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Nov 24 2025 11:37AM
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Hey everyone stay safe...
As people travel for the holidays...I wish you safe and happy travels!
And for all those who struggle through or due to the holidays....BIG HUGS. (I feel ya)
A few tips and tricks to get you through:
1. It is a fantastic time to practice SELF LOVE. Want that fun coffee or special treat? Buy it, enjoy it. Want to lay in bed all day and watch movies, do it that sounds fun. Whatever makes you happy, do it, you deserve to be happy.
2. Super nice time to be, well, super nice lol....and feel how it feels to be able to help someone else out. Those endorphins seems to hit different. And on the holidays, added bonus of knowing you are helping in a time when others are just truly struggling.
3. Warm things matter! Stay as warm as possible, soups, warm drinks, warm comfy blankets socks or beds....it's cold. And hard. That is a combo for comfort objects for sure.
4. If nothing else just know you are human and allowed to be you...your feelings are valid no matter where they are at, and this too shall pass! So hang in there 
We are only 38 days away from the chaos!!!
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Nov 19 2025 06:26PM
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Random Question but:
Do you think people in the past had it easier or harder than we do now?
Just curious to know your thoughts.
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Nov 15 2025 02:57PM
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Weird Patterns 4 Me
Patterns are as complex to understand as they are cool!
I have taken notice of some of the trends and patterns of my life. Here are a few highlights that I can think of off the top of my head:
1. Always pick the wrong line, especially at the grocery store. If there is a long line-pick a line situation to be had... I will inevitably, PAINFULLY, pick the one that will take the longest. It gives me anxiety to even have to pick anymore haha.
2. Always have a toxic boss: this is higlighted by my last post. I don't have this in love partners thankfully but def do with bosses. Not every boss I am 44 I have had a ton of jobs. But A LOT of them have been wildly toxic. Too many for it to not be part of a bad pattern at this pt.
3. Every man in my life, once they leave me, they always find the woman they are with for the rest of their lives. This tracks back as far as to my father, runs through my high school sweetheart and even to my ex husband (yay love this one...just a regular ol' matchmaker over here...super fun)
4. Very niche: if I watch any kind of a pimple popping video, I will get a very big pimple right after. And I don't even get acne that often that is why this one is super weird. They used to be a guilty pleasure watch for me now I can't scroll past it fast enough.
5. I always live in quirky, nature related, fascinating...haunted houses. Which is even more complicated when you add the fact I have (or was) homeless a lot the first ten years of life. Universe took me from the streets and put me in the poltergeist but you know what, I am not afraid of the dark anymore lol. It's a win I will take it.
6. My exes (including ex besties) always come back no matter what even if it is to just be friends (I actually genuinely love this one
7. I always get parking spots. I don't even worry about parking anymore, ever. I can parallel with a half an inch of space and even still rarely need it cause the Gods part the sea, the sky, and the crowds...for my car. That one I love a lot too. Who wouldn't. LOL.
Curious, does anyone else notice any patterns or themes that run throughout their life?
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Oct 31 2025 10:09AM
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Well I had a pretty decent part time job then
on Wed, cause I would not do something illegal for her, she fired me.
Well after she literally screamed at me that I was ineffective for being "too afraid of the world" and taunted and made fun of me for it...then she fired me.
Being an unemployed single MILF right before the holidays in a time and place where food stamps are not even a thing anymore...was not of my bingo card.
Consequently I am not sure I will work for a doctor again anytime soon. That ego dynamic is not for me...nor the faint of heart IMO 
The positive side:
1. Thank GOD I found this community not too long ago. It has helped me not to lose my shit over this horrible unexpected event this week. I am seriously hoping I will be ok, I need to for my girls.
2. And now I have more time to play. I had to say no a lot before cause of my office job and having to be there...well that is not an issue anymore. LOL.
3. also: HAPPY HALLOWEEN I POSTED MY OUTFIT (PINK OUTFIT) TO MY PROFILE... THIS YEAR I AM GOING AS CANDY AND CAKE 
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Oct 15 2025 06:44AM
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So how can you tell which
Ladies lay with the ladies on here. And not just for the bag. But because they like it. If you know what I mean...
