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Mar 12 2026 01:03AM more by BlueBalz
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Interesting question that I believe no one’s ever asked . What’s more important ?
My vote is service
      
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OmarS
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Mar 12 2026 04:28AM     link to this

Service
rugmuncher
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Mar 12 2026 08:06AM     link to this

There has to be a balance.

But looks over service. I can get with an unattractive and overweight girl any time.
a.alturez
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Mar 12 2026 08:54AM     link to this

Sexy
Entertainment
Ranks
Very
Important
Creating
Experience that last
DahliaLove
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Mar 12 2026 09:02AM     link to this

Both.
Attitude has A LOT to do with it!

But I think what I find physically is attractive is not the norm, and I do believe there is beauty in every person.

That's just me though.

I absolutely love chemistry!

You can tell a lot about a person by they way they treat other people.



Anyway.

My answer is both.


and yes, I do see providers.


LON22
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Mar 12 2026 09:22AM     link to this

I agree DL.....Chemistry is critical. If the vibes are high that will make the experience so much better.

Looks are important of course because there has to be some measure of attraction in some capacity but honestly overall attitude and service are more important for me than looks.
DelilahRose
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Mar 12 2026 09:40AM     link to this

If the looks are there but service is horrible, I can imagine it would be a horrible session. On the flip side if service is 100% and looks are decent, ok maybe u didnt get the prom queen, but i bet she was sexy and you were pleased.

I also could be wrong
IMNventR
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Mar 12 2026 09:56AM     link to this

It's quite subjective, but I've tried to quantify the issue.

1) Rate looks 1-10.
2) Rate service 1-10.
3) Define the minimum product you'll accept.
4) Multiply 1) x 2).
5) If 4) is at least equal to 3), it's good enough.

So, suppose you set 3) = 30. Then a 10 on looks can satisfy you if she's at least a 3 on service. Or vice versa. For 3) = 40, a 5 on looks would be good with an 8 on service. And so on.

You could further set lower limits on 1) and/or 2).

Maybe this is too mathematical . . . .
ArabianQueen
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Mar 12 2026 09:58AM     link to this

Whole package please

Good Service
Good looks
Good hygiene
Good prices
= what a gal supposed to be in the industry
Samief6
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Mar 12 2026 10:00AM     link to this

service
surfer44
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Mar 12 2026 10:59AM     link to this

Service. 100%.
tompetres
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Mar 12 2026 11:16AM     link to this

I'm with AQ and others who say, "Why not both?"

But if the rule is you can have only one, I'd rather get 10 service from a 6 than 6 service from a 10.

bangaroo
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Mar 12 2026 11:54AM     link to this

I have to find the girl attractive before I even consider the service. I won't even contact for service if looks don't pass.
SkurferGurl
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Mar 12 2026 02:29PM     link to this

Damn insurance companies, they look good until ya get the bill.
SinFul_Curves
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Mar 12 2026 03:03PM     link to this

I agree with DL.

I have always wanted to see a provider. But I'm too scared to. I don't want to get some dead fish. I want there to be chemistry. And I haven't found that... Yet. 😏😉
SkurferGurl
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Mar 12 2026 03:12PM     link to this

^^^^^^say what now ?
remo_williams
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Mar 12 2026 03:17PM     link to this

No wrong answer and I think you can have a dud in both categories

Great looking gal, but if she can't smile a little bit and as mentioned is a dead fish, I won't return
Great service but without looks, I might repeat if she made me feel special

Intend to gravitate towards the service side, with exceptions
magnumta12000
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Mar 12 2026 03:25PM     link to this

Service and chemistry push looks aside...
June.Moon
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Mar 12 2026 03:39PM     link to this

When I see another woman it's service over looks for sure ... I love treating my fave ladies like princesses but the chemistry has to be there
Ajay4fun
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Mar 12 2026 03:53PM     link to this

I think at the start, Looks

But in the end, Service.


Looks are probably what got you there in the 1st place
But great service is what keeps you comming back!


My .02 cents
"A"
jazz51
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Mar 12 2026 03:56PM     link to this

Ajay, you are correct. I would not return if the service was not good, I don't care how drop dead gorgeous the lady might be. Attitude, passion and outstanding service is what brings me back for more.
kingnorris
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Mar 12 2026 04:00PM     link to this

Agree with Ajay. Looks will lure me in, but service will bring me back.

