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Summertimeee
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No showing..
Nov 29 2025 03:38PM more by Summertimeee
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

What is wrong with people scheduling a time and committing to it and then no showing???
Atleast communicate or don�t waste someone�s time.

Just got no showed back to back from HX clients.

We�re grown, use your words.
      
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Summertimeee
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Nov 29 2025 03:39PM     link to this

Hate that HX format adds all that shit lmao


But point is , what’s the point of wasting someone’s time?????

ocguy66
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Nov 29 2025 06:15PM     link to this

That’s just rude
SydneyFox
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Nov 29 2025 07:19PM     link to this

It costs you money because you could have used that time with someone else.
I would rate them in reliability as negative
EncinitasBrian
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Nov 29 2025 08:18PM     link to this

I'm so sorry this happened.

It's just so inconsiderate. Most people know that they should tell you they are not coming, but they don't do it.

May it not happen again to you.
Gbannana
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Nov 29 2025 08:38PM     link to this

I agree with fox…. Rate them negatively so that others are aware. It will also bring attention to them not to do that.
yogibronx
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Nov 29 2025 08:44PM     link to this

Simply terrible...what would possess someone to do that?? Things happen but for God's sake not to tell someone and just ghost them sucks!
cort6777
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Nov 29 2025 09:05PM     link to this

I'm sorry that happen 2 u miss...
bigguy31
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Nov 30 2025 06:52AM     link to this

No call with a no show is nasty work, no consideration for someone else.
sonya7
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Nov 30 2025 07:24AM     link to this

Ladies. If you ever share your address and they don’t show. Rate negatively. This is unsafe. We call this an address collector. Don’t fear retaliation. You could save a women’s life.
MyGuy
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Nov 30 2025 07:48AM     link to this

Not showing up after scheduling is unacceptable.
We don't appreciate being ghosted and having to wait.
It's a two way street.
Time is money.
And there needs to be a mutual respect.
Summertimeee
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Nov 30 2025 08:17AM     link to this

I rated them both negatively for reliability

Makes me really uncomfortable when we schedule times and give out my address and I get no showed. It makes me feel like, when I go to my car or I’m leaving someone is gonna be there watching me or something. And THATS the honest feeling I get.

Just communicate that’s 10x better than ghosting. I wouldn’t expect you to drive to me and then me just no show you. And if that’s ever happened, I’ve most likely fallen asleep and will text the next day with a special and an apology.


Let’s be courteous guys
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Nov 30 2025 11:46AM     link to this

I've been in four situations where a time and date was confirmed the day off or night before. All while I had already parked and waited in the car to get the room number.

1. Excuse been she was asleep. Really, at 12 noon.
2. Excuse was needed to run an errand, then get back home to get ready.
3. Excuse been family emergency and had to travel back to Vegas. In the meantime a few hours later, posting ads in OC.
4. Excuse been, she had left to Tijuana.

They all got negatives in reliability and compliance.

I don't mind cancellations, just let me know ahead of time, like an hour or two, but not while I'm already there.
Wastral
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Nov 30 2025 06:12PM     link to this

This sadly goes both ways. I’ve been stood up multiple times. Always the same excuse, “sorry, I slept through my alarm”. We’re meeting at 10 or 11am and you can’t be up. I’ve waited upwards of an hour past and sending messages to finally leave, and book someone else. Then on my way to someone else they apologize and say they can be ready.

I’ve got shit I need to do as well. My time is just as important.
ivory1973
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Nov 30 2025 09:39PM     link to this

Its just down rite rude...

And unexceptionable!!


So sorry sweetheart you had to deal with sh**t
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Nov 30 2025 10:35PM     link to this

Yes it sucks..

Summertimeee you also no showed on me in the bay area.. Oct 2024 morning appt. No text to cancel and since i saw you before, drove over and waited... Crickets. No apologies either.
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Nov 30 2025 11:23PM     link to this

Thank you islandtalent. Notes taken.
deep.passion
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Nov 30 2025 11:34PM     link to this

It could be a case of one dude having multiple accounts whom OP had a disagreement with recently or refused to see and used his other accounts to make back to back appointments and no show just to waste time and cost you $ as retaliation!!!

I would think back to someone that OP has had a conflict with
TheMatrixx
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Dec 1 2025 03:48AM     link to this

"Summertimeee you also no showed on me in the bay area"

It is always the people trying to wag their finger at someone else who are the biggest hypocrites. Bet the OP is just as rude and disrespectful as the guys who no showed her.

