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My fav 😇
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i also simp for a ton of ladies here there is no shame   i would join your club
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Yeah, please start a club so we clown all of your members ).gif)
You definitely must turn in your man card if you consider yourself a Simp !
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Simply a fool.
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K9 don't let the haters get to you. The act of giving for self gratification has gone out the window. Everyone expects some type of return on their "investment." A little kindness goes such a long way and it shows so many people don't understand that. Like "TakE AwaY HIs mAN cArD" remember when it was manly to be a gentleman? It's also not worth arguing the point since people are already set in their ways.
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^ Exactly. Men on here a lot of the time just feel entitled.
I prefer a real gentleman and that’s all I will see. I pass on so many men for not even properly greeting me when PM’ing.
Ladies don’t be afraid to be selective! We deserve more than just common decency for all we give 
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It can also be said that codependence enters into this definition.
Giving of yourself to others is a noble gesture without anticipation of reward.
The gift of giving should not be described as a failure of manhood as others here allude to.
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ElonAires on FB can answer that Q.
I happens to most of us when we don't know. Mostly cause it's what Hollywood teaches and you thought it was the correct way.
It depends on where one's Free Will lays. But still can lead to heart break.
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Treat others with kindness and respect = YES
Get hotel rooms for ladies, tip ladies making 300 an hour, put up with shitty service, etc... = NO
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Simps are 99.9% Democrats too
Republicans are not Simps
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Israel says hi 😇
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Tiffany, You have multiple red ratings, and noticed you seem to comment on blogs more often than not to offer judgmental, negative opinions on men or other people, under the guise of demanding that you deserve better standards. Ever considered the call (for calling out entitlement, lack of empathy and kindness) might be coming from inside the house?
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We appreciate your kindness
The word simp has such a bad rep. In reality the opposite would be a player or incel and those are terrible to be around in an intimate setting.
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Imagine being put down by others because you love women lol
You're not a simp at all. Don't let guys who have mommy issues make you feel otherwise
Your kindness is always appreciated
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OP is trolling. Gotta be.
Although this would probably sound 'too good to be true' to many women, if you don't try to make a move after being so generous, she is going to be suspicious and think there is something wrong with you.
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Nobody with any semblance of decency should argue against OP espousing good manners, kindness, and selflessness. Well said. Whether that’s towards women, men, on here, or at anytime. And if people do, then it’s likely they’ve become jaded by life, and no longer see or value the good in other people.
However, if someone lacks the ability to reciprocate expected kindness while also displaying a lack of inherent grace, stop simping for them immediately. Since a lack of empathy/understanding is not a mutual reciprocation of kindness. Instead, it's a sign someone believes they are more worthy of that behavior than you are.
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Respectfulguy
You got turned down this morning because I didn’t like ur txt last time. Then asked what u could do to make it right. So why are you coming on here saying this now? lol
sorry I was busy getting a full body massage from my client 🤗 so no, I am good. Im kind and my regulars know that I have clear boundaries that I now VOICE to deter that type of man. You’re upset because I said *some* men feel entitled & that I pass on men who don’t simply greet me when initially messaging? That is hilarious to me that that offends you 🤭 you clearly don’t know the type of men us women sometimes have walking through the door in an already vulnerable situation. And what we deal with by that same type of man I speak on. So i go the extra mile for those who choose to take it upon themselves to make me feel safe & respected beyond common decency. The only ones who have an issue with it seem to be the ones who fit the shoe… or try to force it lol
As far as the reds, ima just laugh that one off 🤣
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Since AI is taking over the world, I asked it and it tells us none of the 3 are good traits but a "generally harmless" fool is preferred versus an incel or simp
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Tiffany, your comment on the blog was the reason for response, complaining that most men on here are entitled. It should be pretty clear from that comment and your resulting diatribe the contrast in kindness and courtesy you demand, with what you and subsequently provide.
Re our texts: one of us was being courteous and normal, the other got extremely irritated over an upfront change in plans and question about outfit. I have receipts. Expecting courtesy while offering no modicum of grace yourself is where you seem to have exposed why you’re on multiple red rating, when many other people aren’t.
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Excuse me but are you the one opening the door and experiencing the unpleasant visits I’ve mentioned? No right? So I stand beside MY comment. I also initially responded with “MY FAV” and then hopped back in to add on to another comment.. I have our txts as well and I said what I said! I still turned u down and u still asked what u asked. I do not care enough to continue to go back & forth with someone I’ve never even met nor do I plan on meeting. You wanted to make this blog a personal attack against me after trying to see me this morning 😅 lol
Also stop acting like my network is terrible it’s not 💀
There is a reason my network is the size it is for how long I’ve been here.
I have enough regulars! So I guess I’m doing something right
Those few reds you keep mentioning which aren’t even in person ratings didn’t mean anything a few hours ago. 💀
Now enjoy the rest of your day & never speak to me again THANK YOU 🤗
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People should just worry about themselves. If a guy or a lady want to spend their money in a particular way, then let them. Call what you want. Live and let live.
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+1 m5
Plus working on self for betterment is attractive.
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Correct Tiffany, the red ratings did not initially seem a problem, as courtesy is also about giving people the benefit of the doubt. It was challenging however to view your comment on this blog about demands you set for good manners and kindness, while simultaneously claiming most men here are entitled and so then appear to offer none yourself. Useful reminder to still trust the rating system, given our subsequent interaction.
