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sunny.clair
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Help me understand !?
Dec 23 2024 03:02AM more by sunny.clair
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

So.. Ive noticed recently that when I try and book, that a few (10%) of the responses are asking me to have an updated and more recent Network. And although I don't push back and just move on to the next, I was curious as to why?

1. Ive been on the site for several years and have only ever had positive reviews.

2. I used to ask to not be reviewed as I preferred not to have an extensive trail of when and where I hobby.

3. I travel for months on end (sometimes up to 8 months) and HX is not in the other states or countries so Im going to have big gaps.

4. Many of the girls in the Network are still on the site, so reaching out to verify me should be no issue.


Again, not pushing back because there is a lid for every pot, but is the concern that I have changed over the years or that someone else may be using my account? Just curious as to why the older ratings no longer carry any weight. I assume its a safety concern, but looking for a better understanding of WHY it is a safety concern.

Thanks
      
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KAPRICE
SGV, LA, CA
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Dec 23 2024 03:12AM     link to this

Think it's a common myth that LE can take over dormant accounts that have not been used for many years so with no recent activity they see it as more risky.

I get the same thing with my network. I always rate on The network but rarely get one in return. It Is what it is. Respect thier use of the network to be safe. Would not have it any other way.
KAPRICE
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Dec 23 2024 03:14AM     link to this

Darn just looked at my join date coming up on 20 years. That's crazy that this site lasted that long!
sunny.clair
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Dec 23 2024 08:19AM     link to this

Yeah, I was surprised to see I was originally on here in 2008. The first girl I saw is still on here... (She didn't rate me...ha ha). @Tabie.. can I get rated more than a decade later?

socaliam
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Dec 23 2024 10:38AM     link to this

When you look at it from the other person's perspective, you often answer your own question.
sonya7
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Dec 23 2024 10:58AM     link to this

this reminds me to be more strict ✍️
sunny.clair
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Dec 23 2024 12:03PM     link to this

Well KAPRICE... you at least new the assignment. Actually gave me a possible REASON why. Hopefully someone will come in and tell me it is for their safety.. When I re-read my post I realize just how clearly unclear it was. Thats clearly on me.
notsofast
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Dec 23 2024 12:42PM     link to this

You have a network rating from November 2024, I would think that should be enough. You may have to show Tabie your dick again to remind her.
coolNeasy
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Dec 23 2024 01:06PM     link to this

This is just a point of view but networking seems to be more about how active someone is more than how safe or stable.

Sometimes you are rated, other times not.
If you find a favorite and choose to spend your time with them over and again, you get no network updates and it can actually reflect poorly on you over time with gaps.
And finally when someone leaves they take their history with them along with yours. (which could be improved)

Honestly, the safest ones might be the ones with the least activity in some situations.

Been here a long long time and have seen my share come and go to pursue lives elsewhere, so I'll just be a happy L0 forever.
littlemissalice
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Dec 23 2024 01:14PM     link to this

Anyone you have seen recently you can ask them to delete/update their rating so it appears new

and Yes, a network is only relevant for the last year or two (or three) depending on the person..
it measures risk more than it measures safety.. its rarely personal

might help a little if you mention it in your initial email greeting

my first suggestion is the most important, even ONE from 2024/5 can make a difference

happy holidays
sunny.clair
Irvine, OC, CA
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Dec 23 2024 04:25PM     link to this


Thank you littlemissalice.
RandyMantooth
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Dec 23 2024 04:36PM     link to this

Yeah, if you are repeating with someone you have been seeing for years, have them re-rate you and then include a link to their profile in your PM when you are trying to set something up with someone new so they have a recent reference to reach out to.
uprightfun
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Dec 23 2024 07:47PM     link to this

Re-rating people whom you know and trust, and see regularly, is good for both of you. It’s a small ask.
Latin_Lover
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Dec 24 2024 12:16AM     link to this

The first girl I saw is still on here... (She didn't rate me...ha ha). @Tabie.. can I get rated more than a decade later?
Don't worry it seems like that's a normal habit on her, just keep on going.
TNBE
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Dec 24 2024 03:54AM     link to this

Tabie is fun though, BTW now I only rate after i get rated, many girls here don't...


Merry Christmas to All be safe out there..

Tnbe.
NutandBolt
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Dec 24 2024 10:15AM     link to this

One of the first girls I saw on TZ - back in the day was Mariah.
Her roomate was Tabie...
Guess who was the 2nd!
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