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well arent we all just a cluster bunch of fuck ups 🤷🏻‍♀️ internet is tuff. Stay hard.
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Internet makes us say crazy things since it's not face to face. It's like cutting people off in traffic but giving way in the grocery store
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" It was cruel and she can't comprehend why because she's too stupid."
Is that really an apology ?
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@af
I was a little perplexed as well but whatever. We all have different ways of processing shit.
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Why the fuck write this to everyone? You went on an attack of hunnybunny or whatever her name is.
She asked for some of the ridicule she got on her blog but who really gives a shit?
People come and go in this game. Some hopefully move on to something better.
FrontNCenter needs to be revived. NOT
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No AF it's a self serving, attention seeking blog in which I continue to insult her further. I said that at the end. I'm sorry I can't stop myself is really the only apology here.
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Everyone on this site are extremely stupid
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I think the public apology takes courage and I applaud you for that. Anonymity afforded us on this site gives some of us the false right to say what we want without any repercussions. A lot of members here take advantage of it. HelenUlinova you are a courageous and honorable person.
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Sonya I always try! Especially with you around that is easy!
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Don't sweat it luvbug it happens to the best of us (I have over 3,000 blog comments and have had my fair share of "moments")... but the most important thing is growth *plus she kind of asked for it*. We are all human and I have also been a little harsh towards a few people especially women on here and had to realize that I needed to do better. So kudos to you for taking that first step
What's done is done and I don't think that you're any less awesome than when we first talked. I actually like you even more because you aren't afraid to be human and say how you feel as well as apologize when needed. I always say that if someone gets along with everyone then they're either a pushover or people pleaser. Never be afraid to be you. Make mistakes, apologize, but keep on living.
Also Fun Fact!! 54% of US adults read below the equivalent of a sixth-grade level and have a sixth grade understanding, and nearly one in five adults reads below a third-grade level. It's almost like your analogy with dogs and their lack of understanding when they do wrong. Some people truly just dont know better and once I realized that, it made me a lot more empathetic to how people act but mostly how I respond to people when I don't agree. Her attacking you in the blogs were those of a 54%'er not knowing how to regulate their emotions after not understanding that you were trying to help. Never take it personal.
PS Zanematcha... Youre also on this site so that includes you too lol 
AFMadness... Shes apologizing to the community for how she acted in public but shes not apologizing to the other girl or what she said about her (rightfully so). I took it as more of a "sorry you had to see that" kinda thing.
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I blinked and missed the whole thing, with another blink some other drama will have replaced this whole kerfuffle pushing it into the archives.
I just wanted to use kerfuffle in a sentence.
Carry on.
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Yes June, at first read I got that. Helen and I both have a 4 Life Path #, which is about teaching and helping others. Which often gets ignored and or ridiculed. I have to take a step back and realize that learning takes place when a person is ready to accept what it is that is being presented. Knowing full well the reactive mind may kick in and the information gets rejected and the messenger gets shot. That's just a pitfall of trying to help.
Cause sure, I agree, this is not a site I should be posting stuff from Mike Adam's ( Brighteon.com ) and AJ's site.
It's, I like to stay ahead of the curve of everyone else and have a good idea what is to come or coming. At times I'll laugh at regular media cause of what they just reported on, I knew of 3 months ago. All I'll say on that is,. Is the supply chain ( Hormuz ) is broken and that Shock wave hasn't hit us all here, other than fuel costs. So if one thinks life is tuff now just wait until that inflation catches up.
Sorry for the thread drift.
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OP your pride is your greatest sin and weakness. I can tell, you’ve been fighting that battle for a long time. However you also appear to have a heart of gold. Maybe that pride has something to do with that. Don’t change a thing. Sometimes our flaws are just the waste product of our Strengths. Take that away and suddenly you have a heart of stone. The world is definitely a better place because of your heart of gold. I apologize too. Adolph’s birthday yesterday filled the world with bad JuJu or joujou.
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^ 54%. Shocking statistic but believable. I dare anyone to tell me that we are not heading toward a society like that depicted in the movie Idiocracy. It's an adventure comedy, but is it really? Just waiting for when we hear about someone feeding their crops Gatorade.
Sad but true is that those who know better should do better. Burdensome sometimes as well as thankless. There will be times that you just want to kick the dog. I get it.
