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SummerStJames
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Costa Mesa, OC, CA Today!
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Looking for Roommates
Oct 28 2025 05:20PM more by SummerStJames
Tags: Orange County, Townhall (All tags)

I’m looking for a roommate here because Im a massage therapist and I don�t want any shit about the hours I keep. I have 1 indoor kitty. I am extremely clean and as a massage therapist seeing clients In my home I need it spotless. I prefer a female who does what I do or 2 but male roommates work well also.. I’m totally down with a male roommate. FI do not want any boyfriend, I do not need any guy thinking he is doing me a favor by renting me a place that I cannot work from ,,,no deal. I do not need a guy thinking one day we will fall in love when I have explained otherwise. It makes for problems. And, after 2 bat shit crazy ex husbands and divorces I do not need a roommate with bat shit crazy jealous boyfriends or girlfriends.

Im laid back, and do not much care what people do or don’t do ..I am more a live and let live person. I am NOT A FAN OF DRAMA ! And, as it threatens my home or my business.

I am paying $4k-6k month In hotel costs not counting what it costs me in cars being stolen, vandalized, etc at hotels. And, frankly speaking they are far more drama than I want in my life.

If anyone is interested let me know.

Summer
424-488-9085

I WOULD BE MOST INTERESTED IN ANY SORT OF CO-OP SHARE WITH GIRLS FROM OTHER CITIES AS WELL.

      
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Ingridcolombian
Irvine, OC, CA
Irvine, OC, CA Today!
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Oct 29 2025 09:02AM     link to this

Pm me info please
DahliaLove
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Oct 29 2025 11:04AM     link to this

Over my years here on hx , I've never seen any of these situations turn out well.

Always turns into .. someone has bugs, or doesn't pay rent, splits, or refuses to leave.


Best of luck.

TomD92801
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Oct 29 2025 12:02PM     link to this

If it does turn badly, please don't bring it up as a safety issue here or anywhere.

What you do outside of this community is yours to deal with. All of those things that could go wrong are commonplace occurrences to be dealt with outside of this community, whatever happens.

It's like advertising for roommates on Craigslist (if there is such a section). It's a platform for reaching out to others who are similarly situated. Once you've found roommates, it's up to all involved to follow the agreed arrangement. If one or all don't you can't go back on Craigslist to complain about who contacted you and what a bad roommate they turned out to be.

Please don't do that here. (Although it does make for entertaining material - get the popcorn!).
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Oct 29 2025 02:25PM     link to this

I kinda miss the classifieds!
remo_williams
Irvine, OC, CA
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Oct 29 2025 02:49PM     link to this

Best of luck to you, a bit of unsolicited advice..... from my years as a landlord:

Run a credit report.

Verify references.

MUST have a written contract.

This advice is worth what you paid.
Quat
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Oct 29 2025 04:36PM     link to this

@Remo,
I doubt that the OP is interested in becoming a landlord. She seems to be most interested in (I am relieving my young adult days) a group house. But, she may be interested in renting from you as long as you realize she will not be your boyfriend. lol
Quat
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Oct 29 2025 04:39PM     link to this

Sorry, I mean girlfriend
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