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Use canned responses to respond with answers to the most common questions and boom, half your day is freed up.
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You're not doing anything wrong
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I'm sure video verification and no AA helps.
Cap
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Thats normal. But maybe also Location where you are staying
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Get used to it. They will text you until your fingers fall of if you let them.
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you have 4 pictures up - as they say, a picture is worth a 1,000 words.
I complement you on showing face shots, many women don't - so that's a good thing for many guys.
However, you might get more business if you throw a candid shot in here where you are smiling & having a good time.
The pics I see of the 4, show a gal that isn't smiling.
To be blunt, I'm sure few women are here for any other reason than the money, but they are able to show their clients a good time, and that begins with giving the illusion to your clients that you are glad to see them & enjyoy their company.
Pics shown, are just sour - no guy wants to spend time with someone who dosen't want to be there & is a dead fish.
Just my two honest cents.
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questionable ratings. a female rated you in-person professional. then 2 mixed casuals. and a negative from i guess a no show
i'd give it some time.
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It's hard to tell why this is happening to you without knowing how you respond to requests for information. But the one thing that is visible to all is who you have rated and who has rated you back. There is one female in your network who has less than a stellar rep on this site at this time. It may or may not be deserved. But to some it may look like you are part of a crew that people are being warned to stay away from.
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You only have 1 guy rating since joining 4 months ago and already have 1 negative rating, that to me is a bit of a red flag, but I know others won't care about it. If your rates aren't the issue, maybe your service isn't just what they are looking for, maybe hosting in other locations would help also
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^check out the less than stellar ratings on the dude who rated her.
We'll likely be reading about him in the future.
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No reviews I'm in a few clubs but there's nothing saying you're safe or deliver service as described so maybe asked to be reviewed. Also I have a note on your profile saying No AA so I'm assuming I've reached out personally in the past but couldn't set up an appointment b/c of that rule. That'll make a bunch of guys ignore your ads in the future.
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Also your friends scream managed and have shit reputations so easy to assume you do too.
But then again I could be wrong.
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your network could be an issue.
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Yea, that.
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A whole lot of guys are shopping around. There will always be an many more initial contacts then bookings. Its partly a numbers game. Everything that was said before me should be taken very seriously. They are telling you the truth. You are the company you keep.
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I want to shed some light on this because it comes up a lot!
Now I can’t speak for all guys but but I think the majority would agree…..
We are visual so the first thing we look at is your pics. If we like those then the next thing we look for is rates/services/location. Kept in mind that this is no different from you ladies going into a store to shop (for clothes for example). First you want to make sure you like the item, then you look at the price tag, then you probably try it on to see how it fits/looks. It’s a process right?
For me I have a job where I drive around SoCal for a living. I have multiple appointments for the day and sometimes someone cancels which might give me time for a sesh and sometimes someone takes longer than expected which makes it hard to book in advance.
So for me if I like you, I ask for your rates and services and I save them in my notes. If I really want to see you then I subscribe to you. Then when my schedule provides me an opportunity then I look to see who is working in the area I’m in. Since I already know the rates and services for the girls I’m interested in, I don’t have to waste time. Plus when I do contact you I’m ready to book the apt.
Hopefully this helps ladies!
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blogging helps. anything but politics and gas prices. don't wanna piss off some guys. it's like a free ad that's not an ad. eventually someone will bite. then they'll write a review. good or bad something helps. lots of ai altered images nowadays.... recycled dated pix, clever angles, duck faces, and whatever voodoo you girls use. words from another guy is gonna worth more than 100mb of pix.
i've seen people who were rated pooly/advised to avoid but i rated higher in my own reviews. iykyk
i'm expecting blogs about in-n-out hamburgers soon
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Gbnanna....perfectly stated!
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Gbannana for the win! His post very closely resembles my experience on HX. My issue lately has been providers that either do not respond or will not share rates. I agree that pictures are key but also if you have good blog contributions it will give me incentive to check out your profile. I really appreciate gals who are transparent with their rates and services so up front I can tell whether we are a good match or they are within my budget. I respect how providers value their time and services but there needs to be alignment with personal resources.
