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L take. Tests can be faked and you're basically rolling the dice to not catch anything when having unprotected sex with strangers. I also thought the whole point of being in this lifestyle was anonymity so how would either person confirm that the tests belonged to them?
There will always be people who risk it I guess. To each their own.
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I know that Stds will take weeks and up to months to show up but people will have to get tested every single month to truly know their status plus take other measures such as prep or pep
But then you have to factor in things like who you caught something from if you do, when was it caught, as well as how many people it was passed on to in the meantime
Because you can have a test, do bare 6 days later and now the test is void..
It's kinda tricky I guess
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Hey, I heard about this STD test you can perform yourself and it takes just a few minutes for results .
anyone tried it?
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There are at home tests that are really basic that you can buy from CVS which involve swabbing your mouth or gums but I am guessing it’s pretty nominal and it’s usually only for HIV, the ones that I have seen.
Look…while it is statistically low it is still a risk and why would you actually ask a provider over PM?
I think we are all adults here and know it happens but my guess is that it is done in person, in the moment and is never to be repeated.
Anyone who is stupid enough to ask for it in PM should expect backlash. Not sure the rating is warranted or not but dude…that was some stupid novice shit.
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They also have at-home tests that you mail into a lab and get the results online within a week or two. The tests are very thorough and include blood, urine, throat swab, and anal swab. It's not an instant/same-day solution, if that's what you're looking for, but it does avoid a trip to a clinic or lab.
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Aria, thanks for starting this great subject, you can never be too carful.
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A lot of Asian girls are doing bb. I have no idea why.
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omg thats horrible and so dangerous
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I know right. For what? Extra $50-$100 WTF.
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Not jus asian girls, a lot of girls are doing it
Along with a lot of guys asking for it thinking their funky lil test means somethin.
You want bare fuck your wife, gf, local bar slut.
Leave us SW alone with this bare shit!!!
All ya'll say no dont do anything bare, yet you're in our dm asking for bbbj and bbfs and kissing.
Ya'll kissing and suckin every dick she sucked. No thanks
Just gross, but i'm sure yall gonna say same shit he did. Bbbj are low risk, so is kissing, yet there are blogs bout yall passing std's around 
stop playing both sides when most of yall ask for it
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But I love kissing  .
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Now I know who I shouldn’t see. Thanks for the heads up! How disappointing, disturbing and disgusting.
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The Asian houses are well known for this. I don’t judge what people wanna do. That’s on them. But it does underscore the likelihood of how transmissible STIs are.
Do the math. If Asian houses are having girls see six guys a day (that is low by the way) and every one of them is new and does bareback just think at how prevalent STIs would be in this community if it were so transmissible.
I am not advocating doing bareback.
But the fact is that most of the transmission comes from receptive anal sex due to tearing of rectal tissue, the absoptive nature of the rectal tissue (why a vodka soaked tampon up your ass will get you plastered) and of course IV drug use.
That’s just the statistics.
I am not advocating bareback. Just saying we would have a fucking epidemic here if the shit were that transmissible and pervasive.
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yah i agree thats why i stay away from those places
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Jazzy you look amazing!
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@kelsey
OMG as in you are shocked about the lack of transmission or OMG you had no idea of the Asian houses?
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Rug that's not true
People also lie about their status and a lot of men actually lie about getting tested often
It's rare that people admit when they caught something
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It’s pretty well documented how transmission occurs.
Heterosexual unprotected sex is way down on how this is transmitted. At least for HIV.
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Woman can pass it on by breast feeding so that's not true
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Oh wait I misread my apologies . I thought that you were saying that it can't be caught from hetero sex . Though the percentages are low they aren't that much different and the chances are still there
Keep in mind a lot of these men do secretly see other men and trans people
But you're right it is the lowest out of the ways that it can be caught though it is still one of the ways that it can be caught
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Absolutely. It’s not foolproof. If you got it you are a damned risk and if you engage in IV drug use or take it in the bum then you are at a much higher risk.
Charlie Sheen got it. I am guessing from his occasional foray into dudes. And likely he was catching and not pitching. Or he did needles at one point. Or both.
All I am saying is the Asian houses are doing maybe 30 appointments a day on the low side? Most of them do it. If it were this prevalent and transmissible we would all be fucked because everyone fucks everyone here.
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@jazzy that’s what im saying. Just shocking that anyone would expect this out of us. This BBFS is getting outta control on here. There’s a reason why we do what we do, and a reason why clients seek our services. It’s about BALANCE.