Its called KARMA. Suck it up buttercup

Summertimeee
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Dec 1 2025 08:19AM     link to this

Islandtalent, provide proof. Send me the messages. Cause if I’ve seen you ONCE, like you say, I would have the messages like I do for everyone I’ve seen over the years. Never once deleted anything or got a new number.



Summertimeee
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Dec 1 2025 08:21AM     link to this

Matrixx, I can tell you’re on here not to spend anything and just window shop like a Weirdo who probably has multiple accounts, like a fucking weirdo. Just here to harass and rage bait 😂😂😂
Summertimeee
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Dec 1 2025 08:23AM     link to this

Oh wait, island talent, you’re saying you drove over anyways after getting zero confirmation just because you ‘saw me before’
That is 100% your fault lol. Don’t put that on me.

If you don’t get a confirmation text, why would you even waste your time driving however long you did…..if you did…
islandtalent
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Dec 1 2025 08:41AM     link to this

Here it is. I realize i took a chance but its an early am appt so figured you may be slowly waking up. If you decided to cancel, would have appreciated a text to cancel.
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islandtalent
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Dec 1 2025 08:48AM     link to this

I took the last message from you as confirmation unless i heard back otherwise.
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islandtalent
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Dec 1 2025 08:49AM     link to this

Oops. Wrong pic
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TheMatrixx
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Dec 1 2025 09:10AM     link to this

Summertimeee you are the only bimbo on here complaining to Internet full of strangers. I'd say that makes you the weirdo.

and don't get all high and mighty just because you are on here selling your raggedy ass. Don't go thinking that makes you better than anybody else here.


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Dec 1 2025 09:55AM     link to this

Islandtalent, provide proof. Send me the messages. Cause if I've seen you ONCE, like you say, I would have the messages like I do for everyone I've seen over the years. Never once deleted anything or got a new number.
For historical accuracy
  • Jul 12 2022 08:28AM islandtalent rated Summertimeee safe and that he likes her.
  • Jul 12 2022 09:01AM Summertimeee rated islandtalent safe
  • Oct 18 2024 06:14 PM he texts her, they appear to come to an agreement to see each other the following morning at 9 AM and she sends address
  • Oct 19 2024 08:18 AM He texts to say he is on the way, follows up that he arrived by 9, and then again at 9:20 saying he will be in the area for awhile.
  • No response from her.
  • Oct 19 2024 09:53PM islandtalent updated rating of Summertimeee saying she is still safe, but instead of liking her she "is just okay"
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Dec 1 2025 11:48AM     link to this

No time to read all the comments but hey that’s disrespectful, and I always put on my notes when something like that happens just so I never book them again. They get one chance, nada más
butthead_5150
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Dec 1 2025 02:37PM     link to this


Kelseyforyou

It is disrespectful to form an opinion without reading what transpired.
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Dec 1 2025 03:27PM     link to this

"The Matrixx", your comments are inappropriate, unwarranted, and rude.

I've met Summertimee several times and she is none of what you said.

If you think your comments make you attractive for a woman to see, then you have a surprise coming for you, and I don't mean Christmas.
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Dec 1 2025 03:51PM     link to this

You might notice that matrix is just a shill account.
No ratings in any direction.
Admonishing a shill account is like pissing in the wind.
It might make you feel good. It is just a waste of time and messy.
TheMatrixx
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Dec 1 2025 04:58PM     link to this

Of course the white knights and simps come out to put the cape on. There is always a couple of incels lurking in the shadows.
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Dec 1 2025 05:02PM     link to this

dont feed the trolls
TheMatrixx
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Dec 1 2025 05:12PM     link to this

^^told you follow my every move, I'm proven be right once again
June.Moon
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Dec 1 2025 05:19PM     link to this

huh? delusional love .. I follow RandyMantooth and went to check his comment since i was online and posting (hence the profile and classified updates)



You're an idiot if you think that someone other than your mother cares about you. And I mean that in the nicest way possible.
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Dec 1 2025 05:25PM     link to this

also... the recently updated blogs section shows what blogs people are reacting to and I do check them.


Sorry but dont flatter yourself beautiful . There are billion people on this earth and thousands on this site... So the audacity for you to think that you'd be the one that I choose to care about is quite bold and a bit hilarious. Especially when you dont contribute to any of my bills ..........





anywho... carry on
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Dec 1 2025 06:03PM     link to this


Getting back to the original blog post, I assume these gentlemen who ghosted you made initial contact through the site’s messaging system?
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