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SmartK9
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Am I or you A SIMP or just a FOOL
May 13 2026 09:18AM more by SmartK9
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I saw this term SIMP used in a recent recycled blog and I had no idea what it meant. So I had to look it up.

A SIMP is a slang term for a man who exhibits sympathy, attention, or deference toward another person, often in pursuit of a romantic or sexual relationship WITHOUT RECIPROCATION .

Now I must say in first reading this I was proudly going to profess my allegiance to the SIMP community. I even considered starting a SIMP club. Our motto a Club of Givers. Now I must admit I have given multiple gifts to individuals in appreciation of the mere fact they are seeing me. I’ve given gifts , points etc to members that hate me I don’t consider them my enemies. I’ve never asked for any benefit for my gift giving. Thirty, 40 years ago I was a catch, not so much now. So in the literal definition of a SIMP am I or any you a SIMP or just a FOOL?

For me personally I’m leaning to just being an old FOOL.

Feel free to lambast me I won’t respond to any comments

However, I will leave you with this one question

Which one are you?
      
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Tiffanyy213
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May 13 2026 10:12AM     link to this

My fav 😇
littlemissalice
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May 13 2026 10:12AM     link to this

i also simp for a ton of ladies here there is no shame i would join your club
EdmondDantes
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May 13 2026 10:21AM     link to this

Yeah, please start a club so we clown all of your members



You definitely must turn in your man card if you consider yourself a Simp !
SkurferGurl
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May 13 2026 10:24AM     link to this

Simply a fool.
S3Rider
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May 13 2026 10:45AM     link to this

K9 don't let the haters get to you. The act of giving for self gratification has gone out the window. Everyone expects some type of return on their "investment." A little kindness goes such a long way and it shows so many people don't understand that. Like "TakE AwaY HIs mAN cArD" remember when it was manly to be a gentleman? It's also not worth arguing the point since people are already set in their ways.
Tiffanyy213
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May 13 2026 10:53AM     link to this

^ Exactly. Men on here a lot of the time just feel entitled.
I prefer a real gentleman and that’s all I will see. I pass on so many men for not even properly greeting me when PM’ing.
Ladies don’t be afraid to be selective! We deserve more than just common decency for all we give
HungryMan4u
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May 13 2026 10:58AM     link to this

It can also be said that codependence enters into this definition.
Giving of yourself to others is a noble gesture without anticipation of reward.
The gift of giving should not be described as a failure of manhood as others here allude to.
AFMadness
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May 13 2026 11:04AM     link to this

ElonAires on FB can answer that Q.

I happens to most of us when we don't know. Mostly cause it's what Hollywood teaches and you thought it was the correct way.

It depends on where one's Free Will lays. But still can lead to heart break.
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EdmondDantes
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May 13 2026 11:05AM     link to this

Treat others with kindness and respect = YES


Get hotel rooms for ladies, tip ladies making 300 an hour, put up with shitty service, etc... = NO
EdmondDantes
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May 13 2026 11:07AM     link to this

Simps are 99.9% Democrats too


Republicans are not Simps
dznutzgg
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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May 13 2026 11:47AM     link to this

Israel says hi 😇
RespectfulGuy
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May 13 2026 12:12PM     link to this

Tiffany, You have multiple red ratings, and noticed you seem to comment on blogs more often than not to offer judgmental, negative opinions on men or other people, under the guise of demanding that you deserve better standards. Ever considered the call (for calling out entitlement, lack of empathy and kindness) might be coming from inside the house?
Pretty_Kittty
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May 13 2026 12:23PM     link to this

We appreciate your kindness

The word simp has such a bad rep. In reality the opposite would be a player or incel and those are terrible to be around in an intimate setting.
June.Moon
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May 13 2026 12:30PM     link to this

Imagine being put down by others because you love women lol


You're not a simp at all. Don't let guys who have mommy issues make you feel otherwise


Your kindness is always appreciated
Benhameen666
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May 13 2026 12:38PM     link to this

OP is trolling. Gotta be.

Although this would probably sound 'too good to be true' to many women, if you don't try to make a move after being so generous, she is going to be suspicious and think there is something wrong with you.
RespectfulGuy
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May 13 2026 01:27PM     link to this

Nobody with any semblance of decency should argue against OP espousing good manners, kindness, and selflessness. Well said. Whether that’s towards women, men, on here, or at anytime. And if people do, then it’s likely they’ve become jaded by life, and no longer see or value the good in other people.

