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1Cute.SassyChic
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Irritated
Feb 10 2026 12:49PM more by 1Cute.SassyChic
Tags: Inland Empire , Random (All tags)

I have been a provider for just a couple weeks here. I don’t appreciate it when the man smells. I mean if you know I’m coming over can you make sure you’re good down there. Or the fact that because I’m coming over you can try to talk me out of things or into things I don’t want to do. Low balling me isn’t cool. Can we keep it tidy an clean. I don’t think that’s a difficult request. And if we agree on something can you stick to it. Don’t change up mid stream. I want to be treated like a lady at all times. So please do as such.
      
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artnjazz
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Feb 10 2026 12:53PM     link to this

You are 100% correct. Fully agree with you.
Bigg56
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Feb 10 2026 01:17PM     link to this

Why would a man be smelly when they set up an outcall? You should be prepared when the lady comes over. What if the woman was smelly? I bet that you wouldn’t go forward with that. Then be fresh when they visit you. Treat all women good!
Kelseyforyou
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Feb 10 2026 01:47PM     link to this

Omg basic hygiene is the bare minimum! Stinky guys should be ashamed.
jazz51
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Feb 10 2026 01:54PM     link to this

I always book an hour and take a shower at the lady's incall. That way, I am totally clean and she knows that I just took a shower.
jldsjr1
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Feb 10 2026 02:00PM     link to this

Definitely agree. Hygiene is paramount. No excuse.
AFMadness
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Feb 10 2026 02:09PM     link to this

+1 no excuse

Ever been to place where she washes you first. That was long ago and in another State.
DahliaLove
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Feb 10 2026 02:39PM     link to this

Who is it?



Having an odor because they didn't bother to bathe is one thing, having one because they have a STI/STD is another. Both stink! get it?!?

Unfortunately, the more blogs I read, or messages/ conversations I have with both male and female members, the more I realize that they just were never taught the basics of hygiene and health.
And for the ones who purposely do it, do it because they get their jollies being a jerk to ladies like us.

Let them know and give them a moment to wash up. It can be embarrassing .. but better to know so it doesn't happen again, right?


SkurferGurl
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Feb 10 2026 02:43PM     link to this

It's okay to be a "dirty ole man" but don't be a DIRTY DUDE !!
hyder
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Feb 10 2026 04:46PM     link to this

Just f*cking wash, people. Girls don't want to smell you stink.
RandyMantooth
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Feb 10 2026 04:46PM     link to this

Emerson, dude, as a wise man once said: get your shit together.

Then flush it.

Then wipe. Or get a bidet and learn how to use it.

Then wash your hands and brush your teeth.

Then shower. If you're not circumcised, peel it back and make sure nothing funky is going on. While you're in there, soap up a finger and wash your crack. Stick a finger up your butt and give it a sniff. If it smells at all, repeat until you're good.

Don't forget deodorant.

Then clip some flowers from the garden and present to the lady as you greet her.

Wash your hands again before putting them anywhere near her.
Tabie
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Feb 10 2026 05:07PM     link to this

Give him a bar of soap and a towel and turn the shower on for him.
Tabie
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Feb 10 2026 05:11PM     link to this

lol wrong one!!!! Try text vault
Sylviaeuphoric
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Feb 10 2026 09:43PM     link to this

Get clean before you get dirty! Wink wink
juicybl921
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Feb 10 2026 09:47PM     link to this

Was he Indian?
Hunnyfourtwenty
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Feb 10 2026 09:50PM     link to this

Amen
rugmuncher
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Feb 10 2026 10:38PM     link to this

Mandatory shower should be the protocol. Add 15 minutes in between appointments and don't count it towards the time.

Adjust pricing so it makes sense for both provider and client. Really not that difficult. I have no issue with a provider requiring a shower before we start, but that shouldn't be counted against session time.

It's a simple insurance policy.

I also expect the provider to shower. Can't do DATY with a girl who couldn't be bothered to shower before the session...that's just absolutely unacceptable.
jaydensosweet
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Feb 10 2026 11:15PM     link to this

Girrllllll! Many times have I had this happen! Please please pleaseeeeeee soap and water is all it takes.If your one of those pull that shit back and make sure it’s clean under there too. Nobody wants to smell you if you smell like raw fish. Oh,don’t forget them under arms too! I hate the smell of raw onions 😫🥴😖🤮
mildlyamusing1
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Feb 11 2026 02:11PM     link to this

Taking a shower and being as clean as possible is mandatory and should just be common sense. Some guys are animals and need to be told to take better care of their hygiene.

Guys should want women to respond favorably to them; you want to encourage women to be comfortable with whatever you two are doing, which increases the likelihood that the session will be fun and memorable. You'll get a better experience from a person who isn't grossed out by you.



Similarly, there are plenty of women who do not shower immediately before a session.

If you want repeat business, make sure that guys feel confident that you're clean and that you take care of yourself. I absolutely love DATY, but I typically do it only 20% of the time since it is clear that many of the women on here aren't freshly showered.

We understand that you see other guys and taking multiple showers a day will likely dry your skin out, but that happens only if you don't have a proper routine:

-- Do not take hot showers - that liquifies your skin's natural oils which seals in moisture, which dries out your skin.
-- Pat your skin dry (don't rub your skin with a towel, which further removes your skin's natural oils)
-- Lightly moisturize after every shower if necessary.

Definitely shower between every client. We can tell when you don't and we will likely never see you again if you stink or appear less than fresh.


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