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A lot of the women here have wishlists on their profiles. I'm sure she would appreciate the thought.
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Last night a visitor brought me 2 cute little candles scent �golden honeysuckle � how fitting loll
I was so excited about the thought & such a simple gesture brought so much joy ( the day was pretty much done & it wasn�t the best so this gift really was appreciated)
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@bwana That is true.
@CC I’m glad to hear someone was able to brighten your day (no pun intended).
Thanks for the feedback.
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Id be happy with a coffee
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I think you're should always bring something to the party 🥳
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depends what are you trying to buy 🤨
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Appreciate them but they are never expected . It's always nice when someone is like "this made me think of you".
The thought itself is what means the most
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@ DelilahRose, would RedBull work?
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Coffee is always a good idea.
I try and ask if anything is needed/wanted before I get there.
I’ve bought a couple pieces of lingerie.
Correct, no matter what, it’s always the thought that counts.
Much appreciated to everyone.
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I always bring something, Mostly Chocolates...One Lady asked for a shirt from my work
(Yaamava Casino)..So she got that and some Ferrero Rocher...
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It’s a very thoughtful gesture. There was one young woman here every time i visited her, I would always bring a bottle of wine
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If she is truly appreciated, why not.
Make her happy and she will most likely make you happy but do it without any expectations.
Kindness matters.
My regulars always receive gifts.
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I adore gifts. They really set a positive tone to start with. Feeling respected and appreciated through a thoughtful gesture is a huge turn on.
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Blkronin yes u know me, u always deliver.
I love panties and lingerie, someone brought me that, i was so happy. I wanted to put it on right away
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I bring money. Does that count.
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Ladies
Great input.
Not the cost but the thought that counts. 😉😉😉
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I'm one of the shameless who has a wishlist 🥲
gifts are always unexpected, but I have to say when something comes in the mail or a gent brings something with them when they visit it makes me want to find ways to please even more. It's the thought  but again people have lives and I don't require anything, it's just really nice to know I was thought of and that someone out there cares about me and gives me something to remember them by every time I use/wear/eat it 💝
Thank you for being so kind to me
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I often bring the lady her favorite beverage. I have also brought lingerie....she can put it on while I am in the shower, and then I can take it off when I get out......
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All gifts and whatnot I have given to regulars have always been an expression my genuine appreciation. Gifts come in many forms but the tangible ones have been chocolate on valentines day, lingerie, wine/liquor to help set the mood, starbucks, items from the lady's wishlist (not shameful at all Pretty_Kitty), etc. It really depends on the lady and the rapport we have, and therefore, is rarely the same gesture. Reciprocity is never expected but there has never been a time when any of these special ladies have not shown appreciation for the thought... and that may be one of the reasons for why they are regulars :-)
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Gifts are not as popular as before. I think it’s kind and thoughtful. It shows generosity, attentiveness, and friendliness. A kind gesture for sure and a great way to break the ice 🥰
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What a nice question, OP.
Every girl loves a good surprise. 💕
Ladies, where and how do you make this wish list? 
I have to say, I’ve come to find the men on this site can be incredibly generous. I spent my birthday in OC this year and was so pleasantly surprised by the gifts I received and even more by the hand-signed cards. It’s the thought and effort behind it and just overall taking the time to make someone you barely know feel special.
This probably sounds ridiculous, but I’ve always been the provider and the giver in my past 'situationships'. Being here has completely changed me, in my should be expectations of men, in the best way.
Thank you to the ones who genuinely enjoy making a girl feel special, wanted, and desired.
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I bought a lady a new hip.
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When I start seeing someone I like to bring a little more than we agreed upon (cash is king) or a gift card, something simple.
Once I have been seeing a lady regularly and have gotten to know her a little I try to brings things specifically for her. Could be something simple like her favorite breakfast or food, something I have heard her mention or seen her use, or even a handwritten card.
For special occasions I like to buy a nice gift and flowers and something that shows she’s special and adored. Something to let her know she’s appreciated and special.
Taking her to dinner or shopping so she can feel a little spoiled.
Try to make it personal so she sees I’m paying attention and is important.
These women do a lot for us guys so only makes sense to show them some love.
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Gift giving is one of my biggest love languages.
It makes me all giddy when someone gifts something that was talked about casually
Like you’re thinking about me and you paid attention
how lovely!!
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The size (large) and frequency (as many times as possible) of your donations are what the ladies of hx love the most but, ok, if scented candles and miscellaneous gifts are your go to. 😂
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I love giving gifts. I have gifted things like cologne to men and enjoy putting smiles on their faces. I also love getting gifts as well which is why i have a thank you album to show how much i really appreciate the thoughtful gestures
Someone gifted me a monstera plant the other day because i mentioned that i was looking at one and i swear i could have cried
What are some things that men like to be given?
