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Thanks for the warning.
Guys, this a cautionary tale about why it is a bad idea to jump in and attempt the save. I've done it a couple of times and in both cases I enjoyed a better relationship with the provider prior to helping. In the first case I went from the front of the line to the back. In the second case, she was so embarrassed to get help from me she all but quit our formerly friendly banter and now avoids me. In neither case was I demanding, guilting, or unreasonable.
I volunteered the help in both cases, and both women are good souls and I still adore both of them, but we had more fun before I had felt compelled to play the hero role.
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