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There’s no bad blood that I’m aware of. He tried to short me more than once so I that’s all she wrote. I was gentle, even sweet about it. Maybe too sweet.
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I'm sorry that you had to deal with that and that you feel unsafe. People should respect boundaries and wishes.
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To be an inconvenience and a waste of time.
I feel confident in saying they have little to no control over anything in their day-to-day lives. Whether that be at home, work, in friend groups, in romantic relationships, or in marriage.
They have a terrible attitude and lack social skills, often get denied the things they want or don't know how to act in social settings. Probably get made fun of or at the very least know they are unwanted.
Instead of trying to make a positive change, the try to make people feel as miserable as they do.
Playing games and wasting time is all they can do.
just my opinion..
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This is never acceptable. If the guy knows or you haven’t responded and should know…well, he should just give up.
This should be mutually agreed upon as beneficial.
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Sounds like the guy has a hard creepy crush on you. It's good you didn't let him in or lead him on.
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As to answer OP’s question…NO ONE except the client knows the motivation. Everybody else is just speculating.
All I can say is…it’s absolutely sociopathic behavior.
The only etiquette that is proper is to say “I saw you before and this was/is my handle and number. Not sure if you wanted to see me again but I would love to see you.”
If she doesn’t respond the answer should be assumed to be “not interested.”
Simple. But as to asking WHY…no one knows and to pretend you know is downright laughable.
It’s just sociopathic behavior to be deceitful.
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"Because people are fucking incomprehensible, that's why."
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Testosterone is a helluva drug. How could she not want me?
I think DL is also onto something. It's the same incel behavior that leads to all kinds of bad stuff. Maybe she's onto more than I am. 
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Might not be a plan, but an end game.
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Oh sorry.
Just block him the best you can.
Good Luck.
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Showing up unannouced, especially after being told not, to is a serious red flag of a stalker!
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you have to know that this in part is an emotional game we play. There are connections made and just because of the nature of things, crossed signals sent. Some people have a hard time drawing the line between realities. "If I could just see her again we could work this out, maybe she would understand me".
I think it's a natural behavior, but it's not professional and boundaries have to be respected, some people I'm sure struggle with that more than others and yea, it has to be a red flag unless both parties agree on meeting. The flip side to that is that some people are also just unbalanced and you gotta watch out.
I could see someone wanting to get back into your good graces Devin because you are just a sweetheart. Even here that's shining through, but you're doing the right thing.
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respecting boundaries is key.
we are all whole people, with feeling and emotions.
If you cannot control your feelings and emotions, to the point where you think you need to manipulate someone into seeing you. That you are so self-centered that only your need and validation matters... help is needed.
It's perfectly natural to develop feeling's.
Showing up uninvited, making new accounts, numbers or whatever is not.
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