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To be fair, you were called the c word. It’s awfully tough to not respond to that accordingly. No apology necessary but you’re better off doing it regardless
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Helena speaks well from her soul. I somehow find myself reading her posts.
Thoughtfulness, humility and kindness within...somewhere.
As we evolve these qualities are appreciated more...
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All I heard was "kerfuffle"
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^ you made me guffaw
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very brave woman, I admire you.
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I don't know what you're fighting about but based on this exchange I'd say 420 won
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think you are suffering same. You have sent PMs to inquiries with so much variation that us gentleman cant make sense of what and how much. Yes, we are a community and we communicate to one another we share information for our safety. You will find a site where you are more anonymous, but you're going to attract less safe, less desirables only to your detrimental.
Point? Self reflect. What am I not others doing wrong? How can I (not others) do better? I assure you as you grow emotionally and become more self aware your business and self will both improve.
My 2 cents.
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This bitch stacks more than hombo!
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Interesting apology
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The non-apology apology.
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Lawforza1
I have pricing and offer variations because not all people are created equal. If I don't like you or I find you gross or off putting i will quote you higher pricing, remove menu items or not respond to you at all.
I don't offer all menu items to all people
And lastly if I don't respond to your multiple PMs it is because, I do not want to see you.
The reality is I stay booked enough to be picky with my menu offerings and to whom, along with my pricing. So much so that I can also afford to make the decision not to entertain certain people for whatever reason I may have... whether it be i find them unbecoming, I had a negative experience with them, or they give me a weird or icky vibe. Or if I just feel like it that day.
I also am busy enough that I don't have to care if you don't like it. It doesn't affect me or my finances. My clientele is consistent and I do a lot of repeat business and have a few sugar relationships as well.
I get to be inconsistent with my menu, responsiveness and pricing because for those I am willing to entertain I am a dynamite lay, an enthusiastic partner and an all around fun person to spend time with and I make my clients forget that there was even a transactional element to the situation.
I've never seen you & based on your complaining about the way I run my business my notes are a DNS lolol.
And guess what? My lack of entertaining you will have 0 effect on my business.
I'm going to continue spending my weekends in Baja MX blowing thousands on hookers and five star meals, partying and living like I'm semi retired. Aside from that I'm putting money aside for my future and ACTUAL retirement. I live a 5 minute walk from the beach in a literal paradise and get to send my adult children and friends money and help them with their bills without putting myself out.
All of that and I don't need to cater to anyone. Why?
Because I'm happy, I enjoy my job, I love fucking and have a sex addiction and my personality and demeanor and performance keeps my clients happy, consistent and willing to spend money and free time with and on me time and again.
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10:40 am on another blog about her, Hunny writes: "I will not be participating anymore in the blogs because y’all are fake as fuck."
It becomes the 1st of 6 stacked comments.
10:57 am: She responds with 3 more stacked posts here. 
"Fake as fuck?" Beech, I'm keepin' it real! 
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I am not convinced SOA is even a hobbyist
Seems like the sassy alter ego of a provider to me....
Lift the mask, show us who you are SOA! LOL
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Dammit! And just when I was fooling everyone! 
OK... given your description of me, that can only mean I am really... Sonya7! 
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The his has become a regular scooby doo episode.
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SonOfAdams is… not the father!!!
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"This has become a regular Scooby Doo episode"
And I would've succeeded too! If it weren't for you darn... er... adults! 
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I love Scoob!!!
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Only two words can get me in your DMs. Deep discount!
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@OP
You are truly, to me, a breath of fresh air, with your candor and your sometimes impressive disinhibition. And I’m saying this as a private target of your ire (from what I thought was a pretty simple misunderstanding…).
You have an exceptional degree of self-knowledge and awareness, even if, at times, you are more direct with others than is the norm.
Most of what you said about H420’s blog was spot on, if a little raw and undiplomatic.
I’m glad that you’re part of the community.
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Hey, what am I, chopped liver?! 
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For what I can see Helena is a mature lady with a beautiful soul.
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Passive aggressive? Is this like what that is?
