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sonya7
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Huddle Up ⭕️
Jan 10 2026 03:43AM more by sonya7
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Listen guys involved-

I’m here to make money, so that I can support my family, just like all other independent ladies. When you guys gang up on me and blacklist independent ladies like me. It has a negative effect. I get it. You’re in charge. Why give a smart woman ammo to research something that pays her zero dollars? My measly pay has zero effect on your business model.

To the CEO of all involved. Instead of being afraid of beauty & brains, approach them/me as an alli. It’s very clear women my age whose days were tanking have been recruited to do only you and I know. Including lady accts that have gained trust that are backed by men to dupe the community. I’ve made it very clear I’m aware of what’s transpired over the years.

Restructure your org chart. Approach me with the intent of why we are all here. Don’t message me, trying to gain intel. You already know the answer.

I have a lot of things I wish to advocate for. Turn your stalking into dollars. Your gig could make a lot more dollars with a good side. Play the good guy AND the bad guy.

How do you beat your competition? You include them, and become them so that you control both sides.

Enough with attacking independents. There are only a handful of us left.

Women’s safety, will always be my priority. Including myself. No one here protects me, so I have to keep my guard up.

Fuck it, give me a job. Your bookers have a messy trail, and are the reason why I’ve had to figure out why I’ve been targeted, when I’ve had a clean respectable journey the past 15years. Any acct that engages with me in blogs or PM- and tries to get me worked up. Will get a cappuccino ☕️ response. I will no longer engage with malicious accts, that corner me.

Please.
Geezuz.
Iam not the enemy.
I just want to work.








      
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scotty949
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Jan 10 2026 03:54AM     link to this

Sonya, you seem like a lovely women and I feel that fact was validated at the social. Shoot me a PM.
sonya7
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Jan 10 2026 04:43AM     link to this

After you’ve restructured your Org Chart. Let me know when you are ready to put your dollars into a 501(c)(3. & move your money kindly.

Control the narrative. At this rate in 10 years you are going to see a massive boom of enraged women marching the streets, once they age out and gain access to a community of women whom were silenced also.

Give them a retirement plan, and a purpose. At least pretend you care about women? Give them a cause to advocate for. Bodies that get used, eventually become a loud voice in a quiet space. And when their voice is muted, eventually a group of many girls voices will come together. Outside of private spaces.

This is the space. This is the moment. It’s grown too fast, with zero thought about the future and its damage. These bodies eventually become the future.

Find a purpose.
You can do evil, yet still have a conscience.
We all have families.
Don’t let your daughters future become another statistic. My father’s, daughter became a statistic unbeknownst to him as well.

You’ve already acknowledge we make you money.

Now do better.





a310guy
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Jan 10 2026 06:50AM     link to this

I'd like a Carmel frappe
AFMadness
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Jan 10 2026 09:33AM     link to this

Perhaps this will help some.

Excuses and Stops get one no where.
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AvaAllure
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Jan 10 2026 03:09PM     link to this

Whaaaaa? This drama is new too me?!
Damn it people can't you just mind your own F**ing business!

Stick to your lane and mind your own !

Xo Ava all Love ,
rugmuncher
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Jan 10 2026 04:37PM     link to this

There is no conspiracy or coordinated effort to take away the business of independents.

SydneyClaudel
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Jan 10 2026 08:56PM     link to this

The market will do what the market does. We are all adults and we both sign up to mutually exploitation. When we acknowledge that we can stop getting angry at others for the agreed exchange.
rugmuncher
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Jan 10 2026 09:15PM     link to this

Agreed. The market is not what it was 12 months ago. Prices are higher but so are service expectations.
Harpooner
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Jan 11 2026 03:24PM     link to this

I’m not up to speed on what this is about, but I’ve always preferred independent ladies.
rugmuncher
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Jan 11 2026 05:44PM     link to this

Most everyone prefers indies because who you communicate with is the person you see. With bookers there is always the chance for miscommunication. Someone says they are cool with something and you find out it isn’t the case.

But no one will tell you they are a booker. Just like a girl isn’t gonna tell you that the money you advanced to her she plans on fucking you out of.

Bookers to me aren’t a dealbreaker. They serve a purpose. But just understand it’s another layer of communication for shit to get wrong.
sleepyone
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Jan 12 2026 04:18PM     link to this

Leave Sonya alone or I’ll beat you with a baseball bat.
rugmuncher
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Jan 12 2026 06:11PM     link to this

Who’s picking on her? Was just asking for clarification.
DahliaLove
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Apr 11 2026 08:15PM     link to this

Sonya you are very much wanted here.



ilove2lick
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Apr 12 2026 01:26AM     link to this

I’d see you
sonya7
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Apr 12 2026 04:26AM     link to this

Update. Alot of interesting new non profits recently filed since this blog from some of you old timers.

Most interesting and concerning ones. Men advocating against trafficking and trying to build an army on social media to hide their past to gain public trust.

The perfect Epstein circle ⭕️ continues.

loucfirr1
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Apr 12 2026 09:02AM     link to this

The only business model I know is deep discounts!
LBlove27
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Apr 12 2026 10:52AM     link to this

What are you even talking about? You’re a flat out liar. I’ve already proved that… Help yourself before you try and help anyone else. Maybe take a break from the keyboard and do some yoga or Pilates… Take THAT advise….
sonya7
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Apr 20 2026 02:49AM     link to this

Anyone elses mail being moderated?

I once heard. Pretty girls that stay quiet get paid. Loud girls get obliterated.

I was quiet for 15 years.

But its been interesting this past year since being vocal against abuse.

Just me?

I will die on this hill.



sonya7
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Apr 20 2026 04:49AM     link to this

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June.Moon
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Apr 20 2026 07:16AM     link to this

Sonya. I would love to sit down and talk to you. I will say that it's not independent strong women being attacked (trust me I have never been one to shy away from telling it like it is) but when you blog and insult people for no reason it causes others to see it and stay away. No one wants to be on the radar or a ticking time bomb . There are thousands of women on here so you have to ask yourself would someone want to see a girl who's always blogging and upset, or a girl who always has a positive attitude and welcoming energy.



You literally just called a guy cheap because he was looking for a lady with a BBL. You can't insult every guy on the site then get mad when no one comes to see you. Especially when they have a variety of others to see instead



Take a break from blogging. I think that would help tons
June.Moon
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Apr 20 2026 07:22AM     link to this

And I get it. A lot of the men on here are trash.. hell a lot of men are trash in general



There was an article last year about a WhatsApp group chat of 70,000 men talking about the terrible things they did to their wife and daughters while unconscious



Last week another group chat came out where men called it the rape academy and that was full of absolutely disgusting things



Women never do things like that so I get what you mean. I used to be a warrior to bad behavior and trying to constantly get people to act right . Then I realized that no matter how great of a person that you are there will always be bad people out there and all you can do is focus on yourself



I hate that so many men secretly record women and manipulate them to not pay them, but sadly all that we can do is protect ourselves. I've rated men red for being unsafe and women still see them



So the best that you can do is really just focus on yourself. People will do what people do
DoctorPhD
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Apr 20 2026 07:36AM     link to this

I agree with June.Moon and DahliaLove.

Sonya I love your advocate sprit but yes some guys do shy away from ladies who overly blog.
Girl let's talk again love about your marketing and your brand. Lets give this amazing fire of yours a purpose
sonya7
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Apr 20 2026 02:28PM     link to this

You’re right.

Time for change.
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