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Use canned replies and free your time
Add more pics
I also dont see ladies who replies dont add details w.r.t. service
Not sure about your rates .. may be an issue
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To Randy’s point I will add…. That it’s not all about price. I’d prefer dfk over bbbj so I’m willing to pay a little more for someone that offers it, but….. if it’s in your menu and you don’t honor it, or it’s half assed and you avoid it, then there’s no repeat for me! I think a lot of girls sell the experience with words but don’t deliver with actions and then they wonder why they don’t have repeat customers. HX is an unforgiving place to do that because we all talk and share. There have been many that I wanted to see and then changed my mind after searching blogs
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I personally look for dfk, although I’m not much to look at. If someone even lists lfk (even with dfk too) I know I won’t get dfk. If they indicate dfk based on hygiene, I know I won’t get dfk, and I brush my teeth and floss twice a day. I think, at least from my personal experience, saying hygiene is just a way to say “connection” which is associated with attraction. And being a 3 or 4 on the 1-10 scale makes it a true rarity for me.
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There are a number of factors how most base their decisions on; the looks, the locations, the loots, and availability. If you have those balanced just right, you will be busier.
The clearer the pictures of how you look overall plays a big part as well. Obscure, partial, heavily filtered pics show that you have something to hide. Take notes from the albums of DelilahRose, ArabianQueen, PrettyKitty, LizMaiz, MissPixies, etc.
Another thing I never understand when listing has no dfk, the usual reasoning has been depending on the hygiene. But that same listing includes bbj, what's the logic in that?
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Pictures do help. Lizmaiz has 200 pics and a large network. Gorgeous.Lisa refuses to post pics and hasn't had a new network connection in 3 years.
Start 1 new pic at a time. Every time you post an ad, post a picture. When your picture falls out of the "New Uploads" section, add another pic to keep your exposure out there.
To save memory, reduce the size of your pics. A quick way to do that is text the photo to yourself. The texting app will reduce the photo. Download the photo from the text and use it to upload to HX.
If you need points to upload pictures, create an album that requires points to purchase. Just make sure that album shows more than what are in your free albums.
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Initial interest is entirely on looks.
Then it's your response and your menu/rates.
If we want to book or have follow up questions, then it comes down to how quickly you respond and then how you respond. If you are painful or bitchy or slow or just make the whole process more difficult, we lose interest.
Above all it's a numbers game. Most of us are shopping and not necessarily dead serious about booking especially if it's our first communication.
The providers who i have seen before but need a refresh on menu/rates and to see if she is available...those are usually serious inquiries and it just comes down to whether we can agree on a time and a date and of course the terms (which are established in PM or text).
Good luck. Personally I don't think there is an issue with your pics but I like curvy and busty. A nice smile helps but you weren't scowling.
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Come to NC and travel! I luv to share my friends!
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It's interesting to see the shoe on the other foot for a change 
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Great pointers for the girls on pics, menu, and location!
Gringo and rug made some great points as well.
I know this is a hard business for the girls; creating a profile, advertising, sending info, screening, scheduling, taking care of their own hygiene between clients, not know what is walking through the door and having to put a smile on and become an actress, putting up with hagglers, assholes via text, calls, in person, stalkers, etc.! That being said, when you do get the respective guys that show up groomed, clean, brushed teeth and clean breath, you should do you best to make that a repeat customer. I’ve seen so many women on here one time and would not repeat because the didn’t honor any kissing (I have straight white teeth and I bring a toothbrush and mouthwash into the room and make sure they see me use it), laid their like a dead fish, started telling me to hurry and finish 15 minutes into an hour sesh, pics were fake, attitude was bad, they stalled like crazy to kill time, wanted me to show up showered but didn’t clean up after peeing, couldn’t honor a set apt…. Just to name a few.
Others I would love to see more often but I do work a ton and my schedule can be hard to line up with.
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There are others but if you want to see a sample. of good use. of pictures take a look at Maribel_310 profile. As has been said, guys are visual. Add some explicit pictures having fun, take some pics wearing sexy lingerie, give a welcoming smile. Also keep in mind that guys check out reviews in the men's clubs and/or will reach out to guys in your network. It doesn't take but one or two bad/mediocre reviews to derail your success. Its been my long experience that when a lady is friendly and genuinely enjoys what she is doing, along with a great menu and reasonable HX rates, then she can do quite well for herself. Word gets around.
