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HelenaUlinova
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It finally happened to me
Jun 10 2026 12:54PM more by HelenaUlinova
Tags: San Diego , Random (All tags)

You know how there is always inevitable drama between a provider getting an advance and then ghosting the dude on here? And how the chick claimed last time she "fell asleep." And everyone was like, "bullshit you lying ass bitch."

Well last night I had a 9pm prepay the day before for their FBSM after sending me their screening deposit.

I fell asleep and didn't text him instructions on how to get to me until 15 minutes before our appointment! This poor man probably thought I was some POS who got his deposit and his prepayment cashapps and then ghosted him.

He was so understanding, not even slightly upset, and because i gave him my region the day prior had driven to my part of town and was hanging out in a parking lot waiting to hear from me.

If only all people could be so benevolent.

I am finally one of those napping ass hoes who falls asleep and fucks some guy over. Almost! I was so close anyways. 15 minutes to spare & the world's most relaxed client gave me an out.
      
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June.Moon
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Jun 10 2026 01:47PM     link to this

Youre human and allowed to make mistakes. It's great that you reached out to him and explained


Everyone needs a little kindness and understanding these days. I am glad everything was properly resolved.
blueyedpasadena
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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Jun 10 2026 01:50PM     link to this

"napping ass hoes"

That's genius


Jennsowett
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jun 10 2026 02:26PM     link to this

I agree, youre human! Dont be so hard on yourself..it happens. Whats important is you owned it. And lucky you to have such an understanding client..he's a keeper!
remo_williams
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Jun 10 2026 02:33PM     link to this

Glad it turned out well for everyone.

I kinda always assume that the 'napping' excuse, while might be legitimate in some instances (like here), I would think its more common to use that excuse for other reasons that might not fit into the narrative that sells.

Case in point, I had a gal one time that while not ghosting me, was "just 15 more minutes" till I can meet you - long story short, that 15 minutes stretched out to near an hour before she admitted that she was waiting on a babysitter, who never showed.

Buzzkill!!!

Point being, some gals might use the easy excuse of falling asleep - to let a gent down easier rather than the truth of the situation.

I didn't, nor would I likely give any red marks for life happening - the average lady here's life is far more complicated & stressfull than mine I think.

Gents give the ladies a break here when they can't meet as intended for one reason or another.
lawforza1
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Jun 10 2026 02:42PM     link to this

I did same to Phucdover (no pun intended). Sent her text and before I was about to provide her my address I fell asleep.

Now though I want to see her I feel bad and do not know how to make it up to her. Consider this my open letter of apology Phucdover. Im sorry!

xo

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DahliaLove
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Jun 10 2026 04:02PM     link to this

^ cash is king.
Madcatz27
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Jun 10 2026 04:43PM     link to this

Its ok and understandable to make mistake,as long as you are a honest person.
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