I've been with some super hot ladies who have had horrible attitudes and lousy service. Never going back. But I've also been with less attractive ones who have been so enthusiastic, welcoming and sexy that I've returned several times.
DahliaLove
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Mar 12 2026 05:14PM     link to this

Sinful Curves-

You should! Don't rush or push yourself! and don't let them rush you!
Take your time and find a good match.. and from there you will see if it's something you enjoy or if it's not for you.

I participate in this lifestyle because I find it personally satisfying.

I think is all about getting to know yourself! and what you want. So take the time to explore that!

Hope you have fun if you decide to do it!
badbarbiebee
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Mar 12 2026 06:48PM     link to this

both
KIRA
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Mar 12 2026 06:53PM     link to this

Looks and chemistry
ricardo22
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Mar 12 2026 07:11PM     link to this

In this order:

Chemistry/ Attitude (most important)
Service
Looks. However, there is a minimum threshold for looks, which is different for everyone.
RobBlakeFan
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Mar 12 2026 07:17PM     link to this

If I have to choose between looks and service, im going with price. Lou is my hero.
Latin_Lover
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Mar 12 2026 07:18PM     link to this

First I need to be attracted for what I see if it fulfills some minimum patterns of esthetic beauty, then I'll try it on and if the chemistry and service work in a way then I'll come back to drink of that savory water if not if was a one time experience.
arnie
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Mar 12 2026 07:55PM     link to this

I tend to suggest for me... the look will get my attention first, but the person will keep me coming back.

If there is no connection or engagement, its not the same for me.

There is a place for looks only encounters for sure... but in my time ive found the blend of both have yielded the most enjoyable experiences.

Doesnt make it right... just works for me.
SalvadorDali69
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Mar 12 2026 08:12PM     link to this

I'm fugly AF but try to give good head...
sam_wilson
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Mar 12 2026 09:29PM     link to this

I need both.
JuanVaSmash
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Mar 12 2026 09:49PM     link to this

Just look like your pictures let's start there
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Mar 12 2026 09:54PM     link to this

Both!
SydneyClaudel
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Mar 12 2026 09:59PM     link to this

Waiting for some guy to ask “which one is cheaper”?
RobBlakeFan
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Mar 12 2026 10:16PM     link to this

Uh, pretty sure that's what I said.
SydneyClaudel
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Mar 12 2026 10:17PM     link to this

Oh yes, I missed your post.
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Mar 12 2026 10:29PM     link to this

Looks are fun but it takes service for me to repeat. Also, some of the best looking providers have been absolute dead fish. Isn’t part of the fun here the variety? I’ve had some of the best times with women who aren’t the most traditionally attractive.
witler5
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Mar 12 2026 10:40PM     link to this

neither
TheWickedWitch
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Mar 13 2026 03:16PM     link to this

I would believe both would be required to be successful
SydneyClaudel
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Mar 13 2026 04:31PM     link to this

I prefer getting good service from my gentlemen callers. Looks don’t matter but hygiene does.
Looking unhygienic is a hard stop for me.
jazz51
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Mar 13 2026 04:37PM     link to this

Sydney....so let me get this correct. YOU are expecting good service from US?
SydneyClaudel
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Mar 13 2026 05:02PM     link to this

I’ve learned to expected from you guys. Not my fault you all spoiled me.
jazz51
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Mar 13 2026 05:11PM     link to this

I do enjoy daty and bringing my partner to some really nice orgasms....so I guess I am one of those who spoil the ladies I see.
dataheart
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Mar 13 2026 05:49PM     link to this

Looks are skin deep

Service, and according to my profile I have been doing this a long long time, service is ymmv each and every time.

But he lady may not be feeling well but she has to work.
You may not be at your best, or, since I’m not trying to “repeat” with a civilian, it’s enjoyable to be a little selfish in a session.

Not all the time of course and when that chemistry clicks then it is really amazing, but…I think I have repeated once, maybe twice because of a provider’s charisma, not looks or service, how she exists in that space while you spend an hour or two together…

btw “service” is a completely different variable when it comes to qv 30 minute or two hour sessions imho

Love this blog and you all
Be safe
dataheart
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Mar 14 2026 01:08PM     link to this

ArabianQueen knows! 🥰
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Mar 14 2026 02:10PM     link to this

Both and don't much care about the so called 'beauty queens'. Just be presentable and acknowledging of what is about to happen.
KandyKotton
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Apr 7 2026 10:46PM     link to this

Both
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Apr 8 2026 07:01AM     link to this

Everyone here is a walking contradiction and are pure disgusting sub humans
Fuck yall
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Apr 8 2026 07:43AM     link to this

I'd say both.
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