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Sylviaeuphoric
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Invitation to fly to a hx fella
Nov 14 2025 08:49PM more by Sylviaeuphoric
Tags: LA, Leisure (All tags)

Ladies,

Ever had this kind of proposition?
If so, what was your next approach?

Sylvia
      
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loucfirr1
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Nov 14 2025 09:06PM     link to this

Say yes.
Bigg56
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Nov 15 2025 11:22AM     link to this

Not a lady but my $.02
Make sure the person sends you a round trip ticket or sends you the money to buy the ticket
Along with transportation from airport to hobbyist and back
Your donation for time
artnjazz
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Nov 15 2025 12:04PM     link to this

Does he have a place for you to stay?
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Nov 15 2025 05:12PM     link to this

Do you trust him enough to give your legal name for the plane tickets?
FlappyNutSack
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Nov 15 2025 05:18PM     link to this

For “professional “ travel, I use the name on my Belarus passport. Nutsackovitch.
HelenaUlinova
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Nov 16 2025 06:30AM     link to this

I just got the same offer from some cheapskate! Wanted me to fly to a state I could easily drive to, all for an amount totaling the same as what I’d charge for 3 hours (including the cost of a plane ticket!)

When I told him my price he said “that’s expensive” and seemed irritated.

He then told me of some poor soul willing to abide his pricing.

OP, a proposition like this requires trust for a lot of reasons or making sure you have the funding to back yourself up if needed.

If the answer to either of those questions is “no.” You should consider making it yours as well.
June.Moon
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Nov 16 2025 07:29AM     link to this

A deposit is required for my time and the full cost of the ticket must be sent first. I will buy the ticket myself (with his money of course) but he MUST book a minimum of 6 hours. Transportation and hotel accomodations will be provided by the gentleman as well



I only travel to and with regular friends unless full screening and background check is consented, but overall I am an amazing travel buddy, chick magnet and wingman *wink* lol
DahliaLove
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Nov 16 2025 09:32AM     link to this

If you have to ask this question, I would say the answer is no.
PerfectPeach
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Nov 16 2025 10:56AM     link to this

I just got offer too! Looks like he’s shopping! I responded with I drive myself and require half of the donation up front. Never responded back! So ohhh well lol
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Nov 16 2025 10:59AM     link to this

I guess a FMTY request from this fella would be out of the question...LoL.
PerfectPeach
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Nov 16 2025 10:59AM     link to this

If we all got the same person, he wants you to go to Arizona. He says there are no girls there up to standards and I’m the one! 😂😂 Sound familiar??
DahliaLove
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Nov 16 2025 12:41PM     link to this

I am sorry! I read this wrong. I thought you were asking if you should go.

I have traveled to see existing friends as well as new friends.
Screening is a must and a lot of communication, clear communication!

If you are new to this, here are my tips. They aren't really different from the suggestions above.

Travel paid for upfront.
Deposit for visit.
Be clear about expectations.
Get your own place.
Be sure that you have the means to provide your own transportation.
Let a friend know where you are and who you are with.

You should do your homework on the area you would be visiting.
Basically, just be smart.

and if you have to ask because you feel like maybe you shouldn't , then do not.


a310guy
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Nov 16 2025 02:07PM     link to this

This blog is interesting.

I have invited girls from HX to Vegas, some I didnt know or had met. Some I knew. But from the start it was more of just do u wanna go, more of lets just go.. no offer of compensation.. Just so there are no mixed signals..

In the end I would, dont do it. Just be better to go alone and have ur fun, find ur fun up there. Girls be too much drama, plus since I didnt know these girls that well, one became a thief.. or maybe her way of getting paid, since there was no original agreement. I can go into details but probably not good to spill all the beans on a blog
June.Moon
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Nov 16 2025 03:02PM     link to this

Asking a girl to travel with you for no compensation is hilarious to me


Because I'd rather stay home and spend time with someone who will appreciate and respect my time


Those hours that are being taken away from me being able to make money is insulting



But that's me
jessicataylorla
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Nov 16 2025 03:27PM     link to this

He messaged me as well.
I’ve met him in person twice in la.
He sent degrading texts after calling me names.
I would rather stay in la.
jessicataylorla
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Nov 16 2025 03:39PM     link to this

He said 1K for the day 6 hours and you take care of the plane ride...it's 55 minutes from Long Beach
jessicataylorla
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Nov 16 2025 03:52PM     link to this

He wrote on his profile about me One particular hx gal that is very impressed with herself...who goes on and on about how she is a "Published model" and then lists every single thing she has done...very full of herself!!!!!!!!!!!
I’ve blocked him.
I would stay away from him.
He degrades women.
a310guy
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Nov 16 2025 05:39PM     link to this

yeah that blows my mind to when a girl says yes.

but maybe they have other motives.. maybe they figure use this guy for a room and ride and ill make some money..

but my thing is.. its not easy to just go to another city, im thinking, but maybe for the lady its a gamble to take
CreamCassidy
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Nov 16 2025 06:15PM     link to this

I got the same message from the husband & wife in Arizona
jessicataylorla
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Nov 16 2025 06:19PM     link to this

I blocked him he was being very rude, harassing, and degrading.
KandyKotton
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Nov 16 2025 06:24PM     link to this

Yep I was invited as well. And like the female said about him calling degrading names, he has done the same thing to me as well. He is extremely abusive and has no respect for boundaries whatsoever and I don't think anyone would be enjoying themselves on their trip with this guy. I honestly can't even believe that he is still even on hx at all with the way he goes about things and treats ppl.
FlappyNutSack
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Nov 16 2025 06:40PM     link to this

I got the same offer but, unlike you, I took him up on it, gordonschumway was awesome. Witty, charming, a great conversationalist, and with the ass (and clothes) of a young Rosanne Barr.

To be fair, I declined his offer to see “the room where it happens”.
canyoncruiser
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Nov 17 2025 11:38AM     link to this

Tell him to venmo 5 grand and you will bring him the change
sistersermon
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Nov 18 2025 02:13AM     link to this

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Sylviaeuphoric
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Nov 20 2025 08:27PM     link to this

I’d rather not go through with it. I just wanted to hear all of your views on it haha.
grooviefan
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Nov 21 2025 02:08AM     link to this

what is his handle ?? incase he is in one of myu clubs, i can give him the boot . no room for disrespect w me...
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