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^sorry. I'm too stupid to actually know... that's why I ask
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@wickedwitch
Google actually had a good definition and examples. Now please understand that this is not me being passive/aggressive and saying "wow, you are so clueless, all you had to do was Google it." Because my statement could also be interpreted as passive/aggressive.
But here you go...this is Google. And it actually is a really good explanation...better than I can articulate. And I truthfully use Google all the time to get answers.
Here you go:
Passive-aggressive comments are indirect expressions of hostility, resentment, or anger, designed to criticize while maintaining plausible deniability. Common examples include backhanded compliments ("You actually look nice today"), sarcasm ("Wow, you sure put a lot of effort into that"), and feigned compliance ("Fine, I'll just do it myself").
Common Passive-Aggressive Phrases and Comments
"I'm not mad/upset." (When they clearly are).
"As I stated in my previous email..." (Implies you didn't read or are incompetent).
"Whatever you want to do is fine." (When it is not fine).
"I was only joking/don't be so sensitive." (Dismissing your feelings after making a mean comment).
"I wish I could afford a new car like yours, but all my money goes to my student loans." (Guilt-tripping or expressing envy).
"Oh, I thought you already knew." (Makes you feel left out or uninformed).
"Must be nice to have so much free time." (Criticizing your schedule or work ethic).
"No offense, but..." (Followed by an offensive comment).
"I'm sure you did your best." (Backhanded praise).
"It's fine." (When it is definitively not fine).
Key Characteristics
Backhanded Compliments: "You're so brave for wearing that".
Sarcastic Blame: "Oh, I didn’t realize someone was allergic to doing dishes".
Procrastination/Intentional Forgetting: "Accidentally" forgetting to do a task they disagreed with.
Using Humor to Mask Criticism: Making a mean comment and following it with "just a joke".
These comments are intended to avoid direct conflict, yet they create confusion, resentment, and avoid accountability.
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Wicked witch, I think I would be more accurately described as directly aggressive versus passive aggressive lol
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HelenaUlinova
I hear you, I really do... but is this an apology ? Honestly, I don't even think you really need to give one. She was out of line, you just wanted to fight� It was pretty entertaining for everyone... and you guys were just going at it.
I get being embarrassed..but like.. it is not a big deal. I embarrass myself all the time!
On and off the site!
HOWEVER... I do have to be honest and say something seems a little off to me.
It could just be me... but these patterns are hard to ignore, and while I do believe that mental health can play a role, I do not believe that it excuses how we act and or treat people.
I do not believe that a person can be so aware of their mental health but not their actions... again that is just me.
You have also admitted that your boyfriend has had access to your account in the past, which also makes it hard to know who we are actually interacting with and when.
Either way.. Actions speak louder than words.
Just pick yourself up and move on.
Hx is supposed to be a fun place.
So just have fun.
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Helena literally said "it's a self serving, attention seeking blog in which I continue to insult her further. I said that at the end. I'm sorry I can't stop myself is really the only apology here."
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its a bunch of high school gossip sh*t, these ladies form little cliques and think doing certain actions are going to hurt the dudes.. there are a million providers.. so NEXT.
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Dahlia, those are fighting words whether you like that fact or not.
My partner has NEVER POSTED from my profile so I don't know how there could be the slightest bit of confusion. He goes on HX for one reason and it sure the fuck ain't blogging. His dick does the talking for him 
Aside from that I as a writer have a distinct 'voice.' All writers have their own. He could not and would not be able to replicate mine, and has absolutely no reason to blog from my profile anyway.
What would he have to gain? Why wouldn't he blog from his own profile if he had something to say? He's L5 With 0 blogging history despite being here over a decade. I think deciding to make a peep from there would be more impactful than using a profile well known for shit talking along with bullshit / egotistical posting patterns.
As for mental health playing a role... that in itself is highly offensive. I am not only medicated but schizoaffective disorder doesn't define me, and isn't my entire personality. I have an anger issue, so I went off. People with my disorder tend to be, statistically, homeless and/or institutionalized. Nit pissy bloggers. Combative tendencies isn't a feature of the disorder, it's a personality trait of mine.
June.Moon had it right. I'm not sorry for what I said but how and where/when I said it. I should have done it privately if at all.
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A310
Sit you don't even have ratings no one is worried about you lol
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Sir*
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Anywho
We love you girlie. Keep being awesome
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