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Mar 21 2026 06:42AM more by badbarbiebee
Tags: Orange County, Current Events (All tags)

what is up with guys expeting a girl to be clean shaven yet does not shave whats up with that
      
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dznutzgg
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Mar 21 2026 07:10AM     link to this

sounds like a recent revelation
rugmuncher
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Mar 21 2026 08:12AM     link to this

Guys generally don’t shave that much down there. But women are expected to. Sorry. That’s just convention these days.
TheWickedWitch
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Mar 21 2026 08:39AM     link to this

Expectations often lead to disappointment lol
lovethemuff
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Mar 21 2026 09:01AM     link to this

I like a little landing strip.
Skatz1358
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Mar 21 2026 09:24AM     link to this

Honestly enjoy it natural get a little more excited when I get to enjoy that myself
NacNacBoy199
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Mar 21 2026 09:44AM     link to this

you can’t expect a man who has been married 15-20 years to all of a sudden start shaving and have that not be a red flag to the wife.
pname616
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Mar 21 2026 10:17AM     link to this

Am I the only guys who doesn't like having a forest down there?. I use nair regularly. It's easier, cleaner, and safer than shaving.
cutler
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Mar 21 2026 10:28AM     link to this

I like a lady to be clean, and I will also keep it clean.
June.Moon
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Mar 21 2026 11:43AM     link to this

If any guy needs a trim, shave or waxing let me know.


Im licensed and can make you look nice and clean
passionateone
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Mar 21 2026 11:45AM     link to this

I.personally stay well groomed and showered. It's otherwise gross to me. Trust me, some ladies could use this advice too.
June.Moon
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Mar 21 2026 11:46AM     link to this

Nacnac ... You can . Just mention a few times how wild it's getting and ease on into the idea. Ask if she would prefer it trimmed and go from there .




Have a friend who up and cut it and said he was tired of the hair getting snagged when he got dressed . If a woman thinks that you all of a sudden shaved because you're cheating, it's because she already knows that you're cheating lol
AvaAllure
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Mar 21 2026 01:08PM     link to this

NOT...

I have a small bush and I love it!!!
rugmuncher
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Mar 21 2026 02:29PM     link to this

Could honestly personally care less if you wash properly between clients.
DahliaLove
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Mar 21 2026 02:51PM     link to this

I've been trying to grow mine out..

with this heat.. some time I gotta throw her in a pony tail.



I think whatever makes you feel bonita is nice.
BUT if I had anything to say about someone else bush it would be to trim.
Trimming is nice. especially when it grows as long as heck!
TheWickedWitch
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Mar 21 2026 04:47PM     link to this

I wish Gina Galaxy would give some input. I would love to read it . Iykyk
MissXaviera
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Mar 21 2026 06:38PM     link to this

I love a fresh Brazilian wax !! Became use to it from back in my stripper days 😌😜🥰😘
Huggibear
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Mar 21 2026 09:24PM     link to this

I love me a bush
OCCityBoy2
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Mar 21 2026 09:30PM     link to this

If there are any ladies sporting bush of any kind, it is very much appreciated.
OmarS
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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Mar 22 2026 04:00AM     link to this

^ two off the top of my head.
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The Bush club
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yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Mar 22 2026 06:28AM     link to this

I too like a closely trim landing strip...the best of both worlds!!
humanneeds
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Mar 22 2026 09:01AM     link to this

i love pits hair
BlueBalz
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Mar 22 2026 10:08AM     link to this

Goatee or landing strip preferred
artnjazz
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Mar 22 2026 12:21PM     link to this

Shaven please.
Skatz1358
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Mar 22 2026 12:30PM     link to this

How do we join the bush club???
rjthedodger
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Mar 22 2026 12:53PM     link to this

Ever since I got snipped, I’ve had clean shaven balls. I often get compliments on my level of manscaping and it often leads to an amazing ball sucking.

I’ll stay clean ladies. I hope that works
GaijinTony
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Mar 22 2026 03:02PM     link to this

Maybe you should consider what type of persona you project, and what type of guys it attracts. Otherwise, if you have specific requirements, perhaps you should make them clear in your blogs.

