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AthenaPatron
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What did I miss?
Sep 6 2025 03:12PM more by AthenaPatron
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

I used to meet people here quite frequently, but for some reason things have changed drastically for me here, what did I miss?
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BillyBobJackson
Hollywood, LA, CA
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Sep 6 2025 03:41PM     link to this

U did not miss much babe...! Try looking at your rates compared to the current averages. I'd start there. As pretty as you are, there's zero reason why you should get a few hits. ALSO, the economy is in nose-dive mode, for OBVIOUS REASONS...!
yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Sep 6 2025 04:49PM     link to this

What has changed in ur opinion?
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
LA, CA Today!
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Sep 7 2025 12:40PM     link to this

Hi Athena
HoldingHeidi
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Sep 7 2025 02:58PM     link to this

I feel you! When I first started, meetings were seamless & smooth. I could almost always count on HX to make my day…. Now it’s nothing but endless dead end inquiries, complaints about pricing & ghosting.


I hope things change soon 💕
Devin_Peridot
LA, CA
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Jul 15 2026 08:27AM     link to this

I agree, momentum has slowed down for me too but only on HX. Guys here in my experience tend to be more budget minded than elsewhere. It’s a huge part of the appeal of the site amongst other things like the social networking and safety features. Maybe put some of your eggs in other baskets. Diversify as the Finance Bros would say.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 15 2026 08:55AM     link to this

Inflation. It's hit everyone.

Think food prices are bad now, wait til next year, the fertilizer storage is already here. A by-product of Iran war.
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SoHotVanessa
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Jul 15 2026 09:44AM     link to this

Devin_Peridot, I couldn't agree with you more.

I don't put all my eggs in one basket. From doing "market research" I've noticed that there are certain girls that go so low that men think we're all going to follow. I think a seasoned girl should be able to maintain her standards.

CompanionEstella
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jul 15 2026 05:44PM     link to this

One thing about this site is that it does have the lowest cost of advertising of any site I know. This is nice but it does make it accessible to providers that aren't in the best situations and therefore are not in the best position to be selective. As a result, the quality of clientele also declines.

I agree with others saying to diversify. This is not where I get most of my good clients. I consider this site like Costco or BJs.
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EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jul 15 2026 05:49PM     link to this

Fuck all you all !!!


We're fucking Nordstrom's up in here !!!


Don't take skanks from others sites trying to put us down !!!


Take your high prices and low service level hustle bullshit elsewhere !!!


Hx fucking RULES !!!
Dwd135
San Diego, CA
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Jul 15 2026 06:40PM     link to this

Thanks Dantes
A lot of providers are delusional per my experience.

CompanionEstella
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jul 15 2026 08:41PM     link to this

Wow EdmondDantes, you seem very safe and stable.
Huggibear
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jul 15 2026 09:01PM     link to this

You did miss a good drama of two providers with a similar handle. One was classy the other was a wrecking ball. The wrecking ball was not the first one with the name but was trying to claim they had the name first and stuff and then it turned to threats.
Dwd135
San Diego, CA
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Jul 15 2026 10:31PM     link to this

Beautiful pics Estella BTW :-)
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jul 15 2026 10:51PM     link to this

@ CompanionEstella


It's all good...


I submitted a help ticket to have your handle changed to " Simp-Seeker ", it should take effect in the morning after the Hx computers update.
badbarbiebee
Anaheim, OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 04:17AM     link to this

You are right about that it's not as active as it once was
Devin_Peridot
LA, CA
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Jul 16 2026 08:31AM     link to this

I don’t see anyone knocking HX. I absolutely adore the men and women I’ve met here. It has features that other sites lack especially in the screening and networking departments. If a provider on another site was looking for more opportunities I would definitely recommend they check out HX. Encouraging someone to utilize all the resources available to them is universally solid advice.
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 09:06AM     link to this

Then don't call out the MEN of Hx as cheap fucks , time wasters, etc...

The MEN of Hx are educated poon buyers and know that your astronomical prices
are an insult to their intelligence !

This is not a Simp Seekers site, so either price your product and services to get the consumer
to a ring up at your cash register, or go to Simp Seeker sites and run your game over there !
Dwd135
San Diego, CA
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Jul 16 2026 09:35AM     link to this

Dantes put my thoughts in awesome words

If girls are finding hx slow down then then they need to introspect.


A lot of girls are simp seekers for sure
Tiffanyy213
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Jul 16 2026 10:25AM     link to this

No one on this blog was disrespectful or name calling. Only YOU sir 🚩
DelilahRose
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Jul 16 2026 11:19AM     link to this

I love hx, I find once u have a good client base, even on the slow days those guys come thru. I dont put my value on a dollar amount. But stay in line with current rates here. Ur beautiful so u got alot going for u , u should be fine.
EdmondDantes
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 11:30AM     link to this

@ Tiffanny213


There was no name calling...


Simp Seeker is a FACT !!!


Ladies can charge whatever they want, but don't complain when the consumer doesn't want to pay or doesn't see the value proposition in your stated pricing --- though I know that your pricing is just fine --- other ladies, like Athena severely raised their prices, and then cry that they cannot find SIMPS to pay it !!!


This is just like the restaurant business --- You can raise prices but it's always at the risk of losing customers, loyal customers !!!


And cutting services also is a huge risk --- Your customers will leave you !!!


Know your costs of acquiring new clients before making drastic pricing alterations, again, you are not immune, no one is, your customers will leave you and the cost of new customer acquisition is very high and very punishing !!!
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Jul 16 2026 11:32AM     link to this

" I consider this site to be like Costco or Bj's".
🤣🤣🤣🤣
yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jul 16 2026 01:51PM     link to this

Interesting that Athena, after her first post, has remained silent.
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