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Oct 8 2025 08:20PM
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How do you...
...define success in life?
(I am not going to answer right away I would like to hear from you first lol)
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Oct 7 2025 12:47PM
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If you could have one unlimited super power what would it be...
GOD I went back and forth on this so much cause all the super powers would be cool to possess but honestly I am going to go with my inner child and say FLIGHT.... ... .
IF I could fly, you all would never see me on the ground lol. Goodness I would fly everywhere. Just the birds and I in the sky. LOL. To the top of building, across big bodies of water, down cliff sides. If I could fly there would be few places I would not go. The body would be just as wild and free as my soul feels. All day long haha.
What super power would you over indulge in if you could? I am curious.
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Oct 1 2025 02:43PM
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If you could say 3 important things to your younger self...what would it be:
I'll go first:
1. Invest in not only financial education but a diverse portfolio as early as possible.
2. Do NOT take people or things for granted!
3. Learn how to grow a garden and partake in regular consumption of herbs for your health in combo with a sustainable program for calming your vagus nerve.
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Sep 9 2025 03:10PM
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Maybe it is the placebo effect but
The herbs I have been taking to fluff up my titties and make them bigger naturally....are working.
I WISH I would of taken photos before or had someone feel them lol....
But I SWEAR I have gotten some definition. Even if just a tiny amount.
And what have I been taking: so far just maca root (pills). Then I introduced cohosh root (as a tea).
Now have I jumped bra sizes?....no. But I have filled out a bit. And I swear they are lining up better (the left hung way lower then the right lol)
Anyhow for anyone who cares I am a believer in the herbs. I am going to introduce fenugreek soon. Then fennel seeds. And will keep you updated.
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Sep 5 2025 06:40AM
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If you have skin
Use aloe. (if you are not allergic of course)
As a woman in my mid 40s when I tell you I WISHED I WOULD HAVE DONE THIS SOONER.
It is said Cleopatra basically worshipped aloe for its skin care properties...I now see why.
As the sun continues to get hotter on our bodies, aloe helps protect your skin and it does improve its appearance.
I have been using it for about 6 months now. And definitely see results.
Just a note: if you use it fresh like me (I grow quite a few plants in my garden) you MUST let it soak in water for about 12 to 24 hours immediately after cutting....
It has a toxic latex that comes out of it (that turns the water purple its kinda cool) and can irritate your skin so please use with caution and soak in water first.
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Sep 2 2025 07:21AM
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The Sign that has been consistently the best lover...
In the last 5 to 8 years of my life I have increasingly gotten more and more into astrology and it is funny cause I can honestly say the patterns just stick out now.
I have to say....in my life in particular....LIBRAS have showed up to give me some of the best and most wild passion of my life.
I know this is all very subjective and I have had many good lovers in other signs...trust me
But I am just curious if anyone else out there has a certain favorite sign (or two) as a lover.
Which sign consistently shows up for your O's
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Aug 26 2025 02:21PM
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Do natural herbs really work to make your boobs bigger naturally?...
Do fennel seed, fenugreek, wild yam...any of that stuff work to make boobies bigger naturally? Well we will find out lol. I am in my 40s and just curious if my boobs are done growing or if there is room for a little more natural help and growth.
So I bought some of the natural herbs online that are supposed to do just that: make your tits grow naturally bigger...or so they claim.
Right now I have been taking Maca root (and it only makes me slippery so far if you know what I mean wink wink)
I am introducing black cohosh root into my diet this week, then I will do fennel seed and fenugreek (did not get wild yam but still might)
I will be honest, boobs do not feel any bigger yet lol but I must admit there has not been enough time. Has anyone ever used these herbs or heard anything about them before?
BTW I am in no way giving medical advice just experimenting myself with natural herbs so definitely be careful if you try anything because there are warning labels since a lot of these herbs work with your blood and heart. Prior health considerations must be considered I am assuming.
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