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I’m sorry you had to experience this today and I am glad you shared it. Would you be willing to DM me the clients handle so I can make a note for myself not to see him?
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Eww that’s such a disgusting and unpleasant experience. I’m sorry you went through that.
I absolutely agree with you, the time and donation MUST be settled before the visit and also the terms of the visit itself.
Obviously he knew exactly what he was doing, i despise that fact that you could’ve made more $ with other visitors instead however now we know better. I’ve had guys with Level 5 too thinking they are the greatest sh!t and even offering me to pay with their ratings and comments in clubs.
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The handle is there is emn2u
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Of course the handle is emn2u
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He pm’s me frequently, always asking for the same info. I don’t see anyone without confirming all of the details to the visit, prior to even giving out my phone number or address. I’m sorry this happened to you, but it sounds like you dodged a bullet. Of course you care about the financials, that’s why you had him there in the first place. What an odd thing for him to say. Shake it off, and make your notes. He did come to your location, so if it is a private incall that you repeatedly host out of, i would rate him as unsafe, due to him knowing your location and playing stupid games. Best of luck, and I’m glad it didn’t get worse than that.
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https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/emn2u
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@Fun4dayz your very is accurate and well appreciated.
I’m glad that us ladies as a community can watch and care of each other through sharing this information.
Not everyone is being active for many years and this can help newer ladies to know the dirty and manipulative tactics that some people can use.
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Thanks for sharing the link love
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Thanks for heads up. Sorry that u had to deal with that bullshit.
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Those damn level 5 creeps!
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don't give out location until time, duration, and expenses are settled
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Of course it’s about the money. Girls here aren’t doing this for free. Doesn’t mean that’s the only thing but it IS the primary reason and there is no shame in that.
As for being noncommittal here is my suggestion:
Book for HH and ask her if she would be willing to extend to hour for the hourly rate IF you mutually agree AND she can accommodate. Give her the option but be prepared for her to say no. Or fucking pay for the hour.
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Sad story 
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Sorry that happened to you. I believe this might get taken down for TOS but do you mind if I DM you some unsolicited advice about how to avoid this in the future?
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/HelenaUlinova, thanks for the empathy, any advice is more than welcome! I really appreciate it🫶🏻🫶🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
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I’ve been in the hobby for about 20 years and everything from the duration to the donation was established through PM or text. Why on earth would you let someone show up and then start discussing that stuff? Maybe I'm missing something here but this sounds like poor execution on your part.
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Tough love 💕
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Gbannana this guy is a level 5 so probably like yourself he have a long time to be on hx, so he completely knows how this works, i gave him my menu, my do n do nots! I didn’t had any issues with other guys from hx bc they understand as soon as they arrived they have put donations where there provider can see it, any girl is there for free, his issue was about telling him that i need he put the money where i can see it bc he was already naked n his money still on his pocket, then try to play words games, when he knew what is the do n don’t i do for the time he wanted to book, anyways i made this blog for warning other girls about this guy, and already received message from girls that had bad experiences with the same guy! So it wasn’t my fault, this guy like to do this stuff try to take money from the girls doing agreements n then change everything for give less donation .
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Thanks to every girl that showed me empathy on this blog! Hopefully this help for doesn’t happen to more providers
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HotCaramel,
I don't think you're getting what some of the guys have been trying to say to you: Why didn't you settle with him how long the appointment was for going to be for before he arrived? I mean, wouldn't you need to know (half hour, hour, etc.) so you know how to schedule your day?
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^^^^^^ SOA is correct. While this is a horrible thing that occurred, was completely preventable. It is our job, as providers, to maintain the fantasy for them. That being said, there HAS to be the necessary conversation of what, where, and when, ahead of time. Before your contact or location was disclosed, these should be decided. Then, once business has been discussed, the fantasy can commence.
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Hi honey i do understand that, i appreciate the advice 🙌🏻
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Fun4fdays of course but is not possible to me make fantasy come true if I don’t see the donations, or if the person are trying to get for free that supposed to be extras! On my menu was very clear my do n don’ts
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@Hotcaramel
Get out of the SGV and establish yourself in OC --- Irvine / Costa Mesa
And you won't deal with the Mentirosos y Traviesos that come with being in the SGV.
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CaptainMitchell honey can’t complain about people on sgv most of them have been amazing gentleman, unfortunately no everything can be perfect! But hopefully soon will be visiting OC i know there are wonderful people too 🙌🏻🙌🏻
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I think you put yourself out here to warn others about your experience and I believe you are being truthful, I think you had more to lose than you had to gain for speaking up.
I’m grateful and this can totally happen to anyone.
I’m just not clear on one thing. Did he agree to these terms ahead of time and then just expect you to agree with the new ones, or were the terms not defined ahead of time
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We agree the time of the session when he arrived! I always settle everything before that the gentleman arrives with him i missed to do it before! But what made him get angry was that i asked to put the donation in a visible part, n then to tell him that in my menu say what a 30 min do n donts includes! N if he wants something else will be extra donation! Hopefully this doesn’t happen to other girls, ( how i said before im not the first girl that have an issue with, that he try to fool n pay less)i made the blog for warning! Hope is helpful for someone else! Wish everyone a good night!
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