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michaelmix
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Looking for LOVE in all the wrong places.
Sep 26 2026 06:59PM more by michaelmix
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

Do you think it's possible to find love on HX?

I'm curious to know if there are some success stories out there that flourished directly from meeting on HX. One thing I've learned from this hobby... don't catch feelings here. But... maybe?

Just curious.
      
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DelilahRose
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Sep 26 2026 07:02PM     link to this

I dont think its possible to find love period...
DelilahRose
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Sep 26 2026 07:04PM     link to this

And no it will end badly. Once lines are crossed its a disaster waiting to happen. But I could be wrong
DoctorPhD
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Sep 26 2026 07:14PM     link to this

I do hear a lot of good things about long term relationships founded on hx
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 26 2026 07:20PM     link to this

Probably same success rate as other dating sites.
SydneyClaudel
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Sep 26 2026 07:22PM     link to this

Why not? If two people find each other here it doesn’t mean they can’t built trust and through honesty, communication, boundaries and a shift in how the relationship was first defined, it could theoretically work. Shared values and goals would have to be aligned.
michaelmix
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Sep 26 2026 09:03PM     link to this

Yeah, for one, we know where we are both coming from. Hobbyist and Provider. So there's no secrets coming from HX.

Dating apps seem to be the biggest waste of time. A BIG waste of time.
Parsec77
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Sep 26 2026 09:26PM     link to this

Is hx any worse than a meat market bar or club? At least here we’re all kinda sober, mostly.
Socalsteve
Irvine, OC, CA
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Sep 26 2026 09:34PM     link to this

I've wasted way too much time on dating apps. My standard profile has only attracted weirdos so far. Does no one like snuggle bears and hot cooking these days?



NickSgv
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Sep 26 2026 09:35PM     link to this

No. But I've fallen madly in lust a few times on here..
remo_williams
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Sep 26 2026 09:36PM     link to this

Buddy of mine in college dated a stripper - didn't last, but it didn't end badly either.
TNBE
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Sep 27 2026 01:26AM     link to this

I got with Provider from Here and it was Fun for a while but like DR said, it did end Badly..

Hence the Name T (trust) N(no) B(bitch) E(ever) and it's tattooed on my wrist..To remind me daily..

But hey Someone might have better luck than me...

TNBE


JakeRabbit
San Clemente, OC, CA
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Sep 27 2026 04:41AM     link to this

Folks tend to find love in places that select for things in common or shared values.

Volunteer and find selfless givers. Play sports and work out to find athletic mindset. Attend places of worship to find the spiritual, and so on.

I love HX, and I have been smitten by amazing ladies beautiful on the inside and out, but this community selects for folks searching for short-term dalliances.

Regardless, may the odds of love be ever in your favor.
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