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My take is: Give her some time to explain, but if she starts running ads before attempting to make things right, you might as well rate again. Take screenshots of any agreements in case you need to prove things later.
As always, when doing the rating, read questions carefully, answer honestly, and don't lie.
Sending PM to OP to invite to a club where this can be mediated.
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I don't think negative ratings are warranted. Unless she provides a feasible explanation, I would make notes, and never contact her again.
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I have driven from Laguna to DTLA and got cancelled on when I showed up. Not even cancelled just stopped responding even after confirming 20min before I got there. A 1 hour+ drive each way for nothing.
Never once thought that warranted a negative. Sometimes it is better to just let things go and take it as you were saved from a terrible meetup.
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Then you're a pussy. You should've lit her up in red so others would be warned. They would've asked you why you rated her red in Karma, you could've told them, and she would've received her just reward.
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No show, no call, no response, no explanation = negative rating 100% justified.
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Yes but give them 24-72 hours to at least give them a chance to reply, but if you really want to see them again. Better not to.
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Yes! In reliability!
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I remember driving an hour to meet an HX girl near the airport at night & she didn't answer. It was a looonggg drive home. I sent her a PM. She ignored me again. Yet she kept posting ads. I let her have it in a private club. Finally she responded to me & said she cut her eye while trying to get in or out of a car & was bleeding and had to go to the pharmacy.
But a guy said he saw her around 6 am. I asked if there was anything wrong with her eye. Did she have a bandage around her eye? Did she wear an eyepatch?! He said no, no & no. I let her have it & never let her or anyone else in the club forget it.
And she deserved it cos I'm not a pussy & my time is more important than hers. She left for years before she dared advertise again (then used a different name).
Her name was something like Barbie Needs Ken.
And because of the risk she set up in my mind, I never set up an appointment with any woman near the airport again.
So when someone flakes on you, ding them at least in karma (& reliability, integrity, etc. though that doesn't show who rated them) so others will ask you what happened & you can tell them and possibility save them a lot of anger & frustration and wasting precious time.
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The question that hasn't been asked yet:
Is this Incall to her or Outcall to you, and particularly Outcall to your place of residence?
They are two different things and essentially the difference between a flake and a potential safety issue. Sure, those lines will blur and cross, but context is important here.
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@OP this is HX, where your dreams come to be realized. Why go home with blue ones. Give her the benefit of the doubt; chock the date gone wrong as a loss (of time).
Search for a great dream HX girl and book. Repeat as needed. She won't mind; she she's not your g.
Update us after for accountability's sake.
Best!
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If you want to rate her, simply answer the questions honestly.
It doesn’t mean you’re vindictive. It’s just you helping the community know what to expect.
No one deserves to have their time wasted or to be treated with disrespect.
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No. If you have seen her before. Just talk to her later.
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If this was a first time encounter I would say yes but you stated you have seen her a handful of times and had fun. So, cut her some slack and give her some time to explain. If she doesn't reply or you don't like the explanation then rate accordingly.
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I think a negative rating is earned.
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I find that ratings here are fairly useless. They help but only as a database of who saw who. Can’t tell you how many times I get a PM from someone who rated a girl safe followed by “don’t recommend, fake/old pics, rushed/transactional, does not honor menu, waste of time.”
Even more comical are the actual categories. Like what the fuck is an actual “reliability” or “karma” rating?
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I wonder if on the female side if we should be giving negative ratings for that too .. or like if they get the room number come in and just walk out I mean they could have a change of heart and that’s all fine but if we match our pictures and are in a comfortable & clean space I think it’s unprofessional to just walk out especially since they booked that time frame but I always give the benefit of the doubt and never give negative ratings
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Not like anyone cares what I think but I think a negative should be earned for bogus or old or altered pics or misrepresentation or for no shows with no explanation.
But it is a safety rating and not an honesty rating so you can call it safety when someone knows your location.
I would prefer a real review system. Not this safety shit.
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She probably just got tired and fell asleep I’m sure she meant to send you a text but forgot to hit send. You’ll hear from her for sure give it time
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The only time I give the girl the benefit of the doubt is if we have met already, otherwise no, I will rate them accordingly and place them on my 'Never Again' folder.
OP stated he has met her a 'handful of times', ok, fair enough, but if she has completely ghosted you since the time of your appointment without an explanation, you should have already re-rated her in reliability, compliance and integrity. If you answer the questions honestly, these three rating will drop in accordance with your answers.
'Just Do It' Nike
If you don't care about wrecking her network, then you should have not written this blog.
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I want to point out that the network question asking if you like the person is there for a reason. There are three options, that again are there for a reason. They each tell the community something.
As always, read all the questions carefully and answer honestly. Do you like them and look forward to seeing them again, do you not like them and never want to cross paths again, or are they just ok? They each result in a different outcome and tell a different story.
When I see a rating saying they are Safe and at the same time they were "just okay", it raises flags and causes me to reach out to ask "why?" just as quickly as a dangerous rating or someone saying they don't like the person.
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I appreciate everyone's input. I never had to or thought about giving a negative rating. Just wanted some feedback to decide, It's been 4 days so I think she slept and has had plenty of time to reach out to explain to try to make it rite. I mean if she has time to see a few people since then, she could've simply reached out. I don't like giving out my home address especially to someone that doesn't show up. Thanks
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I think its all situational. Its really up to you. Personally, I would be upset but would let that one go. The system is definitely flawed, I like the idea, but its not a fair system. I would hate to rate someone unsafe and they turn around and rate me unsafe out of anger and in the end, nobody wins. My very first rating was a negative from some drugged up lunatic that was attacking me in some blogs all night while I was sleeping. I didnt even fully establish my account yet and started off with a -3 and I never even messaged this psychopath let alone meet her. So yeah, system is fucked, but its what we have so might as well use it fairly and with intent. Just my opinion and its probably not worth two cents but hey, might as well join in and chat with the community 
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"She probably just got tired and fell asleep I’m sure she meant to send you a text but forgot to hit send. You’ll hear from her for sure give it time"
JuanVaSmash, you take the current crown for biggest pussy on this thread yet. How the hell do you know any of what you're asserting is true? "She probably just... I'm sure... you'll hear from her for sure..."
Anything to avoid conflict, huh? WIMP. Return your Man Card to the front office.
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Hey cheapo
SonOfAdams can't send mail at the moment, but if you unlock some for them, they would certainly appreciate it!
At least he supports the site!
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Aww, the delayed return of my favorite autistic/aspergers subscriber and his repetitive phrases. Kinda late. You're losing your touch.
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Pretty much everyone knows you're the professional cheapo.
I only put it up because new people might think you are part of the site.
When in reality you're just a freeloader.
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If "pretty much everyone knows you're the professional cheapo," then why bother repeating yourself? You "only put it up because..." you can't help yourself. Because you get fixated on one thing & have to keep doing it over & over again.
You're a (whispers) retard! Retard! Retard!
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Because it bugs the shit out of you having someone say you're cheap.The truth hurts
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(whispers) Retard! Retard! Retard!
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