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Sorry for your loss & excuse the lack empathy on the.
I cannot contemplate how'd feel if my friends passed. prayers to you !
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That sucks so much. When AppleBottom69 passed last year it was so hard to grieve in private, being torn up on the inside and having to pretend I wasn’t in mourning. Its amazing the kind of bonds you can build with someone over the years in this hobby, and I think its a testament to the HX community that fosters these bigger bonds.
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So sorry, Ravenous. You are a good person. I remember your blog & just re-read it to remember the details. I am sorry you didn't have the kind of closure you needed. Perhaps it'd help you grieve if you explained to us what it was about him that made him so special.
A few months ago, I learned about a month after the fact that a very popular HX woman died suddenly (because I knew her real name & therefore, would check in on her Facebook page from time to time). She was one of THE most giving & nicest people I ever had the pleasure to have known & clearly enjoyed what she was doing.
I haven't stopped thinking about her since. And I still don't know what happened except she may've had some heart problems (did she know she wasn't doing well or did this come out of the blue, etc.). I know the 2nd & last time I saw her 10 years before, she'd just come out of the hospital.
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Son-
When I had a car accident and subsequently cancer and couldn’t pay my rent, couldn’t see clients and had zero support from anyone he was my rock. He and 2 more clients paid my $2880 rent, car payment and all my bills for almost 6 months. Without him I would have been homeless and destitute. After, we stayed in contact until right before he passed. We talked often. He knew my sons and bought them snacks weekly and Christmas gifts. He never forgot my birthday or the day my mother passed. He was like a father figure of sorts. He was a kind good man.
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So sorry for your loss.
It's hard being a secret in someone's life when you truly care for that person.
Try your best to hang on to the great memories and the fact that he is no longer in pain.
He will always be with you!
HUGS!!!!!
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I'm sorry to read you lost a friend RB. You are a good soul, and we have been friends for many years.
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I am very sorry for your loss.
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Ty all and ty whitelight 🥰
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Wow, that was really nice of him & those two other guys. I understand better now. Yep, a very good person.
Not sure if you want to reveal his HX name here. Maybe others knew him? I assume his account has been taken down?
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I’m sorry for your loss.
Don’t know if obituary’s are still commonplace but Google might be able to help if you know (and I assume you do) his real name and birthdate. I know my grandparents are buried in Rose Hills. Their information is publicly available and searchable.
Also, if you know his HX profile name, let me know and I’ll see to it being removed.
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Hugs 💕❤️
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He was not from HX
He was from all way back to BP 🥴🥴
I do know his real name and birth month and day but not year. I would have to guess. I think he was 72? I’m not certain.
I found a bunch online about him but nothing public with his resting location as of yet.
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To the person who just PMd me, re-read the OP. She was in touch with him until December 5, three days before he passed away.
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My apologies, but what is the intent of this thread?
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To share & work through her grief about a good man who was there for her through the hard times.
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I'm sorry for the loss of your client and friend. As hard as we try, inthisnhobby emotions inevitably surface. Be it romantic or friendships. When sharing the most intimate of acts, there is a connection at some level, especially when you see someone on a regular basis. Lust can often change into something more meaningful. Grieve the way you see fit.
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I know a few from way back myself. It really says something when someone continues to see me after a few years.
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Sorry to hear that ur so nice and special
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Condolences to you and may your friend rest in peace. Sounds like he was one of the good ones and I hope he is rewarded for his generosity to you, and I'm sure, others. It's nice that you remember him fondly.
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Try “Find a Grave”. It’s a website. First and last name, state. Might be a bit of scrolling but fairly easy to find a grave.
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Hmm, I don't know if there was a middle name. Nothing comes up for her. At least I was able to go to the Funeral just to have closure. I could probably go there and find out.
Cemeteries have a listing if you go their to find the location.
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I’ completely understand your feelings, as I have gone through the same situation as you. I had a very awesome regular in Houston when I lived out there. He always helped me and he taught me how to change a tire lol how to change my own oil how to shoot my gun. Just very nice man. And out of nowhere he just passed, on the day we were suppose to meet I called and texted no answer then two months later his ex wife messages me and told me he passed away from a heart attack. She was actually really nice and sent me his funeral location and his funeral visual.i couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw his pictures of him in the coffin. It was him but it wasn’t him??? Like you know the happy naughty funny dude I knew. So I chose to remember him by the funny happy memories we shared together instead of that carcass laying in that box.
My point is allow yourself to feel those feelings and also remember the good times you guys shared.
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Wait, his wife knew about your relationship to him & wasn't mad? Wow!
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I'm so sorry for your loss
Having a person that truly cares about you is something that I forever cherish. I love that he was your protector and provider and it speaks volumes on how much you care about him
He's now your guardian angel and I am so glad you were able to get his info and a little closure .
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no his ex wife ,they lived together but in diff sections of homes they didn’t see a point in going through a divorce and all that mess they were very open with each other and overall friends
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I have had clients pass away, its even harder when they are good guys and sweet, the asshats have special places 
xoTabie*
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Sorry for your loss. Some of our clients really are meant alot more to us i know exactly how you feel when they cross your mind or just stuff that reminds you of them.
I myself still am taking it hard from the loss from bigdickdaddy.. i could possibly help you if youd like find out where hes burried or what not i did the same for my client because it was unreal to me but thats the only way i got to get some peace with myself.
Xoxo keep your head up lovely
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