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Insatiable.Ice
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Possibly a dumb question...
Jun 18 2026 10:47PM more by Insatiable.Ice
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As ya'll know I have been a little out of the loop for a while...and things have changed a bit.

I remember when cash was the only way. But with everything going digital, do any ladies or gents prefer apps like cashapp and venmo?

I think I will always prefer cash, personally. At the same time I am willing to accommodate friends with other preferences.

Thoughts?
      
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dznutzgg
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Jun 18 2026 11:06PM     link to this

I've done both. No preference
1Key
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Jun 18 2026 11:13PM     link to this

no preference
KAPRICE
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Jun 18 2026 11:35PM     link to this

I know its smart to stay away from PAypal as they can reverse or hold funds. In that realm I think Zelle is about the best Because they don't make any report to the IRS for transactions. Whatever service you use get it out of their hands quick and into your account so there is no funny business.
June.Moon
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Jun 19 2026 01:20AM     link to this

Cash only.



Also stay away from men with multiple handles



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ntshadows
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Jun 19 2026 01:53AM     link to this

Cash is KING
littlemissalice
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Jun 19 2026 08:02AM     link to this

Cash app and Zelle will show your real name
Just a warning
angel.88
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Jun 19 2026 08:10AM     link to this

I did meet one girl that only took digital because she had been burned by fake bills. Other than that I find zelle convenient as I do not carry cash at all on me.
FlappyNutSack
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Jun 19 2026 08:19AM     link to this

Convenient or not I don’t think leaving an electronic trail of payments tied to my name is helpful
prufrock10
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Jun 19 2026 08:24AM     link to this

Co-sign with Flappy. Madness to use anything but cash.
AFMadness
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Jun 19 2026 08:32AM     link to this

You leave a footprint and can be tracked everywhere you go these days. Why add to it.

Cash is really a Queen, cause she likes inflation so much all the while her purchasing power goes down.

Gold and Silver are the Kings. Cause they keep up with inflation.

Buy the dip and Keep stacking, as they say.
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loucfirr1
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Jun 19 2026 08:34AM     link to this

So you saying give her a gold coin?
AFMadness
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Jun 19 2026 08:49AM     link to this

A 10th Oz. maybe. Gold Backs are a nice gift.

Silver rounds stamped .999 at 65$ today about five or 6 of them. Course cash is more manageable, and they may not be trying to save for retirement.
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bbysr
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Jun 19 2026 09:48AM     link to this

I did not know that about cash app. Thank Littlenissalice
remo_williams
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Jun 19 2026 09:59AM     link to this

I only do cash.

Simple, easy - no possibility of being traced.

I don't do deposits for the same reason - why should I?
roryunderwood2
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Jun 19 2026 12:20PM     link to this

Good afternoon,

Indeed, Cash is King.

It's clean, No traces, records, hassle, evidence, paper (digital) trails.

Regards

Rory
Ghost11
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Jun 19 2026 01:27PM     link to this

Littlemissalice you can actually have a fake name on cash app not on zelle or venmo.
DahliaLove
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Jun 19 2026 01:29PM     link to this

Cash is preferred.. but be sure to check it.

Electronic is convenient! but there are fees.

Deposit are necessary with some HX members... and all non members.

Either way.. get it 1st


cryozon
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Jun 19 2026 01:39PM     link to this

This is a good use case for direct person to person crypto.
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Jun 19 2026 02:57PM     link to this

Cash is King
DelilahRose
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Jun 19 2026 05:02PM     link to this

+100000 Junemoon
jazz51
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Jun 19 2026 05:04PM     link to this

Cash makes all the sense in the world, as long as guys are not passing counterfeit bills.
makinbacon
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Jun 19 2026 07:02PM     link to this

Take whatever form you are comfortable with; if someone wants to meet up, they will figure out a way.
TNBE
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Jun 20 2026 01:14AM     link to this

Cash is always the Best, but make sure you know how to identify fake bills...Some of the girls at the

Strip Club I worked at got some fake ones and were stuck with them...
butthead_5150
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Jun 20 2026 04:05AM     link to this

Oh my
OP is an OG
Insatiable.Ice
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Jun 24 2026 11:03AM     link to this

Seems the consensus is still cash....I used to carry a money pen lol

I never cared for electronic payments but I wanted to check in with everyone. Thank you all for your input!!

Gold/silver coins.... Those can be faked and I don't have a pen for that!! LOL
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