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Hunnyfourtwenty
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Why Slowness Feels Like Intimacy Rabbit Tales Volume 5
Dec 23 2025 06:52PM more by Hunnyfourtwenty
Tags: Orange County, Leisure (All tags)

I have learned that real desire does not rush me.

It waits.
It watches.
It takes its time learning my body before asking anything of it.

Slowness is where I feel most wanted.

When things move slowly, every sensation becomes louder the shift in breath, the heat that gathers without being touched, the awareness of someone close enough to feel but not yet claim. That space is electric. It’s where anticipation lives. Where the body starts responding before permission is ever spoken.

Fast hands do not excite me the way patient ones do.
I want presence before pressure.

I like passion that unfolds instead of demands. The kind that lingers in eye contact a second too long. That lets fingertips hover before they land. That understands desire isn’t about speed it’s about attention. When nothing is rushed, everything feels intentional.

Slowness lets the body speak honestly.

You notice the way tension melts when someone feels safe. The way desire shows up quietly firstin posture, in proximity, in breath. You feel chosen when someone isn’t trying to get anywhere else. When they stay.

Thats intimacy to me.

Not urgency.
Not intensity for its own sake.
But the willingness to slow down and stay present long enough for desire to deepen.

I like passion that builds heat gradually, the way warmth spreads under skin instead of striking all at once. I like moments that stretch, that ache just slightly before they break open. Slowness sharpens everything it makes wanting unavoidable.

Winter taught me this.

Cold air draws bodies closer. Shorter days make nights feel endless. Everything about the season invites patience, closeness, and intention. Desire doesn’t disappear in the cold it concentrates.

I do not want to be rushed through intimacy like its something to complete. I want to be explored slowly. Felt fully. Met where I am. I want passion that stays long enough to leave an imprint.

That’s why I move the way I do.
Why I linger.
Why I let moments take their time with me.

Because slowness is not hesitation
it is confidence.


      
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longwalker
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Dec 23 2025 08:49PM     link to this

too much to read
Gbannana
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Dec 23 2025 09:26PM     link to this

Personally that’s how I prefer to interact in a session. I enjoy the intimacy, the desire, the anticipation, the patience. The build up makes everything more intense and enjoyable. Watching the other person enjoy themself as much or even more than you provides a certain satisfaction for me as well.
Hunnyfourtwenty
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Dec 23 2025 10:51PM     link to this

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Khornelius686
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Dec 24 2025 05:34AM     link to this

I tend to walk slower than everyone else, so that with each step I can embrace and take in everything going on around me at that moment and surroundings. Not because of my deteriorating and arthritic hip.
yogibronx
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Dec 24 2025 07:17AM     link to this

Gbannana....could not agree with you more...that is exactly how I like it...love the anticipation...slowly and softly get into the session...enjoy everything around you and her....
NacNacBoy199
Huntington Park, LA, CA
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Dec 24 2025 09:53AM     link to this

damn girl. most of these guys just book 30 minutes. by the time slowness is fulfilled, it’s time to go home. this will work in your personal life but on here time is money.
moneytrain
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Dec 24 2025 01:15PM     link to this

Wow op, you are definitely the kind of woman I seek on Hx, beautiful, confident, and.sensual. I usually book 2 hr appointments or longer because I always like to take my time exploring every inch of my ladies skin with my tongue. I love finding that sweet spot that makes my partners legs shake and give her goosebumps
SydneyFox
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Dec 24 2025 08:13PM     link to this

Reading this melted me.
I have experienced that slowness and it’s always delightful!
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