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CoachMila
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Delay and dry orgasms. Can that be permanent? What if eventually you can not orgasm again?
Mar 29 2026 11:08AM more by CoachMila
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It’s a thing…so pace yourself. Don’t dry yourself out for good! Don’t force to orgasm, there’s a reason your body is preserving and don’t wanna let go.

Get that seed building going, men. Don’t overwork that prostate. Try to be mindful so you can have more reproductive energy later in life.

And for ladies, ditch the lube (unless it has 2 ingredients or less). Make your own juices please.

Heal the nervous system, and start eating water rich fruits, good animal fats and take a break with porn and constantly touching yourself.

Have a better hobby like yoga, swimming or walk your dog more.

You’re overly desensitizing yourself as well.

Throw away them vibrators too!

Eventually you can have a tantric orgasm just by kissing and breathing!
      
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sexualimprov
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Mar 29 2026 04:42PM     link to this

slurp, tell me where my tongue goes?
OCCityBoy2
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Mar 29 2026 06:18PM     link to this

Coach Mila...

I can attest to the fact that for SOME men the beginning of IMPOTENCE can begin at the age of 60/61/62. I had been a long time now. Now amount of stimulation gets Woody alert. Not anything anymore. No morning wood, or at any time ever again.

I have learned to accept this as a fact of my life, and ladies think they know how to restore it once, but nothing. No one has been able to, so I don't expect miracles. It is now "the Impossible Dream".

Thank you for your time.
rugmuncher
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Mar 29 2026 06:33PM     link to this

I love how women can tell us how our orgasms work. LOL.
Knightspirit
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Mar 30 2026 08:30AM     link to this

OCcityBoy,
As a survivor of prostate cancer and Lupron treatment. That’s medical castration by the way to treat prostate cancer. Did that for 6 months. My Doc put me on a daily Cialis and I have been continuing that 1 little tab a day for 10 years. Wow! I’m almost 20 yrs old again. Morning wood and all. No side effects.

I would encourage you to see a prostate oncologist or urinary specialist, my doctor wrote the book on ED and once gave a sermon at his church and called Cialis as God's miracle for men! Believe it.

I am more energetic and active than ever. Libido ++. Don’t buy into the Viagra hype, it’s not the same. Stick with Cialis only. Ask your doc to give you a script for Cialis and give it a try. I’m not giving medical advice here, so everyone is different. But if you haven’t tried it yet, please consider looking into it.

PM me if you have questions.
Good luck.
rugmuncher
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Mar 30 2026 12:29PM     link to this

Cialis and Viagra are both absolutely useless to me. I can take 200mg ot Viagra and it does nothing.
jay920
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Mar 30 2026 12:29PM     link to this

cialis is good to prevent colon cancer?

there was a study that claim frequent ejaculations benefit fertility, it kinda contradicts the “NoFap” believe
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rugmuncher
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Mar 30 2026 12:41PM     link to this

This tantric orgasm shit is laughable. Look…we get old. Shit stops working as good. You find other ways to get aroused. For me it’s going down on the woman. That turns me on. I may or may not get hard and probably half the time I don’t even finish. But it is still fun. I don’t emphasize the end and destination. Enjoy the ride. There is more than just getting off.
SmartK9
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Mar 31 2026 09:08AM     link to this

First of all Coach Mila I sincerely want to thank you for your previous messages to me about my prostate cancer. You informed me that the radiation treatment may trigger other cancers that are lying dormant within my body, kinda like mini GODZILLA’S until they are activated.

Well I did listen to you and I’m so glad I did. I recently had a complete physical where are my systems were working as they should and I was declared as of then disease and cancer free although my testosterone is still at a low level.

Because your advice was still in my head I demanded a colonoscopy. I know crazy right who in their right mind demands a colonoscopy. My last one was 8 years ago and I wasn’t scheduled for another one for at least 2 more years. I completed the colonoscopy and 3 mini GODZILLA’S (polyps) were discovered and removed. I can only imagine what they could have morphed into had I waited the additional years .

Now I’m on a yearly colonoscopy schedule, fricking great!

Again I sincerely thank you sorry this has nothing to do with your current blog.
CoachMila
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Mar 31 2026 06:41PM     link to this

I know this may be so far off the beaten path, but there’s a huge connection with your gut health, kidney and liver when it comes to reproductive health!

When there’s obstruction (not filtering), blood will not go where it needs to. It’s a little more detailed. Let me know if you need to learn more. I’ll place it here in the comments:

If holistic healing is not your thing, then it’s ok. I’ll save my energy. But if you are at a loss and need some direction, I’m here!

Not a doctor, just a legit holistic practitioner specialist in detoxing the reproductive and gut.
For ladies and men.

And for you men that are being ultra transparent, I love that! You guys can help each other tremendously by just talking about it!
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