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Harpooner
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Oral technique question for the ladies
Nov 3 2025 10:59AM more by Harpooner
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

Many years ago, I had a girlfriend who didn’t like getting oral because her clitoris was just too sensitive. I tried to change her mind without much success until one time I focused on probing just her vaginal opening with my tongue. I immediately noticed her positive reaction and the more I pushed my tongue into her kitty the more she enjoyed it. I was even able to get her off this way.

I haven’t tried that technique on other women. Most seem to enjoy when I focus on their clit. But I often wonder if there are any women here who enjoy getting tongue fucked in their vaginal opening the way my girlfriend did years ago.

I’d love to hear from the ladies of HX about this. And feel free to provide any additional tips on what oral techniques someone can use to get you over the finish line.
      
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Fun4Dayz
Inland Empire, CA
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Nov 3 2025 05:07PM     link to this

🙋🏼‍♀️ hi there
HellaFun1
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Nov 3 2025 06:10PM     link to this

I enjoy a combo of both. However if Im using a vibe and you tongue fuck.... Well then we can Get'r done right quick & multiple times!!
Ooh just thinking about it made me shiver right now!

Xoxo, HF1
Scantron
LA, CA
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Nov 3 2025 06:32PM     link to this

Multiple times are the best times!
Chief
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Nov 3 2025 06:58PM     link to this

You just have to be sensitive to the reactions you are receiving in each area.

But most times a good dose of both is a home run.
Scantron
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Nov 3 2025 07:13PM     link to this

We have been duly blessed with the knowledge and experience of a level five. Nobody would ever fake it with his highness!

😁
Scantron
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Nov 3 2025 07:14PM     link to this

I hear he teaches a class at the Y
FlappyNutSack
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Nov 3 2025 07:54PM     link to this

I fumble around down there until she gets frustrated enough to fake it and I count the “win”.
Scantron
LA, CA
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Nov 3 2025 08:16PM     link to this

Whenever someone posts a question for the ladies they get more responses from men than women.
DelilahRose
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Nov 3 2025 08:43PM     link to this

Im a clit girl myself
Himes_Soul
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Nov 4 2025 12:08AM     link to this

Many women say, it's about the butthole.
bbysr
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Nov 4 2025 08:29AM     link to this

Himes maybe on something. If I am dato, I try to stimulate the clit at the same time.
June.Moon
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Nov 4 2025 09:51AM     link to this

Wait men don't lick the hole!?


Oh baby, if you're not licking and sucking on the ENTIRE kitty then you're not doing it right



Lick my pussy lips and move your tongue in a circle, stick your tongue in the hole then slide it up to my clit. Gently lick my clit , roll your tongue in a circle again then go back down




The pussy is not just the clit!!! Explore all of it 😉
June.Moon
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Nov 4 2025 09:52AM     link to this

And yes . Lick down her ass crack and hole too if you're really kinky


A comedian once said "if you're eating pussy good enough you're going to slip into some ass" lol

And he's right


I think it was Eddie Griffin haha
jazz51
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Nov 4 2025 09:52AM     link to this

I will do whatever the lady wants...clit only or tongue fuck and clit. I will keep changing it up until I get the 'response' from the lady knowing I am hitting the right spot.
Jedi_XWF
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Nov 4 2025 10:18AM     link to this

Damn, June needs to offer classes for us guys!!
Depth
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Nov 4 2025 10:23AM     link to this

I found the movie clip I was thinking of. Fast Forward to 1:10. lol
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a.alturez
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Nov 4 2025 10:46AM     link to this

Thanks @Depth for that comic relief 😅 😂

A long time ago I read an article here about DATY, and it was thorough; Judi type teaching, bro! It has been helpful instruction.
Best!
Scantron
LA, CA
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Nov 4 2025 11:10AM     link to this

Sign me up for the class!
MissNatCox
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Nov 4 2025 01:05PM     link to this

My clit is for sure sensitive, i agree with june, go all the way.

I dont understand why some guys lick just there.

Thank you for sharing
artnjazz
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Nov 4 2025 01:10PM     link to this

^Noted.

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LngbdSR
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Nov 4 2025 01:23PM     link to this

I always appreciate a ladies feedback on what works best for her.
DelilahRose
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Nov 4 2025 02:15PM     link to this

Alturez I can attest, learned the art
dynamo69
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Nov 4 2025 02:24PM     link to this

I will lick anywhere she wants 😛
June.Moon
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Dynamo... You promise 🥺




Jedi... I'm down .. I'm a great teacher



Scantron .. ready when you are





Ladies don't be afraid to ride directions in the bedroom. Men love to learn
June.Moon
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Give directions (typo)
juicybl921
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Nov 4 2025 04:25PM     link to this

Dated a girl one time who didnt like daty. The relationship did not last long. Prob one of my fav things to do
sw2735
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Nov 4 2025 04:27PM     link to this

I will take lessons from you June
Scantron
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Nov 4 2025 06:00PM     link to this

I’m first in line!
Scantron
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Nov 4 2025 06:01PM     link to this

Or maybe second…
Gus.Polinski
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Nov 4 2025 07:17PM     link to this

^ does the tongue swirl on my purple engorged head
Scantron
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Nov 4 2025 08:16PM     link to this

Wrong blog!
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