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HiddenGemxoxo
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Blow my mind, not my time
Sep 12 2025 07:59AM more by HiddenGemxoxo
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Can someone please tell me if i’m crazy for thinking this??

When I ask, “What are you looking for?” and all you say is, “fun tonight” … I can’t help but laugh. That’s it? That’s your best line?

If you want to blow my mind, you’ve got to do better than that.. Give me something that makes me curious, or makes me want to know more.

“fun” is easy to find, maybe the experience is better when we’re aligned with expectations and desires 🔥

So, let’s flip it — what’s the most interesting way someone has ever answered that question for you?
      
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RandyMantooth
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Sep 12 2025 08:54AM     link to this

Your title reminded me of a line from a song I like. Paraphrased:
Some girl with psychic powers, she said:
"Randy, what's your sign?"
I blinked and answered, "Neon!"
I thought I'd blow her mind!
coolNeasy
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Sep 12 2025 11:57AM     link to this

you may have answered your own question. "What are you looking for ?"

"just blow my mind"

One of you in particular in my case, so did.
HelenaUlinova
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Sep 12 2025 12:20PM     link to this

He told me to shut the fuck up when I asked. Then, he told me he didn't give a fuck when I told him what I was looking for.

I have absolutely never had my heart melt faster. 💕
DelilahRose
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Sep 12 2025 01:46PM     link to this

Not sure i have ever asked that question
AceGroover
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Sep 12 2025 01:47PM     link to this

I can't think of any interesting ways that someone has answered that question. Prob because none of the responses were that memorable.

But, if I were asked, my response might be something like "I'm want to connect with your body and your energy. Let your feminine and sexual energy out and let's see where it takes us. Like this." At that point, I'm grabbing your hips, pulling you close, kissing your neck, running my hands down the side of your thighs and ass... might even turn you around and bend you over so I can get to work... rest you can fill in.
Scantron
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Sep 12 2025 03:15PM     link to this

Not everyone understands who is the customer and who is the salesperson.
Kelseyforyou
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Sep 12 2025 03:30PM     link to this

wait you’re asking clients about what they’re looking for? Or did I miss something here? I’m kinda lost
R1cochet
CA
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Sep 12 2025 03:33PM     link to this

I know this is going to sound odd. But when someone hits you up and asks you a question. The normal response is to answer and not reply with questions. Don't expect an answer if you yourself cannot answer a basic question.
R1cochet
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Sep 12 2025 03:34PM     link to this

^ directed at OP
June.Moon
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Sep 12 2025 03:51PM     link to this

I don't ask

I'd rather be shown
Scantron
LA, CA
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Sep 12 2025 06:02PM     link to this

In a PM?
billinirvine
Irvine, OC, CA
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Sep 12 2025 09:06PM     link to this

Look at VY quoting Matthew 6:10!
Nice.
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