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Sizzlinsam
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Why is it so hard for me to get leveled up?
Jul 11 2026 11:11PM more by Sizzlinsam
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Like I think I�m having the hardest time getting anybody on this website to actually schedule a date with me it�s insane
      
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EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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since Dec 11 2019

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Jul 11 2026 11:43PM     link to this

Run Level 5 specials

Whitelight loves you
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RandyMantooth
LA, CA
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since Mar 6 2014

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Jul 12 2026 12:17AM     link to this

I'll take a stab:
  • You have been on the site for 5 days. One guy claims you met but you never rated him back.
  • You posted another blog in your first 24 hours on the site saying that "lately" guys had been disrespectful in negotiating with you. You received some feedback from some awesome members of the community over a 24 hour period, but I don't think you bothered to check back in to thank any of them.
  • I sent you a PM asking for details on what happened, offered to help and/or look into it, and asking for your details. Your reply was just your phone number.
  • Now you are asking about leveling up as though you have already done all the hard work it takes to move up. Maybe slow down, don't worry about your level until you have met a bunch of people.
  • When you do meet people, make sure to rate them back. I suggest 2 second rating for brief encounters and rate again 2 minutes when you have combined interaction over 90 minutes. Make sure to read questions carefully, answer conservatively, and be honest in your responses.
  • Click on Clubs tab, search for N00bz and petition to join. Lots of good info there.
Have fun and stay safe.
Bassguy
Inland Empire, CA
4 blogs/182 comments
since Nov 14 2011

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Jul 12 2026 12:18AM     link to this

You’re new here. A lot of guys like to see a few network ratings before they will want to see you. Kind of a catch 22 but that’s the way it is. Make sure when you do meet someone (especially if they are a higher level) to add you to their network and offer to do the same. Don’t add anyone without permission, some people don’t want that. Join clubs, especially the noobz club. A lot of good advice there.
Good luck to you and I hope you are able to get what you want from the site. Stay safe and be well.
ColossusJones
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since Aug 21 2011

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Jul 12 2026 12:20AM     link to this

Invited. Click your red alerts above.

You will need 20 or so professional ratings to Level up to a 1. The higher the compliance score, the better.

Also, please please please, prior to seeing anyone confirm the person you are communicating with via any means outside of the site (text, email, phone) is in control of the actual profile by requiring a PM.

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Angler1
CA
90 blogs/5989 comments
since Jan 6 2008

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Jul 12 2026 06:44AM     link to this

There are a lot options available.
IfYouKnew
OC, CA
0 blogs/359 comments
since Sep 5 2005

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Jul 12 2026 11:19AM     link to this

Level 5 specials are the best.... Love them !!!!! 😍
loucfirr1
LA, CA
216 blogs/27829 comments
since Jun 29 2008

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Jul 12 2026 12:23PM     link to this

Take an XP pot!
passionateone
Irvine, OC, CA
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since Apr 1 2013

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Jul 12 2026 12:34PM     link to this

RandyMantooth seems to have the answers!

She has one rating and wants to move up? What am I missing? 🤣
hrnymrdmn75
Anaheim, OC, CA
181 blogs/1706 comments
since May 17 2012

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Jul 12 2026 12:57PM     link to this

I concur, level 5 specials!
RickyRed
OC, CA
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since May 20 2022

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Jul 12 2026 01:19PM     link to this

Honestly, nobody gives a flying fuck what your level is. Do you think us dudes give a shit about a little number by your name on this website?
dznutzgg
Santa Ana, OC, CA
20 blogs/498 comments
since Mar 16 2026

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Jul 12 2026 01:24PM     link to this

forget lv 5 specials. do 5 dollar specials
butthead_5150
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since Jan 30 2016

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Jul 12 2026 02:26PM     link to this

Thank you OP for making my day







You've been here, the better part of five minutes, and you can't figure out why you didn't level up.

I'll give it to you in a nutshell.

You didn't fucking see anybody..


PappyVW
LA, CA
55 blogs/872 comments
since May 23 2012

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Jul 12 2026 02:46PM     link to this

Good advise from all!
loucfirr1
LA, CA
216 blogs/27829 comments
since Jun 29 2008

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Jul 12 2026 02:50PM     link to this

Thanks pappy!
rugmuncher
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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since Feb 13 2017

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Jul 12 2026 03:03PM     link to this

I don’t know why anyone cares about levels
HoundDawg
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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since Jul 30 2010

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Jul 12 2026 03:10PM     link to this



'Why is it so hard for me to get leveled up?'


That's what she said! lol
HoundDawg
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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since Jul 30 2010

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Jul 12 2026 03:13PM     link to this


Also, a watched pot doesn't boil! lol
maleinocca
OC, CA
18 blogs/294 comments
since Oct 11 2012

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Jul 12 2026 05:15PM     link to this

This is funny
tompetres
OC, CA
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since Jul 11 2025

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Jul 12 2026 09:27PM     link to this

RandyMantooth
LA, CA
458 blogs/4901 comments
since Mar 6 2014

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Jul 13 2026 07:14PM     link to this

I'll give the site $5 if they blog restrict Bigjoe7.
DelilahRose
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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since Dec 27 2012

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Jul 14 2026 06:52PM     link to this

Ill give the site more than that if they restrict joe
scotty949
OC, CA
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since Sep 2 2023

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Jul 15 2026 01:01AM     link to this

Never, ever listen to anyone who tells you to "give Level 5 specials" (or any level, for that matter). In fact, don't listen to any guy who tries to convince you that you should offer discounts or extras because of your rating.

Here's the secret: if you're safe, honest, enjoy what you do, and do it well, you'll be just fine.

