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Locked. No further comments permitted.Why are so many gentlemen out of points
Oct 8 2026 08:03PM more by VictoriaPeaches
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I’ve noticed a significant increase in the number of gentlemen sending me flirts, but when I check their profiles, they have zero FX points.

My question is: How difficult is it to purchase a $25 digital gift card from Walmart or Home Depot online and use it to recharge your points?

To me, having points on your account adds a certain level of credibility. As providers, it gives us some reassurance that we’re dealing with someone who is serious, financially capable, and not going to complain, argue, or make a big deal over $25.

If someone is genuinely interested in communicating with me but isn’t even willing to spend $20–$25 to maintain that communication, I can’t help but find it a little suspicious.

I’m not saying that everyone without points has bad intentions, but it definitely raises a red flag for me. Maybe I’m wrong, and I’m genuinely trying to understand the reasoning behind it.

Gentlemen, what’s your perspective? And ladies, have you noticed the same thing?
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Oct 8 2026 08:10PM     link to this

I didnt realize you could see someone's FX point number. I feel violated!
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Oct 8 2026 09:02PM     link to this

Its not difficult and they should want to support the site as well. Right fellas
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Oct 8 2026 09:04PM     link to this

I cannot see either about the points and I don’t know if there’s a way to do it but I’m saying it because I just get the flirts and when I go to their profile to do the screening and check on the blogs and check on their network. I realize that they have something that says on their biography. Like I don’t have points P.M.B your menu, so I’m like what
VictoriaPeaches
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Oct 8 2026 09:04PM     link to this

That is truth Delilah. It’s exactly what I was thinking like it is for inside and it’s not like it’s that expensive.
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Oct 8 2026 09:07PM     link to this

Either ignore them or ask them to pay for mail for your safety and to support the site.
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Oct 8 2026 09:17PM     link to this


shoutout to bing search rewards. about to be 3 months in a row i have been able to trade points for cards to use for this site.
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Oct 8 2026 09:27PM     link to this

How can you tell how many FX points someone has?

Maybe we need to start running contests/photo contests for the guys so they can win points, too.
VictoriaPeaches
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Oct 8 2026 09:28PM     link to this

Wow, how do you do that? I’m curious and I needed it.
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Oct 8 2026 09:37PM     link to this

Go to the cheap bastards profile,

click on the "unlock mail for"

it will tell you if they have any FX points.
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Oct 8 2026 09:39PM     link to this

lol
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Oct 8 2026 09:49PM     link to this

This site exists due to the members buying pts thru gift cards and such.
If those only buy pts when they are out of mail, then the site cant survive

Its a small price to pay to buy even the lowest $25 amount to be able to engage members and more . It supports the daily operation of the site regardless if you are not active!

The sweet spot is the $100 level . There is no excuse not to open your wallet
VictoriaPeaches
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Oct 8 2026 10:11PM     link to this

I could not agree more with you guys that we’re all of the same page is crazy how some people really just don’t wanna spend nothing at all at least the communicate and prove that they are a legitimate profile and for the site to survive even flirts should require points so these people are not able to send flirts if they don’t put at least 10 bucks on their account the minimum
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Oct 8 2026 10:15PM     link to this

I don’t think you can see if they have fx points or not. You can see if they have mail unlocked though.
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Oct 8 2026 10:18PM     link to this

Cheap MF's.

Support the site.
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Oct 8 2026 10:23PM     link to this

I have mail until November 18, 2055. I will be 104 if I use up all my mail and don’t buy any more points until then…
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Oct 8 2026 10:43PM     link to this

^Jazz is a baller!

I'm only good until 2028.
I feel insignificant now.
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Oct 8 2026 10:45PM     link to this

^^^^^ HungryMan nailed it!
US$100 GC from Home Depot, online, gets you mail within hours... PLUS all the bennies!

I used to mail in MO's when I lived near a PO.
They took about a week.
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Oct 8 2026 10:46PM     link to this

Damn. I thought I was ballin' with "Your ability to send mail to other members does not expire until:
Jul 17 2044 04:50PM" but Jazz has me trounced...Support the site.
HelenaUlinova
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Oct 8 2026 10:49PM     link to this

FRIENDS! HOW MANY OF US HAVE THEM?

flirt me if yall need points, male or female. I'm ballin like that.
HungryMan4u
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Oct 8 2026 10:53PM     link to this

I open mail in 3 month increments and use the remaining multi thousands of points to support club contests, buy pic albums, and transfer fx points to FRIENDS!
DelilahRose
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Oct 8 2026 10:54PM     link to this

I agree charge for flirts
AppleBottom
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Oct 8 2026 10:58PM     link to this

Helena is VERRRY kind and generous!! <3
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Oct 8 2026 11:05PM     link to this

@HelenaUlinova

Helena, bright and clear to see,
A single FX point from thee
Would seal my heart and start the spark,
To love you through the light and dark.

