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There are numerous blogs about you ripping off clients, and about the presence of threatening men at your incall. You have been invited to the SafetyClub to comment on this. No one who has any brains would see you on this site with these allegations and complaints.
If you don’t fix this, you are toast.
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The plethora of phonecam selfies in cheap motel rooms filled with personal junk only emphasizes what has been said previously. It strongly suggests somebody who doesn't put much thought in her presentation to the public, makes the minimal effort, can't keep a permanent address, and lives a chaotic life. No thanks, there are far better and safer options out there.
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girl.. you're kind of a stinker.
One thing to remember about HX vs. other platforms.
This is more of a community. We have some members that enjoy keeping record of everything, good and bad.
I'm sure you know what you did.
Maybe take responsibility, make things right and try to be a better person.
 Hope this was helpful.
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I think your profile is fine, of course with anyone could use some improved pics. Idk about the safety allegations, only one red rating
More attention when you first join seems to be the case for most kinds of platforms, right? Deleting and changing up some new pics could spark bit more attention
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Dahlialove is 1000% percent correct. If you have been shady, that sticks with you. On this platform I believe character and integrity are very much appreciated. If you want to hang at trashy hotels and have a messy back ground, that is going to be exactly what you attract. Trashy, cheap and messy life clients. That type of clientele usually are cheap, on drugs or are some type of scary.
In today’s world I don’t think I would behave in that manner. People can be a little unhinged. Trying to screw them out of something could get real ugly real quick.
I have been out of the scene for 12-16 months and upon my return I have had nothing but LOVE from this site.
Maybe try to follow this little rule “Just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you SHOULD!”
Good luck to you. Be nice to people, This community has always taken care of me. And I have been here a long time, moved states, and left. And still they always come thru.
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DL and AP summed it up nicely, they aren't here to diss anyone, they are providing some professional advice. The OP should give this some thought...
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I’ve always said that this site should have a Buddy system or something so that somebody can help guide the newbies along the way so they don’t make these epic mistakes. The problem is women have to trust each other for that and not very many people trust anybody these days let alone women trust other women. I had LaceyLuv205. I trusted and I think that I’ve done very well. They’re having that start as opposed to just jumping in blindly and having to suffer whatever consequences come with being naïve and in the business.
Unfortunately, integrity and character are two things that aren’t easily taught. They’re easily shown if you have those qualities. You can try to lead by example, but there’s no guarantee that people are gonna follow.
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well define , A P
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Maybe it’s short availability
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A buddy/mentor system was what I had with a good friend of mine, P.L. She had an amazing work ethic, still does! always gave support and guidance.
Unfortunately these days it seem a lot of the gals are working under someone else, and or have substance abuse issue.
I also feel like social media has given an unrealistic of what this lifestyle really is.
We have a few gentlemen that give their opinion but will never understand what we go through, as they are on the receiving end.
Anyway.
Just some rambling on a Tuesday afternoon.
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Are you kidding me I have never ripped off anyone , that's crazy . Whoever wrote that must be hating on me ask them yourself I have never done that ever!!! As a matter of fact let me confront them . None of that is true. That blows my mind . People are mean . That they would go to those lengths to bring some one down... You can ask anyone who has seen me . I've never been anything but nice and professional.
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You guys probably don't believe me . Honestly I don't do shady shit like that. It's really messed up how ugly people can really be.. I feel so embarrassed about this ..i apologize to those who do think I'm full of shit . I am really a fun cool chick.. I would not do anything that would be shady .. this really sucks
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bobbielynn i have been trying to contact you
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Bobbie…I saw you a while back and you are nice but completely disorganized. Lots of clients have said the same thing. You don’t respond, oversleep, share the room with others who fuck up your schedule and basically don’t communicate. The session can end up being rushed as a result.
In my case you overslept and when I called per your request to wake you up a guy picked up the phone and said you were asleep. That was a total turnoff.
My suggestion? Take your time management more seriously. There are girls here who keep an accurate schedule and who allocate time between appointments to clean up and get ready.
The overall business climate is slow right now as well so girls who are sloppy with their appointments and communication are passed over because we have other options. Tighten up your procedures because everyone needs business now.
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"You guys probably don't believe me . Honestly I don't do shady shit like that. "
Perhaps you should re-read the post by Upright fun and respond to his invite to join the Safety Club and discuss the issue. You are free to deny and ignore the claims made by others but they won't go away. Now I personally don't have any experience with you but if I were some type of AI scraper on HX and somebody asked me to tell them about you, here would be my response:
"bobbielyn has a negative reputation on HX which discourages other members from visiting her. HX members have mentioned that her incall location is messy and unkempt, is shared with other women and possibly men. This results in a situation where guests feel rushed and are concerned for their own health and safety. bobbielyn's photos are mainly selfies taken in cheap hotel rooms, with little concern about removing clutter and background distractions, giving HX members the impression that her marketing effort is an afterthought and little concern to her. bobbielyn's presentation makes it clear that she has little concern for her guests beyond quick transactions that address her immediate needs as opposed to any long term planning to make guests feel welcome and ensure repeat visits".
Feel free to comment on the above as you see fit, I will look forward to your reply.
HX
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@bobbielynn: you were invited and admitted into the Safety Club. However, you never addressed the allegations. Now is your chance to add to the details...
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"People are mean . That they would go to those lengths to bring some one down"
No, you bring YOURSELF down when you show no interest in the wants and concerns of your prospective guests. Playing the victim may work as a one-shot approach in dealing with some people but it's not going to fly when you are dealing with people (male and female) here in HX who have seen and heard it all before. Several folks here have extended in invite for you to join the Safety Club and discuss these issues. How you choose to respond is going to determine if anyone gives you a chance in the future or if you become a permanent entry of the No Fly List.
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Denial is not only a river in Africa apparently. It's crazy that people's documented experiences aren't enough to snap out of whatever reality it is they are in currently. So all these other folks experience is wrong is what you're saying? People are providing you with good commentary, I'd advise you to listen to them.
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Isn't it denial isn't just a river in Egypt? Or have I been saying it wrong for years??
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I think best to halt the conversation here and pick it up in the proper venue. I sent OP a link to the club blog where she can respond.
PS- Sinful is right... "Denial is not just a river in Egypt" is the normal expression, but used in oral conversation, because Denial sounds like The Nile. It doesn't really carry over well to written form.
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