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bobbielynn
Buena Park, OC, CA
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since May 22 2024

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I'm starting to feel like...
Apr 12 2026 05:55PM more by bobbielynn
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

So I've been on Hx for about 2 years now. In the begining it was great i was meeting a lot of people. But now I dunno if I am doing something wrong but I am not getting much action. I'm starting to feel like I'm losing my mojo on here ... To me that's not a good thing..let me know if anyone can give me a few ideas to make my profile to be notices..
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uprightfun
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
44 blogs/409 comments
since Jun 16 2022

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Apr 12 2026 07:13PM     link to this

There are numerous blogs about you ripping off clients, and about the presence of threatening men at your incall. You have been invited to the SafetyClub to comment on this. No one who has any brains would see you on this site with these allegations and complaints.

If you don’t fix this, you are toast.
GaijinTony
San Diego, CA
1 blogs/385 comments
since Apr 25 2020

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Apr 12 2026 07:27PM     link to this

The plethora of phonecam selfies in cheap motel rooms filled with personal junk only emphasizes what has been said previously. It strongly suggests somebody who doesn't put much thought in her presentation to the public, makes the minimal effort, can't keep a permanent address, and lives a chaotic life. No thanks, there are far better and safer options out there.

GT
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
214 blogs/1390 comments
since Jan 6 2012

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Apr 12 2026 08:57PM     link to this

girl.. you're kind of a stinker.

One thing to remember about HX vs. other platforms.

This is more of a community. We have some members that enjoy keeping record of everything, good and bad.

I'm sure you know what you did.

Maybe take responsibility, make things right and try to be a better person.


Hope this was helpful.
witler5
OC, CA
254 blogs/527 comments
since Feb 18 2020

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Apr 12 2026 09:38PM     link to this

I think your profile is fine, of course with anyone could use some improved pics. Idk about the safety allegations, only one red rating

More attention when you first join seems to be the case for most kinds of platforms, right? Deleting and changing up some new pics could spark bit more attention
AddisonParker
CA
118 blogs/484 comments
since Sep 17 2016

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Apr 13 2026 04:23AM     link to this

Dahlialove is 1000% percent correct. If you have been shady, that sticks with you. On this platform I believe character and integrity are very much appreciated. If you want to hang at trashy hotels and have a messy back ground, that is going to be exactly what you attract. Trashy, cheap and messy life clients. That type of clientele usually are cheap, on drugs or are some type of scary.
In today’s world I don’t think I would behave in that manner. People can be a little unhinged. Trying to screw them out of something could get real ugly real quick.
I have been out of the scene for 12-16 months and upon my return I have had nothing but LOVE from this site.

Maybe try to follow this little rule “Just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you SHOULD!”

Good luck to you. Be nice to people, This community has always taken care of me. And I have been here a long time, moved states, and left. And still they always come thru.
GaijinTony
San Diego, CA
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since Apr 25 2020

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Apr 13 2026 10:50AM     link to this

DL and AP summed it up nicely, they aren't here to diss anyone, they are providing some professional advice. The OP should give this some thought...

GT
LngbdSR
Seal/Sunset Beach, OC, CA
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since Feb 7 2023

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Apr 13 2026 02:08PM     link to this

You reap what you sow

Listen to these two amazing ladies, they know what they’re talking about.

AddisonParker
CA
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since Sep 17 2016

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Apr 13 2026 02:34PM     link to this

I’ve always said that this site should have a Buddy system or something so that somebody can help guide the newbies along the way so they don’t make these epic mistakes. The problem is women have to trust each other for that and not very many people trust anybody these days let alone women trust other women. I had LaceyLuv205. I trusted and I think that I’ve done very well. They’re having that start as opposed to just jumping in blindly and having to suffer whatever consequences come with being naïve and in the business.
Unfortunately, integrity and character are two things that aren’t easily taught. They’re easily shown if you have those qualities. You can try to lead by example, but there’s no guarantee that people are gonna follow.
emn2u
Inland Empire, CA
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since May 3 2011

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Apr 13 2026 02:36PM     link to this

well define , A P
3505john
The Strip, Vegas, NV
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since Aug 28 2008

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Apr 13 2026 11:40PM     link to this

Maybe it’s short availability
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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since Jan 6 2012

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Apr 14 2026 04:17PM     link to this

A buddy/mentor system was what I had with a good friend of mine, P.L. She had an amazing work ethic, still does! always gave support and guidance.

Unfortunately these days it seem a lot of the gals are working under someone else, and or have substance abuse issue.

I also feel like social media has given an unrealistic of what this lifestyle really is.

We have a few gentlemen that give their opinion but will never understand what we go through, as they are on the receiving end.


Anyway.

Just some rambling on a Tuesday afternoon.

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