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Someone once gave me a small photo book of tasteful nude photos of herself. I thought it was a great gift and a super sweet idea.
Honestly, though, I'm happy if a woman gives me any gift at all. I love giving gifts but rarely receive any, so it feels truly special when I receive one, no matter what it is.
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I love to gift men cologne, or ties if I notice he wears them.
And me being ex pastry chef, I will always try to bake for them. Hehe
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Idk if I should admit this but I absolutely spoil the men who bring me gifts a little more than even the ones who tip in cash. I have a thing for gifts. You can bring me a can of soda or a little candle or a candy bar and I str8 get wetter over it. Its obviously my love language but I think its a fetish level thing for me at this point. Yes bring us gifts !! Phone chargers, gas cards, a nice lotion, flowers, a box of condoms, lube, snacks, weed? Ask a lady if there is anything you can bring her and totally peep her wishlists on social media.
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I try to give gifts (books mostly) to all the ladies I visit lately. Showing you care can help make a better connection- experience I believe.
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I would love for the men to pm me and let me know the things that they like
I am a sucker for spoiling people that I love. Men deserve to feel like kings! Us women wouldnt be here without you.
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Dear June I just love deep discounts.
Hello? Hello June?
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Look...over the yrs, ive showered women on here (and elsewhere) with gifts n such. But one has to be careful. This isnt a dating site, and u HAVE to keep things professional!
U dont want to think that she is being very receptive of u just because u showered her gifts, then u fall for her n such. This wasnt the case for me. It was actually the other way around.
I am usually a gift giver. So i gave one particular provider gifts n such (Gift cards, plane ticket vouchers, clothes, etc.) and even went shopping and gave her groceries and delivered it to her house.
Well one such time I traveled to see her. We hung out, and we later shopped for her some groceries. Got back to her house, put the groceries up, had some ice cream and got to talking. Then she laid it on me...that she was interested in more than and professional relationship. Now mind u, her lifestyle was a bit chaotic and she lived in LA with me being in SD at the time, it just wasnt gunna work. I was also still in the Navy at the time, so there was that. I had to tell her that we have to keep this at a professional/friendship level. We communicated more and left things cordial.
We are still friends and i still occasionally gift her things because thats the kinda of guy i am, but my point is that u cant be falling for folks in this line of business, and ALWAYS have them conversations to ensure both side's intentions and expectations.
TLDR...Gift giving is great, but just be careful and keep things professional
-X-™
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@June...the answer to ur question: As for me what i like??
Tbh...just gift me with ur intellect and essence. I LOVE having conversations about anything and nothing. Im a sucker for knowledge! Shower me with things that interest u and things that u think that arent interesting Inundate me with it all! Lets talk about it
As for physical gifts, as a guy who can buy practically anything, just give me ur unique self and we shall soar to new uncharted heights while we explore whats on the other side of the sky!
-X-™
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Can you adopt me?
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I don't like coming empty handed so I will ask their favorite beverage (alcoholic or non) or snack when I'm seeing someone. That can help break the ice a bit and also make them feel comfortable if they were coming to see me. That can change into more significant gifts as time passes and comfort and trust are established. 🙂
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Gifts are my love language. I love giving them and receiving them. When given in the context of these relationships they do make me feel a bit warmer and personal with the gift giver.
I can’t help that it works that way. It’s natural for me to feel appreciative of a gift that makes me feel appreciated.
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Good to know. Paying attention, taking notes.
Kind'a knew all this already, but good reminders. A lot of the time when I was active in the past, I was also running too low on energy or money, stressed, didn't think enough about the little extras and therefore - well, still managed to tip usually (always if the session was good) but wasn't applying my imagination to gifts. Gonna try to do better in the future.
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Tips are gifts too!
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Not naming names but someone here made my day today with these!
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Syd! You deserve all these beauties and more! This makes my heart happy.
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Sometimes it’s the little things that make a difference.
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Thank you Goddess! 🌹
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Did you make their day?
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It wasn’t a transactional exchange, fool.
Very sad you assume it is. Not everything is a transaction.
Poor lou.
I hope life gets better for you.
🤣
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Uh huh
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Also, I want to take photos of you posing in your bikini on a sailboat. ⛵️
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Oh I LOVE receiving gifts. I think about the person all day, after that, and every time I see the gift. Even if someone brings a little extra $$, it makes me so happy, and I appreciate it so very much. Ive never received gift cards or anything of that nature, but I have been brought a couple pieces of lingerie, and some fun toys that we used! If there's one way to get on my forever love list, it's thoughtful gifts! xoxo
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Thanks for the invitation but I have other plans. Maybe next time.
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I always ask ladies what their favorite beverage might be. Of course, I usually tip beyond her donation and after we have seen each other for a few times, might move to toys, lingerie, or whatever seems to be fun. I don’t like to come empty handed.
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