The levels don't really mean anything for women. They're more for men who are looking at women. The only value in a man's rating is that it can help you feel a little more comfortable inviting someone into your room because other women have seen him, and he's been rated as safe. That's it. Nothing more.

Your rating does not define your value.

If you feel like things aren't working, reach out to other women. Ask what has worked for them, get feedback, and see if there's something you could do differently. But never lower your worth or trade yourself for a number on a rating scale.


Good luck.
Devin_Peridot
LA, CA
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since Jan 11 2020

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Jul 15 2026 08:31AM     link to this

Scotty949 just gave me a lady boner
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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since Dec 11 2019

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Jul 15 2026 08:46AM     link to this

Level 3 , 4 and 5 specials is the only way you will ever level up.


There's no denying the fact that volume is needed to level up.


It's usually 100 dudes per level.
Kaelyn97
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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since Jul 18 2024

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Jul 15 2026 01:26PM     link to this

You're definitely not the only one. It seems like a lot of people on these sites want pen pals instead of actually meeting. I stopped investing so much into endless texting. If they're genuinely interested, they'll make the date. The right people won't make scheduling a simple date feel impossible.
June.Moon
CA
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since Jul 1 2021

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Jul 15 2026 03:04PM     link to this




Thank you scotty i swear common sense is so sexy! You dont need level specials at all


June.Moon
CA
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Jul 15 2026 03:05PM     link to this

There are certain ladies and gentlemen who can make you level up with one rating. You dont need to see a lot of people you just have to know who to see


Levels mean nothing and if anything they benefit men more than women.
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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since Dec 11 2019

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Jul 15 2026 05:58PM     link to this

Levels do matter !!!


Everyone aspires to be a Level 5 --- only the few studs / studettes actually make it !!!


June.Moon
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Jul 15 2026 06:14PM     link to this

I was a level 5 twice and it never was something to brag about


Some men use it to go after new women. Others use it to get into clubs that are level restricted. Other than idk why people bother caring
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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since Aug 10 2015

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Jul 15 2026 06:16PM     link to this

Lol
AppleBottom
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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since Nov 28 2025

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Jul 15 2026 10:11PM     link to this

Girl, I had to have 40 ratings before I got to level 1. Yes, I had ample level 4 and 5s. Once I hit level 1 I jumped to level 2 with 1-2 additional ratings. I was only Level 1 for a day or two.

I am convinced someone is back there deciding who levels up and when. haha. (joking) Good luck!
check57
LA, CA
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since Jul 1 2008

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Jul 15 2026 10:22PM     link to this

I second everything Scotty949 said.

Spot on!
rugmuncher
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jul 15 2026 11:38PM     link to this

@june is right.

The whole obsession with levels is silly. Basically the ONLY value it has is to tell you whether someone is experienced or not. That's it.

So let's say I put out a message saying "hey, I am trying to see if anyone might have interest in X, Y or Z" and I want to target it to people who are established in this community, then the levels might be some kinda indicator. Otherwise, they are basically fucking Pokemon or NFTs (remember those fucking things?)...having value only to the bigger sucker who thinks they are worth something.
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 07:45PM     link to this

I totally disagree !!!


Levels means something, it means dude is active, dude has a reputation, dude probably has a great job and can afford to play, dude is probably top notch healthy and has great insurance, dude is reliable and on time and not full of drama, need I go on ?


Levels are meaningful on both sides of the equation --- Male & Female


Don't ever forget it either !!!


Hx Rules and all else drools !!!
Woodhobby
OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 10:00PM     link to this

Blog is 10 days old and you haven’t participated in the discussion at all. You asked for help, then left the room.
dznutzgg
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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since Mar 16 2026

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Jul 17 2026 12:09AM     link to this

ghosted... or ghoster?
RandyMantooth
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Jul 17 2026 02:51PM     link to this

Pro tip:
After creating a blog, open it and click the Subscribe button at the top. As people add comments, your Subscriptions tab at the top of HX will turn red. Click it and go to the Blogs tab to find which blogs you subscribed to have been updated since you last checked.
June.Moon
CA
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Jul 18 2026 12:42PM     link to this


I know some shitty and shady level 5s and my fave clients are level 1s




Pk100 has a bunch of positive ratings even though he has been called out for having 12 handles.



Levels dont mean anything other than someone has saw you but it doesnt determine if someone is safe
June.Moon
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Jul 18 2026 01:04PM     link to this

I should be clear because the ratings are not completely useless and they do serve a purpose.... However, my point is that I don't want women to get on here thinking that levels are everything. Thats how you get taken advantage of because you dont know better. There are high level men and women who seek after newbies to use their level as leverage to manipulate




I was simply saying that its best to get on here and have fun with whoever you see rather than focusing on trying to level up.



You will love what you do more when you see good people no matter what their levels are. There are some amazing level 1 2 and 3 men that are incredible. Dont pass them up either
AppleBottom
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Jul 18 2026 01:15PM     link to this

June is right. There are some INCREDIBLY WONDERFUL men out there (not sure where they've all been hiding the last 2 decades of my life . <3 ) But don't let a guy take advantage of you because a rating from him will level you up (or he claims it will). Make note of how many 0,1,2s are in their network. If the majority are lower levels, and there is a constant stream of new ratings, you may want to ask another girl about him before continuing that conversation.
R1cochet
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Jul 18 2026 01:18PM     link to this

Sizzlinsam, pm me your number so we can network together
butthead_5150
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Jul 18 2026 02:43PM     link to this

R1cochet

I sent you fifty points so you can buy some mail or p m privileges.

That way you can pm her yourself. For one day anyhow.
R1cochet
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Jul 18 2026 04:00PM     link to this

Good looking out. Thank you much butthead
Sylviaeuphoric
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Jul 18 2026 05:17PM     link to this

You havent seen a soul
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