No hard feelings. You posted something, I challenged you on it respectfully, you helped me understand your perspective: hope you don’t have to endure anymore of the types of interactions you’ve shared have made you decide you have to rapidly judge people for your own safety. That must indeed suck, and I’m sorry you have to experience that. Explains a lot. Best of luck with everything.
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Teamwork makes the dream work. There is enough space in this world for us all to coexist. We all have an important role and purpose. Maybe I’m just an old fool, with an affinity for angels with dirty wings.
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I just learned simp has a real definition. Interesting....
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I would love to find me a SIMP... a generous friend, a friend that loves to spoil.... I don't think there's anything wrong with a man that enjoys showering a woman he loves to spend time with, with gifts, funds to help her, time and energy. You get what you give. And baby, I love to give back.
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Ladies, Just ask your clients if they consider themselves Liberals ?
If they answer YES, you have your Simp right there in your presence and they will submit
to your every wish and desire.
Liberals are non-confrontational, they almost ruined our nation as they are scared to fight,
and actually think that diplomacy and sanctions are a show of strength
Look at the Liberal countries of the UK and France right now, that is the byproduct of Liberal leadership, just a complete shit show of countries, and Spain is just a bunch of pussies ! So is Italy !
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I think letting what a bunch of randoms think about you here is just lame.
It’s simple. Do we feel comfortable to do a transaction? Yes or no. The rest is noise. Who gives a fuck what others think about you?
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My grandma used to call me an "imp" lol. Simp is just a term that money hungry girls with GPS use towards men that truly have a heart and actually give a shit . They walk all over them and don't give a single f if they hurt their feelings. Not cool. That's solely my opinion on the slang term. It's kinda almost like saying someone is disposable. Meaning the girl doesn't attach her feelings whatsoever but unfortunately the simp does. Simps fall for players basically and end up getting played.
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Funny Imp is a character on Svengoole this Sat night at 8 pm. 
Girls always have more Options.
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Wow we deserve more than common decency for all we give? First of all speak for yourself. Speaking to the collective saying " we deserve" is just plain out false. Who are you to say what anyone deserves. Good or bad. You are an individual you should speak for you. Secondly nobody really "deserves " anything. Third, how can you say men are so entitled and that you pass on someone for simply not greeting you correctly in an initial pm in the same breathe. Oh my word. I can't believe your comment. Really tho. Was it a joke? It's giving, absolute contradiction with a side of hypocrite and a dash of arrogance. Hold the integrity. If that is even able to be understood no offense. I'm sorry but wow woman. You do you... you do you
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@TheWickedWitch: Yes. Exactly. Even before I knew that it was an acronym, it is widely understood to be negative. You definition matches exactly how I have understood it.
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I was advised by some in my network early on to stay away from blogs as it can b toxic. One guy replied to me in a now deleted blog, "here for 4 days and already complaining " when I was simply asking a question
I don't let random people I've never met irl piss me off so I'll continue blogging even if most of my blogs get deleted for some reason 😅
If randos trigger u with name calling then blogging might not b the best thing
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AFM, I prefer Gwengoolie..
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I wonder what fubar would say
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Awe shucks I love your profile
Thank you
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SIMP here.
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^ Turn in your Man Card - shaking my head in disgust !
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I consider simp to be a derogatory word. It's not nice and no one should be called simp just for having respect or love for women.
There are some men that have such a love for women that it can be a problem sometimes and ends up being toxic. But I wouldn't consider them a simp. I would just consider them an AH. I've met many that claim to have such a high respect for women but when you get more from them it becomes something almost dangerous. And I would never consider those dudes to be simps.
I do have to say that I've never come across one from here. They have all come from other places or sites.
OP-don't worry what other people say. Be yourself. Continue to be a good person. That's all that should matter.
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I commend OP for your generosity. I have friends that I genuinely care about, and have given gifts, time, and attention to. We have shared experiences, and some of the ups and downs of life. Some people are just unwilling or incapable of showing empathy or compassion for another. When one’s true colors show, I gravitate towards those that are interested in personal human interaction as opposed to the transactional friendship.
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This whole time I thought Simp meant simple, or simple minded
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A SIMP. And sugar DADDY they look very similar to me
Why is one good and the other one bad ?
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I guess I can comment since I’m not actually responding to anyone’s comment. It’s getting close for this blog to be ended by either timed out or commented out. I sincerely thank all of you that contributed. I’ve learned a lot .
Thank you to PK and Socalsteve for formally educating me on the actually definition and meaning of an INCEL, SIMP and FOOL. I think after much thought because of the readings of the comments I feel pretty good about my choices. My gifts and I’m sure those likeminded individuals feel the same, what I give is my way of expressing my appreciation for the fact that you are seeing me. The act of monetary exchange is cold, heartless and meaningless to me.
I will not change what I’ve enjoyed doing for sometime now, Things are tough out there myself and others know that.
I will close with this.
Be safe
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Are you a SIMP? Here is a simple test: did you order a Trump phone? 600,000 people did and collectively forked over $60M. Can anyone explain how this is any different from the typical, garden-variety, run-of-the-mill deposit scams that get posted routinely on here?
Thank you, Trump supporters, for making the rest of us look so much smarter.
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AND I
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FEEL REALLY
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GOOD MYSELF
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IN DOING IT.
THANK YOU ALL
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