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My take is: Give her some time to explain, but if she starts running ads before attempting to make things right, you might as well rate again. Take screenshots of any agreements in case you need to prove things later.
As always, when doing the rating, read questions carefully, answer honestly, and don't lie.
Sending PM to OP to invite to a club where this can be mediated.
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I don't think negative ratings are warranted. Unless she provides a feasible explanation, I would make notes, and never contact her again.
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I have driven from Laguna to DTLA and got cancelled on when I showed up. Not even cancelled just stopped responding even after confirming 20min before I got there. A 1 hour+ drive each way for nothing.
Never once thought that warranted a negative. Sometimes it is better to just let things go and take it as you were saved from a terrible meetup.
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Then you're a pussy. You should've lit her up in red so others would be warned. They would've asked you why you rated her red in Karma, you could've told them, and she would've received her just reward.
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No show, no call, no response, no explanation = negative rating 100% justified.
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Yes but give them 24-72 hours to at least give them a chance to reply, but if you really want to see them again. Better not to.
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Yes! In reliability!
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I remember driving an hour to meet an HX girl near the airport at night & she didn't answer. It was a looonggg drive home. I sent her a PM. She ignored me again. Yet she kept posting ads. I let her have it in a private club. Finally she responded to me & said she cut her eye while trying to get in or out of a car & was bleeding and had to go to the pharmacy.
But a guy said he saw her around 6 am. I asked if there was anything wrong with her eye. Did she have a bandage around her eye? Did she wear an eyepatch?! He said no, no & no. I let her have it & never let her or anyone else in the club forget it.
And she deserved it cos I'm not a pussy & my time is more important than hers. She left for years before she dared advertise again (then used a different name).
Her name was something like Barbie Needs Ken.
And because of the risk she set up in my mind, I never set up an appointment with any woman near the airport again.
So when someone flakes on you, ding them at least in karma (& reliability, integrity, etc. though that doesn't show who rated them) so others will ask you what happened & you can tell them and possibility save them a lot of anger & frustration and wasting precious time.
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The question that hasn't been asked yet:
Is this Incall to her or Outcall to you, and particularly Outcall to your place of residence?
They are two different things and essentially the difference between a flake and a potential safety issue. Sure, those lines will blur and cross, but context is important here.
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@OP this is HX, where your dreams come to be realized. Why go home with blue ones. Give her the benefit of the doubt; chock the date gone wrong as a loss (of time).
Search for a great dream HX girl and book. Repeat as needed. She won't mind; she she's not your g.
Update us after for accountability's sake.
Best!
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If you want to rate her, simply answer the questions honestly.
It doesn’t mean you’re vindictive. It’s just you helping the community know what to expect.
No one deserves to have their time wasted or to be treated with disrespect.
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No. If you have seen her before. Just talk to her later.
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If this was a first time encounter I would say yes but you stated you have seen her a handful of times and had fun. So, cut her some slack and give her some time to explain. If she doesn't reply or you don't like the explanation then rate accordingly.
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