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Not everyone logs and go straight to classifieds. One of my first stops is the photos link, by uploading pics with some regularity it is a good spot to market to those that may not be subscribed yet.
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Could be the locations you’re posting your classifieds vs where you’re actually advertising. Could be generating some confusion
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Well, I think 31 helpful comments with zero response from OP paints all the picture I need here ...
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Yea thats been a growing trend around here lately. Ppl post for 'help' then they just dont follow up and/or acknowledge the other comments on said posts.
The problem is that she (as well as a lot of them) carry 'main character energy', when they simply arent. Once they swallow that pill, then hopefully they find more success.
-X-™
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Excellent question because this happens to me all day. Very annoying. I went back to not accepting new clients because it was putting me in a bad mood for the good guys.
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Pro Tips:
- When you create a blog, or add a comment to one, go back to it and click on the Subscribe button at the top. As people add comments, your Subscriptions tab at the top of HX will turn red and you can go to the Blogs sub-tab to see when the last comment was on each blog you're subscribed to.
- When you post a blog, particularly one where you are asking for advice, try to log back on within a few days to see responses.
- Engage the audience by responding to specific helpful comments. Be sure to also ignore the trolling comments.
- You should also check your Mail inbox, as some people might think you are serious about asking for advice and will send a PM directly to you instead of posting in your blog. Be sure to respond to them, even with a quick "thanks".
- Remember that part of being a member of a community is participation.
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Happens all the time. Men will hit us up while they are horny with there cock rock hard in hand hoping they get a girl to jump on it before they explode. And what happens is after trolling for a while looking at pics they explode lol.
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It happens to me all the time girl. soooooo annoying.so don't think your the only one
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In my experience you see a gal you like and you send a pm. You get the canned response and you reply and nothing for hours. Then you get the "do you want to see me?" By that time the guy is over it. If this is a business treat it like one and be punctual and respond. I also have asked what the rate is and get nothing on that either sometimes. For those gals I do not need to respond. The most important thing is to respond, respond, respond. We do our homework and want to see you. But a lot of guys can not wait hours or days for a responds. My two cents. I love this site and everyone here.
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Some nice smiles go a long way with some of us.
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Over 50 days and 39 responses later...and you are collectively covered by a good team. Now, put some teeth into it.
...or just delete your account and do over.
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Im so bad at responding but i promise that im working on it
Texts and calls are always best but im just always on the go
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Your photos have an Ai look to them. RoxyBugatti's arm tattoo is a give away.
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For me I think pics look great. Maybe it’s just guys messging u expected a different menu? Or possibly u offer everything they want, but u just not in their budget? Just keep moving forward. A few good reviews & u will have a line out the door. Not may ladies have your figure here. So guys may also just be a bit curious?
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those pics are AI
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You’re definitely not alone…a bunch of inquiries, no follow through.
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Unfortunately, due to the nature of this site, guys have to ask the questions to get the answers. That requires a lot of correspondence between parties. They may be interested, just gathering information out of curiosity, want information for future consideration, or just like getting a response from a female. Would be nice to be able to check some boxes and find what you’re looking for. There are those sites, just not this one.
My one suggestion … Take some photos in a nice, clean hotel room. Your photos don’t exhume safety, cleanliness, or independent.
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Part of it may be your pictures, which look like you host at a 2-star max motel (being generous). Those give off safety risk vibes. And as other mentioned they look at what is offered and what the value is.
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Maybe you shouldn’t start a blog asking for help and then when you get plenty of feedback, go radio silent. Just a suggestion.
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Most men are messaging 20 women at a time
Theyre just shopping around
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Thats why I love to travel to cities with hardly any other providers normally. It works well for me in NC, SC, Ohio, VA and PA. Even in Cape Cod MA during the winter, I go where no one hardly fies in the winter and its amazing. Cha ching! Btw I only load points now like 4 weeks a year in cali as so busyvwhen I do come to CA. Lilly4U my points are out but will answer back in Dec
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