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I’m sorry but….
Jan 7 2026 05:17AM more by blackmask
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Some ladies on this site really need to stop lying about their age. Having profiles saying you are in your 30s when you are clearly in your 50s is wild
      
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Sylviaeuphoric
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Jan 7 2026 07:43AM     link to this

Like when Michael Jackson lied about his face when its painfully obvious he had plastic surgery. Regardless of obvious display they really feel they can fool men.
ColossusJones
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Jan 7 2026 08:19AM     link to this


Once an age is set on their profile, it cannot be changed.

AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 7 2026 08:28AM     link to this

but not sorry.

Look behind to vail, or the mask as it were.
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frankiegaf
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Jan 7 2026 09:16AM     link to this

Funny..lol. 20 year age lie is crazy...but I routinely assume the stated age is off by a few years.
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jan 7 2026 09:33AM     link to this

I’m 29 and I wish I could stay in my 20s forever lol
sabar
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Jan 7 2026 09:34AM     link to this

I know a few who deleted their old handle and also created a new one to maintain their sweet xx age for few years now!
maleinocca
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Jan 7 2026 09:39AM     link to this


Life has thought me that is women’s nature , I do NOT see it wrong , all the ladies I know always like to say they are a few years younger, some can pull that off , others can’t 😂😂
But I also also a believer that ladies are like “WINE , BETTER with the years “ .

Live and learn BRO!!!😎
😂😂
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jan 7 2026 10:03AM     link to this

just keep calm and use your imagination
artnjazz
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Jan 7 2026 10:20AM     link to this

Some will jump ship to another website and claim they are still in their 20' s or 30's.
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jan 7 2026 11:04AM     link to this

My age is true.


BUT!! a lot of people are not trying to share all their actual info, for what ever the reason may be.

So, maybe just use common sense when checking out anyone's profile.

ilove2lick
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Jan 7 2026 11:14AM     link to this

Like the ones in their early 20s but easily pushing 40s. 😂

Come on, now!
munny1
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Jan 7 2026 12:25PM     link to this

And then they get all upset when you turn and walk away. Try and rate you bad. Look at all the pics with butts because they don't want to show the belly and how much it sticks out.
PerfectPeach
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Jan 7 2026 01:47PM     link to this

It would be great if the men would stop hiding behind a lame profile meme and actually show themselves so we can decide off your looks! Wouldn’t THAT BE SOMETHING!
blackmask
City of San Bernardino, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 7 2026 02:05PM     link to this

And it’s not even about the looks. I love older women, but when it’s that much of a discrepancy, it’s hard to suspend belief lol
DahliaLove
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Jan 7 2026 02:11PM     link to this

All I am saying is take a little accountability.

Do your homework on whom you are meeting, ask around, and keep in mind who you are asking.
Is the person you are asking info from, a person whose word holds value?

Use common sense and critical thinking!
Why would a person hide their true age or name here?


There is someone for everyone here.
Enjoy it.
Stop putting others down to lift yourself up.

It's not nice.





lawforza1
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jan 7 2026 02:37PM     link to this

Upon arrival and greeting once I determine person is not as described be it overly filtered, under the influence, etc. I leave a gift 10-20% and leave. Some have been disturbed by the gesture, but frankly I think I am being reasonable/generous given the circumstances. I can name names here, but I wont. A lot are Level 3 or greater and take advantage of newbies.

AlyssaO711
Cypress, OC, CA
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Jan 7 2026 03:12PM     link to this

I also don’t lie about my age. But here’s the problem, women wouldn’t lie about their age if men weren’t so focused on it. Age doesn’t define beauty, personality or skills. But if that’s what you want to focus on, that’s up to you. Just know you might be missing out on somebody you could possibly have a great time with.
yogibronx
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Jan 7 2026 03:33PM     link to this

I love mature women...most of them on this site keep themselves in pretty good shape...and they all have that experience that we are all looking for...or at least I am! Age is a number!
SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 7 2026 03:51PM     link to this

Why lie about how WISE you are, I can honestly say "experience makes a difference"

Getting old isn't so bad, I do recommend ya young ladies of any age start a good skin regimen, wear sunscreen and drink water, eat veggies.

SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 7 2026 03:53PM     link to this

Ohh & Alyssa+a million
xmn9669
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Jan 7 2026 04:00PM     link to this

I could give 3 shits, 2 fucks, and a DAMN about a woman's age, because if (and usually when) i can tell the obvious age difference of her pics when we do meet, i aint questioning it because wheeewww...i just KNO she bouta put it on me!!!

But i do see the point of the OP...like if mofos are into the younger type but get someone thats much older and vice~versa, then yea its a problem, but at the same time, i just dont give af about a woman's age on here.

For instance...Alyssa...i soo want her to RUIN ME!!! I just kno i would be left a freaking MESS after she is done with me

-X-™

BillyBobJackson
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Jan 7 2026 04:07PM     link to this

It's elementary..u can guestimate the ages of some via pics alone. It's all good just depends on ones preference.
munny1
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Jan 7 2026 04:36PM     link to this

Some of pics are not real or they hide their belly and age till you get there. You walk and you get a bad rating. Rating does not work they just get a new one. The site makes the money. There has to be a better way.
AlyssaO711
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Jan 7 2026 06:49PM     link to this

Hey X I would LOVE to ruin you 😁😜🤤
marine1
Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 7 2026 06:53PM     link to this

Ruin me next please!!
Mr.Magnum
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Jan 7 2026 07:43PM     link to this

It could also be for safety reasons. Why would one put their true age out there for anyone to be able to use if anything is breached.

If they match the pics than what is the harm?
Ruggermunch
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Jan 7 2026 07:49PM     link to this

Misleading pics is just misleading, and it's unfortunate. I agree that needs to stop, but I don't really know how that pertains to age... Most of the ladies on here seem to be quite truthful about their age, and from my experience, most don't use misleading or inaccurate pics. All the pics are marked with a date anyways, so if you're looking at a 10-15 year old pic and expecting a bang on representation... Well that's on you for not doing you homework.

Age is but a number, and means literally nothing to me. All I see is experience, and that means I'm gonna have one hell of a time.

Alyssa, one of these days I'll make a trip up to see you. I would love to have you ruin me as well. (The Sloppiest photo album looks like so much fun 😍)
the5th
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Jan 7 2026 08:07PM     link to this

"It could also be for safety reasons. Why would one put their true age out there for anyone to be able to use if anything is breached."

If it were just for safety reasons, then she can put in the wrong birthdate (month/day, not year) since that's usually the part most sensitive for identity theft… and if really paranoid, be off by a year or two.
Not a big deal, IMO.

Off by 20 years? That's not safety reasons, that's false advertising.
juicybl921
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Jan 7 2026 09:39PM     link to this

I never look at the age in the profile. Just look at the pictures and you should know
AvaAllure
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Jan 7 2026 09:40PM     link to this

Age is so over rated
Pfftt..
Ajay4fun
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Jan 8 2026 12:48AM     link to this

My age is off. But only on this site. Funny because it was a type-o I never noticed for many many years. Then one day someone said something to me about my age. I said that’s wrong. To which they replied, that’s what your HX profile says. When I checked they were right, so I tried to correct it, and they will not change it.

Oh well I tried. And that was probably 10 years ago.

But it is not off by 20 years!

A
Tatiana36dd
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Jan 8 2026 08:28AM     link to this

OP, who got you all ruffled up? Who was the lady? Also as u well know some of the younger gals have led fast lives and I have seen it where the lifestyle can add miles on the young ones
blackmask
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Jan 8 2026 10:56AM     link to this

I really didn’t think it would be that much of a controversy to ask for a closer approximation of age.

And I understand the sensitivity of protecting ones identity, it’s why I use a Lucha mask for a pfp.

My intent wasn’t to offend but to start dialogue
Lusin_Jan7
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Jan 8 2026 02:12PM     link to this

Imagine members liying on this site, Or rules and policies applied across the board? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that it'll be the day. Let's play the devil's advocate. If I get a message from a member who on his profile and reviews are from a younger crowd why would I bother to answer knowing I'm in my mid to late forties. Makes no F... sense. Conversely guys why would you message someone mature if you know your playground is some where else? Now laying about 20 years difference that on a different level, it is time to seek mental health. My humble and old age🤣 personal opinion 😈
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