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Ugh that’s so lame. I’m sorry they flaked.
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Me too - It makes me sad bc they had to ruin it for the good guys.
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AB. You don’t deserve that. You provide such a caring and wonderful session, not sure why any guy would flake on you.
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Of course I know you have that amazing smile on your face, since I don’t think I have ever seen you not smiling. There are lots of good guys here who don’t flake.
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I mean, I try. I want everything to be genuine, relaxed, fun and satisfying for us both! I don't enjoy myself unless you do.
Anyways, I'm over it. I just needed to vent. I feel much better now. 
It will get made up for one way of another.
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You are a fave of min e and I havent even seen you yet. The eyes. Looking forward to a look-up gaze when youre near me.
Yes, sorry those dudes flaked. Thats why Im diligent with my plans and communication so I dont miss the appointment. Business is business and people should be respected. Time is mulah.
Just take it on the chin and be firm in your profile that your time is important. Good guys will come.
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I'm sorry.
Their loss.
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That is the AB I know…..sexy, positive , up beat and lots of fun.
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I’m sorry that’s been the outcome so far, every provider has been there at some point and it suck. I will say that I do think you could’ve marketed better for this trip, and I hope you took my advice in PM as respectfully as I intended. There are plenty of factors that can play into a trip being unsuccessful, but sometimes it’s definitely not utilizing the tools on here to have these trips work better in your favor 🥰
I started on here at 18. I have learned a bit over the years. Lol
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Theres a blog on here from me where I literally said i would never go to ontario again for that reason.
I can say that i just left ontario and was insanely busy but you definitely have to keep your profile and ads consistently updated. Ontario has ALWAYS been on my least fave list until now so try not to give up on them just yet. We still have a love/hate relationship but i am glad that i gave it another try because it definitely put them on my must visit again soon list
You did really well last time and sometimes not every city will be perfect every time. Just gotta roll with the punches and try again. It definitely sucks when people lack decency of respect to communicate but don't let that effect you. You are such a wonderful woman and i know the men in OC are going to make up for those jerks
Heeeeey ontario!!! Get it together!! What the heck guys
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Its bound to happen good trips , bad trips. Sometimes those polls dont depict the truth really.. Generally though Ontario is good. As with any biz it can be busy,busy,slow,busy.. its all about timing too.
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Title of ad for Ontario is kinda angry sounding. Just saying
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right , it goes both ways. I have experienced woman flaking or being late.. its not a big deal..
it's a big yawn
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Bummer. I'm sorry your trip to Ontario didn't go as expected. Cancelations and flaking is part of the hobby. It often goes both ways unfortunately.
Wishing you better luck on your next trip. I'll be out that way next week. Maybe our schedules will synch up for a meet. Your vibe feels genuine.
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I get a thrill out flaking 😆
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If you’ve heard so many similar stories about how bad Ontario is why would you even think about coming out to the location ? That makes no sense. By you own admission you trip was a wash so you didn’t lose any money, you didn’t make any money ok.
You come to Ontario knowing full well that there are issues and when they turn out to be true you blame the location, the clients and you don’t accept any blame for you own decision.?
I just looked in the Ontario classified seems to be pretty busy with providers.
Ms. DR is correct there are gonna be good days and there are gonna be bad days, to blame the location knowing what you said you knew about the location you have only one person to blame.
Stay with what works for you LA and the OC
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Thanks loves. All helpful comments and advice is very much appreciated. 
I felt the need to vent because it appears to be a recurring issue for other ladies as well. I obviously know this comes with the territory.
I felt I advertised it plenty (maybe I did not - I am still learning). I created a poll as to where to go next. After several weeks, Ontario won (in both polls I had up). There were over 60 votes for the area between the two. That's the reason I came to visit. It was mentioned on my profile a week prior and on all my previous classifieds last week (once I booked the hotel and finalized dates).
This avenue was suggested to me to help decide where to visit. I can only assume this avenue works more so than not as most ladies profiles have either a poll or advance notice of where they will be and when when. I've noticed they are always up to date.
I am here for almost a week so that's ample time to link up. I'm not desperate for visitors. I've had several fun and fulfilling meetups while I've been here and I do have a few others in the coming days.
I know everyone including us girls miss or cancel appts from time to time and things come up last minute. I guess I just noticed it's been a bit of a recurring thing here, and it felt like a good opportunity to remind the guys that we girls really do make an effort to make it easy for people to come visit us. There is usually a lot of thought, planning, and effort on our side to make it as easy and convenient as possible to visit us.