PSA if that’s what u want do NOT contract me 😘. There’s no point in asking.
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LOL...every one of you single deniers are barebacking and then some.
No need to rate anyone as 'unsafe' because he ask for it.
It's simple, just say 'FUCK NO' and move on.
If you don't drink or smoke and you are at a party or social event and some stranger comes up to you and offers you to buy you a drink or a smoke does that make him/her unsafe because you denied his offer?
How many people have died from a person who was driving under the influence (DUI)?
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🤣🫶
Entertaining 😂
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even I can see all the TOS violations in this blog
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I personally think it’s a good conversation for us to have as a community. The truth is that bareback sex actually happens quite a bit.
Sometimes it’s very under the radar and sometimes it’s completely out in the open.
Just make the choices that you want to make that will make you comfortable.
If you want to rate somebody as unsafe then that’s your prerogative. My experience is that an unsafe rating doesn’t really mean that much.
The whole notion that the rating system here is so important in fundamental to help people function in this community is actually somewhat laughable. All it does for me is show who networked who.
The only thing more laughable to me than the rating system. Here is the emphasis on levels.
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I agree . We should be talking about it. Pretending that it doesn't exist won't make it go away. I just want people to make decisions based on facts and actual knowledge and not thinking that simply seeing a test is going to shield you or that because the risks are lower than anal then they're protected
You're an adult and fully allowed to take that risk but know that it is a risk that you're taking
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Why cant bare means he wants a Gay jolly hairy fat guy?
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do ppl in Asia not get told if it risk or not
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Don't get me started on the uptick in bi-sexual encounters. Just saying
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JR2e3 😂😂😂😂😂
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Testing is reactive and has a serious delay. Especially here where everyone is active. Some clients here are nearly daily or more than daily. So yeah…tests are always good but don’t tell anywhere near the whole story.
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Did I miss something? Why doesn't your profile give a gentle warning saying you will rate any guy negatively if they ask you this question?
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Imagine winning the HIV/Herpes/gonorrhea/chlamydia/syphilis lottery here.
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And don’t try asking me for bbfs because I don’t offer the service. So please quit asking.😊
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Bullshit
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I mean…a girl can change her mind on anything. A girl can say no at any time and we gotta respect it.
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Lol his network is full of women who offer bbfs
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BBFS definitely occurs. I think it’s suspect to think that it never happens
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You got to watchout for some of these man hating women who frequent this site. They always try to frame this like women don't do bbfs or offer it. They never talk about that or try to go after them.
They only try to use this subject to spew their hate for men. If you don't like being ask for bare then kick rocks, beat it. There is other sites you can go to.
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Or just don't ask
If it's not in their menu it doesn't exist . Move on and stop acting entitled
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Or how about you just don't ask for a donation then. If the donation is not there than it doesn't exist
stop acting like you're entitled to get any money
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I have no idea what that has anything to do with anything
Bullying people to do things that they don't want to do is not ok. This is not a bare back site this is an adult social site where you are allowed to set boundaries as you choose.
Men and women. That's like me saying if you don't want to get robbed get off of this site. You can't just do whatever you want to people and think that it's ok
You've already proven that you hate women but it doesn't hurt to be kind and respectful . Demanding that you get your way is atrocious
Anywho. This blog probably won't be up long anyways so I couldn't care less at this point
Ladies please by all means set those boundaries and if you don't want to make sure it's because you choose to and not someone else
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I personally believe that if a provider doesn’t mention bbfs in her menu then it’s not offered. I get asked for evaluations on my ratings all the time and I will NEVER divulge whether bbfs was offered, denied or otherwise because I’m a firm believer in the notion that how a provider takes care of me that may not be the same way she takes of you . I don’t want to be quoted “SmartK9 sez you do bbfs”. And then I’m the one in trouble no thanks and my positive rating is now a negative.
I try and get a menu beforehand and stay within the guardrails of it.
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safe sex, Naked Gun
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do it or don't but is it right to be a safety violation asking for it?
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Aren’t ALL safety violation here purely subjective? It they were objective we’d be entitled to some type of hearing or due process. So it’s up to the person issuing the rating to decide whether their safety was jeopardized. Right? Even if objectively unreasonable.. God I love language
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Low IQ feminist
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If you are so afraid of being asked for bare than there is other sites you can go to.
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