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SinFul_Curves
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Psa
Feb 22 2026 01:14PM more by SinFul_Curves
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This is a PSA on kissing. So many guys want to kiss. Stick their tongue in your mouth and swap spit. A problem? No. The problem comes when you don't clean your mouth. I would say 90% of guys come with breath that'll burn your nose hair or make you want to throw up. It's gross and a huge turn off. I personally am super sensitive to smells. So I just take kissing off the table.

The next time she says she don't want to kiss check your mouth. I could almost guarantee you it's because your breath stinks. Be thoughtful. Be courteous. Be clean. Clean is not a dirty word. (you see what I did there? me either but it sounds funny) Clean will get you a lot further with me that's for sure. Too many guys show up just out of work and think that them taking a shower earlier that morning constitutes them as clean. � No sir it sure doesn't. So you are telling me that you took a shower this morning, it's now like 4 or 5 in the afternoon and you haven't gone to the bathroom one time? You didn't sit there and fart once the whole day? You haven't gotten hot at all? You didn't touch any money, door, steering wheel, door knob or bathroom toilet? Please wash up for the girl you are seeing. I bet it makes all the difference and makes the session go that much better.

And yes that goes for girls as well. Wash between visits. There is nothing wrong with being clean. Let's make hygiene important and not scary. Because some of you are scared of soap and water I'm almost sure of it.
      
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maleinocca
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Feb 22 2026 02:09PM     link to this

I have seen this very often , and this should not happen
HelenaUlinova
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Feb 22 2026 02:26PM     link to this

BUY A DAMN TONGUE SCRAPER
IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

I hate kissing because 70% think they need to get the food out of my guts with their tongue. No, sweaty, please calm down. Put ur tongue away and start over right quick. It's bizarre to me.
gaonianwong69
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Feb 22 2026 03:38PM     link to this

Can't be said enough, no problem, clean is fun
lawforza1
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Feb 22 2026 03:44PM     link to this

Same for the ladies. Your mouth may be clean, but the garlic and onions in your gut come out with every breath and your juices when we DATY. Keeping it real and fair. Perhaps burgers vs tacos if you're seeing us within 24 hours.

I bathe, shave, groom (down below), etc as though im about to make love to the love of my life on our honeymoon and make certain my gut flora isnt coming up. Then I show up and the breath be bumping though teeth are brushed. Also, if you accept CIM let us know. Im not going to DFK that mouth or dont want to.

AND WE DONT WANT TO SEE YOU WHEN YOURE ON YOUR PERIOD.

Do not mean to offend. Just sharing my opinion. Im grateful for all the providers on HX (except for one)
artnjazz
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Feb 22 2026 04:07PM     link to this

Start from the bottom and work your way up.

Wash your ass and pussy's.

Scrub your arms, legs, thighs, fingers, shoulders, armpits, all of your upper body.

Shave and wash your mouth thoroughly.

Nothing like a bad breathing person.

I once worked with a person whose breath stank to high heaven.

I dreaded the days he would cone over and talk to me. I don't know how his wife dealt with it.



SydneyClaudel
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Feb 22 2026 04:30PM     link to this

I once had to turn someone away because it smelled like a small creature had crawled into their mouth and died.
makinbacon
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Feb 22 2026 04:39PM     link to this

^^^^^
uprightfun
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Feb 22 2026 09:47PM     link to this

Mouthwash and toothpaste do wonders.

FWIW: most of the providers on k-orgs start the festivities with a “blue toast” of mouthwash. I always try to arrive squeaky clean, but I never turn down the simple favor of that cleanup.
AFMadness
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Feb 22 2026 11:01PM     link to this

Non-Fluoridated toothpaste, with Silver. Yes Silver kills Bacteria .

I'll post a link to thedrardisshow.com if I can find it.
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TalentedTongue87
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Feb 23 2026 07:12AM     link to this

My Routine

1. Brush with Regular tooth paste
2. Floss
3. Tongue Scraper
4. Brush with tongue paste (tung Gel)
5. Rinse mouth with mouth wash
6. then take 2 parsley oil gels to coat stomach, so even if after a heavy meal like with garlic, parsley seed oil neutralizes it
kingnorris
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Feb 23 2026 10:00AM     link to this

A very good thread, to be sure. I have sessioned with ladies who could benefit from this thread as well.

One note about flossing: be gentle as it may result in micro cuts to the gums, which are basically open wounds and can transmit and/or receive bodily fluids.
rugmuncher
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Feb 23 2026 01:44PM     link to this

Pretty simple. You are gonna get down and dirty. Clean yourself. Smell good.

Personally I don’t care about the DFK like so many clients seem to but whatever. If you are gonna get down there then have fresh breath and clean teeth.

Wash your genitalia and your ass.
jazz51
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Feb 23 2026 01:51PM     link to this

How difficult is ordinary good personal hygiene.

I always do an hour, so there is plenty of time for me to take a quick shower there. I always come tooth brushed and mouth washed.

Pretty simple to me.....
SinFul_Curves
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Feb 23 2026 04:15PM     link to this

@Helena- So true. Or the porn tongue. I don't get that. But whatever.

@SC-LMFAO. I have had that more times than not. Those are always the guys that want to put their tongue all over your body so you know now your body smells like shit.