(K9 - I'm not sure why you feel the need to comment on my posts given our last conversation. I would have reminded you privately of this however, you blocked me from messaging you. I very kindly ask you to refrain from commenting on my posts as I have respected your wishes to do the same).
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The polls are kinda meh, I do em. For instance Pasadena won mine but when I went there not so much. So I take it into account, but its unreliable unfortunately
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The polls are for decoration. Idk but i assume its the same guy or guys voting. Dont rely on it because its pretty inaccurate
I also think other girls vote to throw ladies off. It has never helped me but i did like having it up
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Ahh - ok! I figure it's not foolproof. Bummer you had a similar outcome over there last.
I think I just needed to get that little rant out of my system. More than anything, I wanted it to serve as a reminder that we girls really do try to make things easy on the guys—we put in the effort, plan ahead, and genuinely look forward to seeing our regulars and meeting some new people.
In any event, I'm staying through Saturday morning. I'm already here and planned for the stay. Im good with whatever happens moving forward.
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Really? It only lets me vote once. After that it tells me, "I'm sorry, you've already voted in this poll."
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AB sorry but you shouldn’t vent about something that you yourself created. It’s like complaining about not getting a job you know you are not qualified for.
If you want to open up why I blocked you feel free. I’ll be more than happy to defend my reasons for doing so.
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I don't want this post to get out of hand. I'm fine. My point was made. The frustration is out of my system.
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I texted you
Glad everything worked out in the end.
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K9 - Please respect my wishes. Again, I am respecting yours. We are adults. I don't have the desire, time nor the energy to engage with you or this any further. Be well.
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AB since you are keeping this taking the high road and my comment as a personal affront to you when all I was doing was pointing out the obvious you are also to blame for this.
Then you bring up the fact that I BLOCKED YOU. Well why did I block you AB? You did the exact same thing to me in COSTA MESA that you are complaining about here. Remember ? We set up a meet at YOUR location in COSTA MESA . I informed you that it was at least an hour drive for me to get to you due to distance and traffic and I would text you about 90 minutes before so things were still good. You didn’t respond when I did that. When you finally did respond you asked to push the appointment to an hour later. This was because you were so busy the night before and you are not a morning person . Remember that? I suggested making it another day/time and you said NO you just needed another hour and like a fool I agreed, then that hour came and went and when you contacted me again you asked for another extension and foolishly I agreed but then when that hour also came and went . When you get ahold of me again to ask for additional time we are now in a 3 hour delay from the original time of our 9 am meeting it takes me at least an hour to get there and an hour back .
Then you try to make it sound like you are doing me a favor because it’s such a long drive for me and I had other things to do that day.. Remember that? Yes I cancelled and blocked you for good reason. No I will not stop commenting on your blogs when you are complaining or venting about how you were treated when you’ve participated in the exact same treatment. That’s called being a HYPOCRITE.
Sorry AB I’m not going to kiss you butt over your self inflicted woe is me story.
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 Oh my God. You do like to rope that high horse and take it for a gallop, don't you?
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When I had a poll on my profile, Ontario was always the highest voted.
It seems to be done by a bot.
I would refresh the poll every week, And every time, within 1 minute, a vote for Ontario was applied immediately. I think some individuals use them as a way to mess with us.
And yes for some reason my experience is usually the same, and not worth it to come back. Many other great cities and people to visit instead
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Personally, I believe utilizing our private clubs for availability and establishing regulars is a safe free bet
Cap
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Whoever the guy was that you had seen twice before, and booked a 4 hour session and failed to show up = That's who you should be pissed at !!!
That's not cool at all, and that one event alone turned your visit into a break even scenario.
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Feel free to message me wenever for all of my tips. I know u mentioned u think u did enough advertising for this trip but i disagree. You didn’t even have an ad up in Ontario until a day or so after arriving. That alone played a huge part, in my opinion. Some rookie mistakes made which is to be expected when still fairly new. Live & learn.
A lot more should’ve been done before and during the trip to help get you booked, especially being in Ontario. I’m only chiming in to try to help. Again, this is just from experience over the years. Marketing is majorrrrr *to me* & that includes pics as needed (unless u just love taking pics like me and always post them regardless lol)
I hope the remainder of your trip is fun & makes up for it 🌹💕
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In Ontario's defense, it is Ontario!
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What kind of Iron Horse books for four hours?
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I too have had a LOT of requests to visit Ontario and when I do, Crickets. Ive taken it out of my regular rotation. I might visit again if I advertise and get 1 or 2 decent prebookings before I go but in my experience most bookings in the area are last minute.
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