visit or two here or there, but for the super active play time. I'm done.
If any guys read this. I doubt it, but just in case. My experiences taught me that some of these women are vulnerable, very vulnerable and very brave. We all know guys can be creeps, most are. These women do something that I would never do because, well, I know guys. I know there are a lot of gentlemen out there as well. Please keep being gentlemen. Treat these beautiful women with respect and kindness. They don't need any assholes and creeps fuckin up their day...
That's it. 98% will read through this and not care. Couple of you will actually read this, and not care. All of you will see it and not even open it. That's all okay. My intention was to praise Maribel_310 as the queen she is. My queen at least.
Love you all.... Well not all 
I'll be around.
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