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lexxus_shae
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Jun 18 2026 07:52PM more by lexxus_shae
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

What are some of the rookie mistakes and/or BEST words of advice concerning this arena of expertise? Asking for a friend - jk the friend is me ! Xx thank you !
      
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NigelCollins68
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Jun 18 2026 08:19PM     link to this

Loucfirr1's jizz is like Gorilla Glue. If you don't wash it off of your face within sixty seconds, it's permanent.
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jun 18 2026 08:37PM     link to this

worst advice: specials

best advice: be clean and courteous and dont take shit personally
RandyMantooth
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Jun 18 2026 08:48PM     link to this

I suggest
  1. Ignore troll comments in public blogs.
  2. When Alice gives advice, take it.
  3. Don't put your phone number in your ads or profile, only give it to people via PM you have already screened
  4. When you receive a text from an unknown number claiming to be someone from HX, insist that they prove they control that account by sending you a PM or flirt, or change their profile page to add your name to the I'd Like To Meet section. If they refuse, send that profile a PM letting them know someone is claiming to be them from whatever number they texted from.
  5. Have fun and stay safe
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littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jun 18 2026 09:00PM     link to this

all good ones randy
lexxus_shae
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Jun 18 2026 09:09PM     link to this

Thank you!!! Haha Nigel- noted
TheWickedWitch
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Jun 18 2026 10:24PM     link to this

Best is clean room nothing out of place. Be ready 5 min before . Do not smell of anything perfume no. No tv. Have light light music. Have towels. Smile
Worst. Smelling of perfume or Mary Jane. Not being ready. Not smiling
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Jun 19 2026 01:26AM     link to this

Make a Playlist for different time frames

30 min
60 min

Etc


That way you can keep track of the time without constantly looking at a clock or using an alarm (which can be off putting).. that way you know that when the music is done, so are you




Most hotels give you bags in the ice buckets. Use that for your trash and keep it out of view




Mostly... have fun!! Stay focused on the positives and good people that you meet.
DodgerGuy1
Carlsbad, San Diego, CA
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Jun 19 2026 06:51AM     link to this

TheWickedWitch has the perfect advice for a providing a great start to a session.

Add in Alice's and you have the secret of navigating HX
yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jun 19 2026 08:08AM     link to this

I too like the Wicked Witches comments..
Nothing turns me off more than walking into a room and seeing and smelling the remnants of a previous visitor...enough to make one do an about face...
JuanVaSmash
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Jun 19 2026 08:32AM     link to this

Be true to your menu have current pics not ps or angled in the right lighting
BillyBobJackson
Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jun 19 2026 10:45AM     link to this

good hygienne , minimize clock watching- but make sure gents are respective your time, and space out appointments to give yourself time to clean room, self/freshen' up, ...good service-clean lady parts- reasonable rates will keep repeat clients.
mrsweat69
Torrance, Coastal, LA, CA
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Jun 19 2026 11:52AM     link to this

Must agree 100% with TheWickedWitch, LittleMissAlice and RandyM

Be punctual and treat the client or provider with the same respect and attention you would want for yourselves.

Hygiene is very important. You have no idea how good it feels when a lady mentions that you always smell good, arrive freshly showered, and look impeccable. We appreciate it just as much when women make an effort to look their best for us, rather than greeting us in casual street clothes or with dirty feet from walking around barefoot.

Don't keep clients waiting too long once an appointment time has been set. There is nothing worse for raising anxiety, after battling traffic in LA or OC to arrive on time, than having to wait more than 30 minutes after receiving a text saying, "just 5 more minutes, please."
jazz51
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Jun 19 2026 12:00PM     link to this

When you send that "I just need 5 more minutes" text, ask yourself, is this really only going to take 5 minutes?

