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Dalliance
Level 3 Female
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 41 yrs old
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
Registered Apr 7 2019
Released Apr 7 2019

27 blogs/86 comments
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May 20 2025 09:48PM
     Then there's this
I lost someone recently… someone I saw often, someone who quietly became part of the rhythm of my days. In this kind of work, you're trained to keep things separate, to build clean lines between connection and care, between personal and professional. We use different names, we reroute our numbers, we construct these walls to make sure nothing spills over… but real life always finds a crack. It always seeps in.
And then suddenly they’re gone. No warning. No invitation to grieve. You’re not family. You’re not listed anywhere. Sometimes no one even tells you at all.
I was lucky enough to be informed… if lucky is the right word
Grief is a strange thing when it shows up sideways like that. When the bond existed quietly in the corners. When the relationship wasn’t defined by holidays or photos or labels but by patterns and presence and the way someone can settle into your life without ceremony.
And now they’re just… gone. No trace. Just the empty space where they used to be.
That’s it. Just wanted to leave this somewhere. Because even if it lived in the margins… it still mattered.


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Jan 12 2025 05:27PM
     Disasters, Humanity and Hope
Disasters have a way of cutting life to its core. Fires don’t care about borders, beliefs, or bank accounts. When the flames come, all the things we use to divide ourselves vanish. What’s left is people.....just people.

Watching how countries respond during these fires is humbling. No hesitation, no conditions....just crews, resources, and expertise sent across borders. It’s a pure, raw display of humanity that reminds us of the good still in this world. These strangers don’t know us. They don’t have to care. But they do, and that says everything.

It’s not just first responders, either. It’s neighbors helping each other evacuate, strangers donating supplies, and communities stepping up in countless ways. Moments like this strip away the noise, showing us what truly matters: being human, helping each other, and surviving together.

Yes, the destruction is heartbreaking, the loss overwhelming.....but seeing people unite brings a strange kind of hope. When we push past our differences, we’re reminded that, at our core, we’re all the same.

I hope we don’t forget this when the fires are out. If we can show up like this in the worst of times, imagine what we could do if we lived this way every day. People matter. Humanity matters. And as long as we hold on to that, I think we'll be okay.

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Nov 4 2024 09:41AM
     Join the WAR get points!
Hey Ladies!

I’ve had this club, The WAR (Women’s Assessment and Review Clu, for a while now, and while I’ve thoroughly enjoyed sharing my experiences, I feel like it’s time to make this space more collaborative. To bring in new voices and encourage you to share your own insights, I’m adding a little incentive!

500 FX points for the first five ladies who join as new members.

1,000 FX points for the first three ladies who post a blog in the club.

2,500 FX points bonus for the first lady to join and post a blog.


I’d love for The WAR to become a true community of women sharing experiences, reviews, and support. So, come on in, make your mark, and let’s build something amazing together!

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Oct 3 2024 09:18PM
     Old bananas.
Make the best banana bread

The end. .

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Sep 16 2024 07:48PM
     What's really going on?
I’m genuinely confused as to how a blog I just wrote got deleted for supposedly violating terms of service when there was absolutely nothing in it that broke any rules. To make things even stranger, a blog I wrote last year suddenly starts trending right after. Can someone explain how this makes any sense?

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Aug 8 2023 01:09PM
     Seeking help.

I hope this is an appropriate platform for this kind of post, and I apologize if it's not. I'm reaching out to the community with a heavy heart and hope for some assistance.

My mother has been missing since July 20th and was last seen in Denver, Colorado at the Samaritan House. She had intended to undergo detox and embark on a path to sobriety. When I reached out to her roommate the following day, July 21st, I was informed she hadn't checked in. After waiting a few days in hopes she would return, I filed a missing person's report with the Colorado authorities on July 26th.

I'm sharing this information here, as I have on my other social media platforms, in the hope that perhaps someone reading this has connections in Colorado and could spread the word. It's also possible she might be making her way to California, potentially hitchhiking. Regardless of your location, any sharing or spreading of this information would mean the world to me.

Thank you so much for your time and attention. I appreciate your help and hope everyone remains safe and well.

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Jul 8 2023 06:12PM
     Questions for the Females
#1 Do you remember the all female safety club back in the day?
#2 What happened to it?
#3 is there another one like it ? If yes how do I get in? If no would you like for there to be one?

Comment or PM

🖤

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Jul 5 2023 01:06PM
     Who are these people??
What is up with the ratings from random people I have never seen?? First it was princeplanet. I sent a pm asking who the hell he was and letting him know I have no recollection of seeing him nor do I have any correspondence with him. He responded with a flirt that said he was staring at me calmly or some shit. Honestly, it creeped me out a little. A few days later I get an alert that there's another flirt from the same person but this time he's winking at me so again I send a PM asking who the hell he is and again get a flirt back that says he's winking at me. I read his profile again and saw that it says he has no mail privileges so I really don't know what to do about that... And then just now I noticed there's some dude on my network named fatfukk. I've never seen this dude nor have I corresponded with him. Is there anyway to prevent this from happening or dispute it once it does?? It's weirding me out a bit.

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