GT
Gbannana
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Mar 22 2026 07:25PM     link to this

My head is bald and my carpet matches the drapes. I shave everything every day! Nothing better than licking a soft smooth, clean kitty!
GotGoals
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Mar 22 2026 09:43PM     link to this

@TheWickedWitch- Gina Galaxy is my homegirl. Gonna have to tell her to jump on. Would be interesting.

I'm sure the woman rather suck on smooth balls. I keep mine smooth cuz I like them sucked on.
ballzdeepnu6969
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Mar 22 2026 10:12PM     link to this

Shaved is preferred. Don't like a forest and want see what I'm eating. Don't want to get any pine needles my mouth.
Himes_Soul
Torrance, Coastal, LA, CA
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MrAdm1n123456789
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Mar 23 2026 01:49AM     link to this

Gentlemen keep it trim, my daddy told me so
kittnlckr
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Mar 23 2026 11:42AM     link to this

Men here are paying for a service from women. The customer has expectations. If I’m paying a woman for intimacy I expect her to be clean and well groomed. Doesn’t have to be bald down there, but meet and clean.

I do t shave down there because I it would be a hassle for me. I don’t make a living with my male parts though. If I did, and that was preferred then I would shave or keep it right down there.
tommy1nut
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 23 2026 12:07PM     link to this

I find it refreshing to see some hair. Being bald looks a hell of a lot better on a woman than a man. Eeewww I do appreciate a nice haircut. Tnut
Sasha.Sweets
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Mar 23 2026 08:18PM     link to this

I like hair on men- pheromones!

Bush on top shaven below for me -
MrBaseball1963
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Apr 8 2026 05:34PM     link to this

Been shaving the nethers for decades, and for decades my girls have eagerly treated ALL the nethers with special attention, because they aren't losing focus from having to pull pubes from their mouth or trying to avoid awful smells. Not only that, but their blowjobs and rimjobs don't get cut short because they get grossed out. It's like taking a shower before hooking up. And because I like the extra attention, I will continue to shave the HOLE playground.
tbysstudios
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Apr 9 2026 08:44AM     link to this

All the F's...


Full bush. Fully proud. Fun fan club for it.


Fun Facts: bushes actually keep you safer than shaved for a plethora of reasons. So even though I do think the "clean" association is more closely tied to the shave, I resent any associations made that I am somehow dirty if I have hair. When especially from a skin barrier issues/STD perspective, the opposite is actually true.


Additionally...clean for women in particular...is also rooted in something I cannot even explain on here for TOS reasons. So...


Furthermore:
I sometimes go without shaving my armpits as well. Free bleed. Wear no deodorant. Take no BC have no chemicals in me. I have grey hair too, taste really fucking good, get tested monthly and am on my shit with boundaries, get NO complaints have a BUNCH of returns back to the jungle lol and am even sought out for the pleasure of my Amazon, I must say. So yes. I am a natural buffet in many places and the health dept has yet to grade me anything less than an A


And yes it does work both ways: I will gobble a jungle as well I ain't scared lol. Smooth is cool, but I am just not afraid of a jungle either, man, woman, intersex, no matter.


So much like the looks versus service thing it is a matter of taste but lets not let one suffer for the others appearance when lies are being told:

Bushes are not dirty, they are clean. Clean and tasty




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Apr 9 2026 09:04AM     link to this

Landing strip for me
magnumta12000
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I enjoy a smooth working surface but will not hesitate to work my way through a jungle to get to the sweet prize inside. I admit at times that I am intrigued by a jungle.
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Apr 9 2026 09:22AM     link to this

I don’t mind either way but having a full bush is sexy and a rarity very hard to find nowadays.
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Apr 9 2026 09:26AM     link to this

No no no
lipshit
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I don't mind a woman with a landing strip
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Apr 9 2026 11:09AM     link to this

I keep it shaven. Got to trim the bushes to make the tree look bigger...
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Santana said it best...


Smoooooooothhhh
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Apr 9 2026 03:13PM     link to this

I often shave if I know the lady will be spending some time on my balls before the main event.
Desirebabyy
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Apr 9 2026 07:49PM     link to this

I’m not sure. It’s what he prefers I think
DrMcLovinPHD
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Apr 9 2026 10:21PM     link to this

I do like a close trim, not bushy but some well manicured hair.
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