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Marrisa_G
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Jan 29 2026 06:19AM more by Marrisa_G
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

ALS is a terrible disease! I wake up each day and wonder what part of my body is going to show signs of being affected. As of this writing, I am pretty much confined to a wheelchair. Both legs are useless as is my right arm as well. My speech is starting to be affected (slight slurring) and my diaphram is weakening, it is hard to even cough. In about a week I will get a feeding tube placed directly into my stomach.

I have never asked for help on this site but my current condition dictates that I consider things I thought I would never do. My ability to "work" is gone but the bills never stop! The mental stress only ads to my overall discomfort making each day a living nightmare. Some people say, "Fuck it! Just quit paying the bills, what are they going to do?" But as the people in my network can attest to, I have a strong sense of obligation and duty, so I continue to honor my obligations.

Please review my GoFundMe page and see if you can help - no amount is too small and any amount is considered a blessing. Contributions can remain anonymous. If you prefer a different method of making a contribution I can probably arrange that.

PS: I have a couple of clubs that will need new ownership - soon.

https://gofund.me/c85e8b2a0
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Sloane_CamsXO
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 29 2026 08:05AM     link to this

Oh, im so sorry to read this. What youre going through is unimaginable. 😔 a good friend aunt had been afflicted with ALS
Kelseyforyou
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Jan 29 2026 08:06AM     link to this

I’m really sorry you’re going through this.
ALS is incredibly cruel, and the weight you’re carrying, physically and mentally, is more than anyone should have to handle. Asking for help doesn’t diminish your strength or sense of duty. I’ll be sharing your GoFundMe and wishing you support and relief in every way possible. ❤️
EditorScott
OC, CA
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Jan 29 2026 08:13AM     link to this

Marisa, I don't know you, but my aunt died from ALS. I agree that you should stop paying your bills if you need to, and get a caretaker to be with you at all times. Use your bill money to pay for that. You will need help in situations and it will help you keep your dignity until the end. I'm sorry I never got to meet you. Take care of yourself. Citibank will be fine.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 29 2026 08:37AM     link to this

I know we don't agree on the {political front, however I do wish you well.

See what Dr Ardis has to say
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hvywtflip
Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jan 29 2026 09:19AM     link to this

Thank you for the update. My prayers go out to you 🙏
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jan 29 2026 10:08AM     link to this

sending love and light.
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Jan 29 2026 12:16PM     link to this

Hi Marrisa,


I'll help you with as much as I can.

I can also help with the club stuff if needed.
magnumta12000
LAX, Coastal, LA, CA
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Jan 29 2026 01:52PM     link to this

My prayers go out to you and your family.
Johnnie.Rudolph
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jan 29 2026 04:48PM     link to this

Everyone should read "Tuesdays with Morrie".

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Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jan 29 2026 04:57PM     link to this

Marrisa I feel your pain and have known peoplpe that went to that heavy road with ALS, you'll be in my thoughts and prayers wishing that you'll stand tall till the end.
My heart feels sad when people with beautiful souls like yours have to go through this challenges in life.
Know that as a community we'll be standing by you, my best wishes beautiful lady 🙏
SonOfAdams
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Jan 29 2026 05:13PM     link to this

Marrisa, I've read your post three separate times, each time trying to think of something to say. This is the best I can do:

Thank you for educating us on what you're going through so we can feel compassion for people who suffer from this horribly unfair disease. Do you have good enough insurance to cover most of your medical expenses?

I hope somehow you won't have to spend so much time stressing over paying your bills (I'm sorry, I'd donate something but I'm not able to). You should be free to think about your life in general, your friends, your family, and happy memories.

As I and so many others have said before, you've always been a class act here, even when debating divisive political issues (which is extremely hard to do) so you will always have my utmost respect.

I'm not a religious person, but I've studied enough "life after death" experiences from those who died for a few minutes before being revived (even talked to someone who went through that), and I know there's an afterlife. You'll hover over your body, go through the white light & be united with family members who've also passed on, even those you never knew you had.

I wish you peace & joy, as much as you can experience between now and then. God bless you.
sexystephie
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jan 30 2026 03:40PM     link to this

Great book Johnnie.
sexystephie
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jan 30 2026 03:41PM     link to this

So sorry Marrisa. When I get past my own health issues I will be sure to help. If you need any other help I can do that too.
BeBunny
Sherman Oaks, SFV, LA, CA
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Jan 30 2026 05:24PM     link to this

God bless! Thank you for being such a bright light on this site!! Praying for you!
DelilahRose
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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Jan 30 2026 07:11PM     link to this

I admire you so much, you are very strong. Much respect 🙏
athiker2001
San Diego, CA
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Jan 31 2026 09:09AM     link to this

Ms. M,

My heart goes out to you. I've contributed with the hope that it helps provide some emotional relief.
slopoke471
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jan 31 2026 12:22PM     link to this

Marrisa, I was initially attracted to your physical beauty, but after our meeting and spending time together, your graciousness was your most attractive attribute to me.

Your recently being diagnosed with ALS was such a cruel fate for such a genuinely lovely person, and as this disease progresses I hope and pray that you will be surrounded by loved ones.
Knightspirit
Huntington Beach, OC, CA
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Jan 31 2026 03:23PM     link to this

Dear Marisa,
We met only once, but you I could see you had a special grace about you. I so admire your strength and courage to post your circumstances here on HX. God speed and keep posting updates so we can send prayers and love!
IMNventR
Murrieta, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 31 2026 07:50PM     link to this

Dear Marrisa,

I am so sorry to learn of your illness. I lost a lifelong friend last year to ALS, and have some idea what you are going through.

It's sad we never got to meet, I was looking forward to seeing you at the Miramar air show a while back. Unfortunately I could no longer drive later on, due to a severe injury, so I couldn't come by your way later on.

I hope that you get all the support you need at this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nemeziz
SGV, LA, CA
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Feb 1 2026 02:30PM     link to this

I’m so sorry to hear about your ALS diagnosis. Wishing you strength and comfort during this difficult time.
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