Basic hygiene isn't something bad. It's wonderful. Unfortunately so many people don't know how to properly wash. These people that think all natural smells great need their noses scraped out or something because raw onions coming from the body isn't a great smell. Idc how hippy someone is. Use deodorant for the love of God. Some people, believe it or not, think that the water running down your back was washing your ass. There are a ton of people that don't use soap on the butthole. Trips me the F out.
I also don't know how anyone can have sex while they are menstruating. It stinks imho and makes a horrible mess. But to each their own. No judgement.
I think the only time I will ever judge someone is if they show up unclean.
MeadowBrooke
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Feb 23 2026 05:25PM     link to this

Sinful…. You are one of my most favorite bloggers! Love to learn from you beautiful girly!!🩷🙋🏼‍♀️🐶, Emmy Lou says ..’woof!”😘
Eyshinta
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Feb 23 2026 05:28PM     link to this

It's not difficult to keep a box of breath mints in the car.

It's great for all occasions.
kingnorris
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Feb 23 2026 05:39PM     link to this

Here's a thought for the ladies...I either arrive fresh from the shower or do my ablutions in the lady's bathroom when I arrive. Sometimes I do the latter even after showering at home, just as a way of relaxing and getting in the mood. However, some of the bathrooms I've seen have been downright horrendous...littered with clothes, hygiene products, dirty-ass towels, and so forth.

May I suggest taking an extra minute and tidying up the bathroom before a client arrives? It might encourage a guy to wash up, especially if he doesn't have to dodge hair in the drain or hunt for a reasonably clean (unused) towel.

DahliaLove
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Feb 23 2026 07:13PM     link to this

I always have a shower available, clean towels, and mouthwash!
I even have make-up wipes just in case the shower doesn't get it all.
I never expect my visitor to rush, but be mindful and respectful.. ya know...
and PLEEAASE do not use every dang towel!

For those who suffer from halitosis, tonsil stones or smoke a lot... again just be mindful.
I love kissing as much as you do!
As far as body odor... just take the shower.
I'm already gonna ask you to wash your hands.. may as well just get comfortable and wash up.



I love a nice steamy shower!I live for them! There's nothing like feeling clean to get a little dirty!


RobBlakeFan
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Feb 23 2026 07:24PM     link to this

This is all common sense. I've had ladies tell me that I cannot take a shower at their place. This blows my mind and I of course tell them we're not going to meet. It doesn't take long for balls to stink. I very much prefer the lady is comfortable having her nose close to my balls.
SydneyClaudel
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Feb 23 2026 07:35PM     link to this

It makes sense that you want to shower. I wonder why they say no?
I’m thinking asking for 5 extra towels for a single guest looks sus.
Just my best guess.
DahliaLove
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Feb 23 2026 07:40PM     link to this

If anyone is nervous about asking for extra towels, and cannot bring their own... head town to the pool.
Grab a stack.
They are not the softest or cutest, but they work!

I ask for two sets upon arrival.
I bring my own personal towels for myself, so that frees up the others.


and yes, this is all common sense.. but common sense is not very common. lol
SydneyClaudel
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Feb 23 2026 07:48PM     link to this

My grandpa used to say “Some people think gravity works the same for everyone”.
AlexisA
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Feb 23 2026 09:10PM     link to this

I am new, and this is my problem too…It scares me thinking we don’t know if you flossed mouthwash etc. lol
IcedCoffee
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Feb 23 2026 10:15PM     link to this

I'm so shy that even though I'd like to, I never initiate it lol. I'm still nice and clean just in case. Common sense. I can't believe anyone wouldn't.
DahliaLove
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Feb 24 2026 08:35AM     link to this

A shower can sometimes bridge that gap.
HelenaUlinova
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Feb 24 2026 05:34PM     link to this

I explain and apologize detailing my obsessive compulsive disorder and my need to take multiple showers a day and needing to use a fresh towel everytime.

Then when they hand me all the extra towel I usually tip between 10-20.

I make sure to tip any service people, front desk etc.

I'm a great liar but I've found the most effective way to get them to fully fuck off is to tip them
They're going to fuck off with a big smile on their face.
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Feb 25 2026 11:22AM     link to this

“ They're going to fuck off with a big smile on their face.”
LOL made me chuckle 🤭
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Feb 25 2026 07:31PM     link to this

Bless this blog post xxxxoxooxoxo Thank you for calling attention to this!
Appalled to read women also have this problem. Hygiene should be huge for everyone, as well as regular testing. be safe everyone
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Feb 25 2026 09:01PM     link to this

I've seen reviews on other sites that talk about having a 'blue toast' before beginning the session.

For the longest time I thought these were older folks taking a little blue pill to help them perform.

Wasn't until later I realized they were talking about mouthwash.
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Feb 25 2026 09:33PM     link to this

Every time before and after
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Feb 27 2026 04:21AM     link to this

Shower before going. Floss, brush teeth, mouthwash. Once on my way I always have some sort of mint gum in the car and will chew a piece or two just before arrival. Doesn’t make any sense not to be as clean as a whistle and have everything smelling nice! I LOVE to kiss, so you can bet your ass I’m going to make sure I do all things right to make it happen.
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Feb 27 2026 11:05AM     link to this

Such a blessing for all to hear wifey. This blog should be filled with comments tips and tricks.
Locked and reposted monthly as a reminder.....
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