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Do you believe in love at first sight?
Feb 28 2026 07:50AM more by tbysstudios
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Or is it just cleverly cloaked infatuation? lol.


What are your thoughts on this? Has it ever happened to you?


      
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longwalker
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Feb 28 2026 08:12AM     link to this

No, not at all.
ZoeyyBabyy
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Feb 28 2026 08:28AM     link to this

Can’t fall in love before getting to know someone in my opinion. Having a connection makes things much better
AFMadness
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Feb 28 2026 09:06AM     link to this

Oh it's cleverly cloaked alright. It's part of the Reactive mind that everyone has, unless they have reached The State of Clear.

I found out just how powerful it is. Just waiting until something happens that F's you over in less than a heart beat without you even knowing it.

The last time it took me months to figure out the why, why this one. I finally got the answer, it was not what, well I dunno.
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ThePassionate1
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Feb 28 2026 09:11AM     link to this

Yes, but if it actually lasts depends on that connection that grows over time.
You can fall because of chemistry and attraction and grow deeper in love with time.
Still happened at first sight. But if you find that consider yourself very lucky.
longwalker
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Feb 28 2026 11:05AM     link to this

It's called "lust" or "infatuation"
artnjazz
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Feb 28 2026 11:08AM     link to this

Yes, just about every day when I'm out and about.
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Feb 28 2026 11:51AM     link to this

I agree with zoeyybabyy
yogibronx
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Feb 28 2026 11:51AM     link to this

Yes it has....unfortunately she has passed...still love her!
rideme
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Feb 28 2026 12:09PM     link to this

Lust at first sight, yes. Love...no.
LngbdSR
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Feb 28 2026 12:26PM     link to this

Every time I meet a beautiful HX lady.
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Feb 28 2026 01:00PM     link to this

Depends on the definition. I fall in love everyday with cats and puppies. I love sourdough bread I love peanut butter. Some geographical locations wake a sense of awe in me. I love knowledge and wellness. It all depends on the meaning you want to give the word. Please advise.
Best!

DrMcLovinPHD
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Feb 28 2026 01:11PM     link to this

Love at first sight does not exist. Getting to know someone, sharing intimacy, and showing them how much you care for them creates love.
frankee
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Feb 28 2026 01:27PM     link to this

" I only love my bed and my momma, I'm sorry"
ThePassionate1
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Feb 28 2026 01:45PM     link to this

Falling is different than loving, but they can co-exist.
angel.88
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Feb 28 2026 06:19PM     link to this

It's my belief that everyone has a certain look that they are unreasonably attracted to. Maybe a look that is not conventionally attractive, but once you see a person that looks like this, you feel an instant and unrelenting attraction. It's not like seeing a pretty person, it's different. Anyways, that's just based on anecdotal evidence from me, but yes I do believe in it. Maybe not love, but certainly infatuation at first sight.
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Feb 28 2026 07:22PM     link to this

Yes I'm certain that it happens all the time.
OCCityBoy2
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Feb 28 2026 10:18PM     link to this

Can it happen?

Depends on the conversations... Can we feel if there is chemistry?
Can either of us feel convinced that meeting has to happen?

If you are planted in my mind, and desire has been awoken,
And if you want me as much as I want you,
Then, that CONNECTION has already started.

We are all unique, no one else is like another.
Give it a chance.
mikeylikes
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Mar 1 2026 01:42AM     link to this

or should I walk by again ?
SydneyClaudel
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Mar 1 2026 10:18AM     link to this

Not sure I believe in love at all. Only transactional affections.
Pjforfun
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Mar 1 2026 10:22AM     link to this

Ha Ha. Who says you can’t buy love?
SkurferGurl
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Mar 1 2026 10:57AM     link to this

Just about anyone with four legs !!!
June.Moon
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Mar 1 2026 11:36AM     link to this

Nope

Because love is a conscious act , not a feeling
DelilahRose
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Mar 1 2026 01:04PM     link to this

Looks are secondary to me ,still important but its the personality that gets me. U cant see that at first sight.
sandlotdawg
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Mar 1 2026 11:28PM     link to this

Most definetly.

The challenge is maintaining it, feeding it.
Love is not a one way street with no turns, no bumps or obsticles.

Love at first site exists, however most are unwilling to steal a glanse.

Case in point your own child on their actual moment of birth.

Well?
a310guy
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Mar 2 2026 12:28AM     link to this

its all infatuation.
Met this beautiful lady in Vegas, we hung out, things were amazing.
We met again and again i was in love lol.. she said watch it.. its infatuation..

Well i scared her off, so i guess i get nothing and like it.. moral to the story.. like someone
said, this site is for play to pay.. dont get ur feelings all in there.
pt_atwl
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Mar 3 2026 04:06PM     link to this

Falling in love is something that I did when I was a teenager. Shit doesn't make any sense to me as an adult.
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