You say you're like the Temu brand
Of Wednesday Addams in this land—
A quirky ghost, so people say,
Who haunts her own house every day.

But haunted, budget-goth, or free,
You're exactly where I want to be.
Forever true, come what may be,
Just send that single point to me.
Fun4Dayz
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Oct 8 2026 11:06PM     link to this

I can't even tell you how warm it makes me and how much I appreciate when both men and women, on the board have donated points to me, just being kind. I love it so much!!!
VictoriaPeaches
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Oct 8 2026 11:26PM     link to this

Thank you all for participating in this blog definitely it was something I wanted to discuss with the community support the site, get points and share with the ladies.
dznutzgg
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Oct 9 2026 12:05AM     link to this

helena has always been nice and generous. i chose the most expensive flirt for the occasion
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MyPeePeeBurnsie1169
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Oct 9 2026 12:40AM     link to this

I echo tompetres sentiment

He's a weird cat

But I agree.
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Oct 9 2026 01:04AM     link to this

Tongue punch? How about in the fart box?
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Oct 9 2026 03:51AM     link to this

^ Absolutely.
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Oct 9 2026 04:05AM     link to this

Do you realize that the folks not supporting the site is a matter survival?
The expense incurred is beyond their capabilities.
The mere thought of shelling out that horrendous amount per month puts them in shock.
For many of them they would need to declare bankruptcy.
The cost is one penny more than $3.99 per month!
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Oct 9 2026 04:24AM     link to this

Inflation. This hobby is expensive especially when they become addicted
mikeylikes
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Oct 9 2026 04:44AM     link to this

Pencil Dick Lames.
Angler1
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Oct 9 2026 04:56AM     link to this

Just because they may not mail privileged, doesn't mean they have no FX points....
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Oct 9 2026 05:03AM     link to this

True
It means they are too cheap to use them.
They buy one day of mail at a time.
That means they can get away with a buck or less a month.

Angler1 can't send mail at the moment, but if you unlock some for them, they would certainly appreciate it!

I wonder if that shoe fits
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Oct 9 2026 07:53AM     link to this

no purpose to have a surplus of points, ya only need what ya need. So although being OUT and trying to connect with someone is a signal, being low when you don't need any has nothing to do with nothing.

ThePassionate1
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Oct 9 2026 07:53AM     link to this

and when I look it only show my points, not the other members. Hmmm, curious too.
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Oct 9 2026 08:32AM     link to this

They sent an obscene number of flirts to girls expecting them to go to their page so we could see their little note about them, not having FX point and if they sent you a flirt, then they want you to do the work of tracking them down, send them your menu in hopes that they will call you!

So a quick rundown women still have to do everything

We are the only ones with our face and bodies up and the smart ones require fx points for album to make points that way because we need our points not only to unlock mail but to post the classifieds so you can see that we are here
and yet you guys can’t simply contribute $25 so you can buy the albums or pay for your mail.
On a weekly I’m constantly having the same issues with Men with no mail
many times I’ve unlocked mail for them sent them my menu and never heard from them again.

Those days are over if you can’t send me a message then you shouldn’t be hobbing!
maleinocca
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Oct 9 2026 08:33AM     link to this

I like APs idea , start the constrst for guys. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Oct 9 2026 08:38AM     link to this

I rarely flirt and I do give out fxp to my fave ladies, sometimes randomly.

That said, I feel like flirts are like pager aka beepers. Get a message then I need to call you back. I’m showing my age.
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Oct 9 2026 08:48AM     link to this

points are like cash in your pocket, the more you have the more you play.
I tend to load up, keep myself in mail and give the rest away for fun.

Flirts are just a simple way to say "hi, you caught my eye"
OMG - the humanity of it all !!



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Oct 9 2026 08:49AM     link to this

@HelenaUlinova you are the SEXIEST woman! Thank you for flirting and the fx points. You are amazing!! 😉💋
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Oct 9 2026 09:05AM     link to this

Just get a Hundo gift card at Home Depot.. easy peasy.. and it lasts a long time..
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Oct 9 2026 09:27AM     link to this

I remember when Hx Was free mail
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Oct 9 2026 10:17AM     link to this

I remember when you could buy a three quarter ton pickup for under ten thousand dollars.

Are you gonna start telling us about how you walked five miles in the snow to get to work?
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i have a home depot gc sitting here but cant exchange it for hx points/mail rn. something about the hx vendor having issues.
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I actually walked 10 miles to school in the snow
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Oct 9 2026 11:28AM     link to this

Not even any hot chicks to message here anymore
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Oct 9 2026 11:35AM     link to this

BigJoe- That's not nice!
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Oct 9 2026 11:45AM     link to this

Biggie, are you blind? There some amazing women on this site.
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Bigjoe8 is a shit stirrer
It's just a shill account. He has no one in his network, and has never rated anyone

Just like some other buttheads
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