Be honest and up front. If you are truly running late, share that with the guy and give an honest assessment of the actual time. If it is going to be more than 15-20 minutes or so, you might want to offer a little extra time to keep the guy willing to wait.
hyder
SGV, LA, CA
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Jun 19 2026 12:02PM     link to this

By the look of your backside, you will do well here. Listen to Alice.....EVERYONE loves her.
Woodhobby
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Jun 19 2026 09:44PM     link to this

- Be at the door WAITING for our arrival. Nothing worse than standing outside a door and having to nervous smile at housekeeping or the family walking down the hall (the dad knows what is us).
- As said already, keep us informed if going to be late. If more than a few minutes, in may be better for us to wait off site and return.
- No perfumes or heaving scents in the room.
- Sharing a room with someone that is waiting in the restroom.
- No dirty rooms during visit or in photos. I do not want to see your medicine, cremes, pipes, food, etc.
- Turn off phone during session.
AppleBottom
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jun 19 2026 11:32PM     link to this

One thing I learned early on, people will shower at your house. At first, I was so confused. I remember thinking, “Why is everyone using my shower?” A few weeks later, someone explained it to me, and it made perfect sense. But at the time, I was completely new to this world.

Now I have a full setup at home for guests. Their own towels, washcloths, toothbrushes, mouthwash, Q-tips, men's deodorant spray, face lotion, face wash, men's shampoo, mints, water, and even nice thick hand towels. I also have my cleaning girl come once a month.

I know some people say you shouldn't host out of your home, but I've never had any issues. I'm very selective about who I meet, I screen thoroughly, and I only invite over people I feel comfortable with.

As someone who started out knowing absolutely nothing about this hobby, I've learned a lot of dos and don'ts along the way. I've also been fortunate enough to meet some genuinely amazing people.

One important safety tip: make sure guests put their phones and personal items away. I've heard of women who keep a basket by the door and ask men to place their belongings in it so there's no concern about recordings.

If you travel, a lint roller is your best friend. And tip hotel housekeeping well—they will give you anything you need.

In my experience, the men I've met have been very respectful. One thing that surprised me was how giving most are. I think all but a couple have gone down on me. Be prepared for that. You'll get over any insecurity you have quickly. haha!

Also, get a Google Voice number. It's a simple way to maintain privacy and keep communication separate.

Most importantly, have fun!
AppleBottom
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Jun 19 2026 11:39PM     link to this

JAZZ! lol. I am notoriously bad about running a few minutes behind. I could have 5 hours to do what takes 20 minutes and still run out of time. However, I do let guys know ahead that I may be running a few behind. Where the time goes - I do not know. I only see more than on person a day when I travel and I leave HOURS between. It's my life's greatest mystery and I still find myself forgetting to drink water and eat half the time. I don't clock watch though so hopefully I make up for it. (I'm sorry).
jazz51
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Jun 19 2026 11:54PM     link to this

Applebottom, I wasn’t referring to you. You have great communication, I know exactly what is happening.
AppleBottom
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Jun 20 2026 12:13AM     link to this

I know - I was calling myself out. haha
jazz51
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Jun 20 2026 12:29AM     link to this

Applebottom you are so open and honest. I love your candor.
Parsec77
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Jun 21 2026 01:35AM     link to this

I might take crap for this one - dont soften, AI, or touch up profile photos. I know some ladies can be insecure about their bodies in this crazy arena. I can understand that. Nobodys perfect. I find it sexy and attractive when a lady is demonstrating her natural self. This is for all shapes, sizes and ages. Be who you are. We love it.

Im kind of a cheese ball romantic. Bite me. Lol
lexxus_shae
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Jun 21 2026 06:35AM     link to this

These are amazing thank you so much!!! I am always striving to be better! I definitely can utilize all of this into my routine. Xx
axg258
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Jun 21 2026 08:30AM     link to this

Menu
Make sure you are comfortable with what you’re offering on your menu. For example, Greek ..message the guy that you would really enjoy it, but when you meet the session starts and the guy ask you about it you tell him you really don’t enjoy or do it.. just be more accurate your menu
hotride
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Jun 21 2026 08:35AM     link to this

Best / Worst?

Hi Miss Lexxus,

Thank you so much for offering to help me with the impersonation issue. I tried to reply to your message, but your PMs appear to be blocked.

Could you please open your private messages so we can connect and discuss this further? I'd really appreciate your help in getting this sorted out.

Thanks again,
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Jun 21 2026 08:44AM     link to this

A few more pics, a full length standing in a door way and or mirror.
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Jun 22 2026 03:53PM     link to this

Go with your gut feeling. Always.
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Jun 22 2026 09:21PM     link to this

With your service, you got nothing to apologize for AB
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Jun 22 2026 09:40PM     link to this

Have fun and enjoy the time at your own pace and comfort level. We are grateful to spend time with you beautiful women when we we visit you.
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