However, if someone lacks the ability to reciprocate expected kindness while also displaying a lack of inherent grace, stop simping for them immediately. Since a lack of empathy/understanding is not a mutual reciprocation of kindness. Instead, it's a sign someone believes they are more worthy of that behavior than you are.
Tiffanyy213
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May 13 2026 01:50PM     link to this

Respectfulguy
You got turned down this morning because I didn’t like ur txt last time. Then asked what u could do to make it right. So why are you coming on here saying this now? lol
sorry I was busy getting a full body massage from my client 🤗 so no, I am good. Im kind and my regulars know that I have clear boundaries that I now VOICE to deter that type of man. You’re upset because I said *some* men feel entitled & that I pass on men who don’t simply greet me when initially messaging? That is hilarious to me that that offends you 🤭 you clearly don’t know the type of men us women sometimes have walking through the door in an already vulnerable situation. And what we deal with by that same type of man I speak on. So i go the extra mile for those who choose to take it upon themselves to make me feel safe & respected beyond common decency. The only ones who have an issue with it seem to be the ones who fit the shoe… or try to force it lol


As far as the reds, ima just laugh that one off 🤣
Socalsteve
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May 13 2026 02:21PM     link to this

Since AI is taking over the world, I asked it and it tells us none of the 3 are good traits but a "generally harmless" fool is preferred versus an incel or simp




RespectfulGuy
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May 13 2026 02:51PM     link to this

Tiffany, your comment on the blog was the reason for response, complaining that most men on here are entitled. It should be pretty clear from that comment and your resulting diatribe the contrast in kindness and courtesy you demand, with what you and subsequently provide.

Re our texts: one of us was being courteous and normal, the other got extremely irritated over an upfront change in plans and question about outfit. I have receipts. Expecting courtesy while offering no modicum of grace yourself is where you seem to have exposed why you’re on multiple red rating, when many other people aren’t.
Tiffanyy213
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May 13 2026 03:15PM     link to this

Excuse me but are you the one opening the door and experiencing the unpleasant visits I’ve mentioned? No right? So I stand beside MY comment. I also initially responded with “MY FAV” and then hopped back in to add on to another comment.. I have our txts as well and I said what I said! I still turned u down and u still asked what u asked. I do not care enough to continue to go back & forth with someone I’ve never even met nor do I plan on meeting. You wanted to make this blog a personal attack against me after trying to see me this morning 😅 lol


Also stop acting like my network is terrible it’s not 💀
There is a reason my network is the size it is for how long I’ve been here.
I have enough regulars! So I guess I’m doing something right
Those few reds you keep mentioning which aren’t even in person ratings didn’t mean anything a few hours ago. 💀

Now enjoy the rest of your day & never speak to me again THANK YOU 🤗
mach5
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May 13 2026 03:16PM     link to this

People should just worry about themselves. If a guy or a lady want to spend their money in a particular way, then let them. Call what you want. Live and let live.
AFMadness
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May 13 2026 04:09PM     link to this

+1 m5

Plus working on self for betterment is attractive.
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RespectfulGuy
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May 13 2026 04:13PM     link to this

Correct Tiffany, the red ratings did not initially seem a problem, as courtesy is also about giving people the benefit of the doubt. It was challenging however to view your comment on this blog about demands you set for good manners and kindness, while simultaneously claiming most men here are entitled and so then appear to offer none yourself. Useful reminder to still trust the rating system, given our subsequent interaction.

No hard feelings. You posted something, I challenged you on it respectfully, you helped me understand your perspective: hope you don’t have to endure anymore of the types of interactions you’ve shared have made you decide you have to rapidly judge people for your own safety. That must indeed suck, and I’m sorry you have to experience that. Explains a lot. Best of luck with everything.
Nurufiji
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May 13 2026 04:37PM     link to this

Non of the above! Your a sweet guy who gives to all
Nd we all love and adore you so very much. Don’t ever forget that you are a great person 😉
big1234
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May 13 2026 05:23PM     link to this

Teamwork makes the dream work. There is enough space in this world for us all to coexist. We all have an important role and purpose. Maybe I’m just an old fool, with an affinity for angels with dirty wings.
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May 13 2026 08:00PM     link to this

I just learned simp has a real definition. Interesting....
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