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Petite14u2use
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Swear imma die single
Sep 3 2025 04:32PM more by Petite14u2use
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But I had something most can only dream of.- I had 22 years with my soul mate (May he be resting with all the fine ladies right now, not so much in peace as in a non stop state of euphoria!) So I guess I can’t complain.

What’s something you’re eternally grateful for?
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DelilahRose
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Sep 3 2025 05:43PM     link to this

One of them is HX sounds silly, but not to me.
jay920
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Sep 3 2025 06:27PM     link to this

You're not alone on dying single but on the bright side, I've met a lot of people, men and women, who tell me "never get married" so I guess not being married is a good way to live...
Petite14u2use
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Sep 3 2025 07:18PM     link to this

Delilah. Don’t sound silly at all. Hx would be second on my list for sure!!
ducktape
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Sep 3 2025 08:37PM     link to this

Good friendship, you know you're loved 😉
sgv626guy
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Sep 3 2025 09:02PM     link to this

over 9 years single ive already hit that stage.
roryunderwood2
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Sep 3 2025 10:41PM     link to this

Good evening P14u2u,

Welcome to the club.

The exception is you are well loved by one & all in HX.

Regards

Rory
JakeRabbit
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Sep 4 2025 04:52AM     link to this

^ hear, hear Rory

amazing perspective to appreciate those precious 22 years as well P14U2U
ricogrande
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Sep 4 2025 09:12PM     link to this

I thought I too was going to die single and I ended up rushing and marrying the wrong woman.

I am grateful for my friends that warned me about her beforehand but still stuck around after it all went downhill for me.
Petite14u2use
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Sep 4 2025 10:17PM     link to this

Rico that’s a real friend.

Someone who can speak their mind even when it don’t agree with theirs. The same someone who supports you through you fuck ups all the same.
Friends like that are rare and definitely to be cherished


I love hearing that those people still exist- gives me hope in humanity.

ricogrande
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Sep 5 2025 08:35PM     link to this

Absolutely!!

The good in that horrible situation was that I saw who really were my real friends. For that I am truly grateful to have those people in my life today.
Zeros
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Sep 6 2025 05:08PM     link to this

After the second round of surgery to remove a cancerous thyroid, my so is on oxygen and will be needing it for the rest of her life.

She will probably go before me, and after that, I have no real reason to stick around.

For the second time in my life, I am a caregiver.

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Sep 7 2025 12:26AM     link to this

There are many reasons to stick around
Jack
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Sep 7 2025 02:04AM     link to this

Being single for sure is better than being in an unhappy relationship, or one where your partner does not have your back regardless of the circumstances.

In my case, I got married young, and after 52 years of marriage, I would marry her again in a heartbeat. I think she would do the same, but I have am not as perfect as she is.

There are happy stories, but I believe there are more unhappy ones.
June.Moon
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Sep 7 2025 11:10AM     link to this

I'd rather be single than to be lied to and cheated on. Marriage is a headache that I have yet to figure out. Would rather have a mutually beneficial relationship where I take care of all of his needs and he helps me fund mine....



But to answer


I'm grateful for honest and true friends. People that don't need to lie or manipulate you to get what they want. Having non complicated interactions with someone that you can GENUINELY TRUST, is something so rare.
magichands73
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Oct 6 2025 03:48PM     link to this

I feel for everyone here. I too, thought I would be single for the rest of my life, but finally found someone in my late 40s. If it can happen to me, its possible for anyone. Secondly...wait is that a real Sydney Claudel sighting???
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Oct 6 2025 04:28PM     link to this

It’s not bad
SmartK9
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Oct 7 2025 05:49AM     link to this

Ah Petite, I’m an eternal optimist. You have too many things going for you, very attractive, nice body, good conversation and a nice doggie. I don’t see dying single in your future.
bigguy31
LA, CA
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Oct 7 2025 11:29AM     link to this

I’ve been single my whole life never had a girlfriend or any kind of romantic relationship but I’m not lonely, I have friends. I have HX and I met some nice people here so I’m content with that. I hope you find happiness whatever it looks like.
Jadenn
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Oct 8 2025 08:44AM     link to this

What can we do about this.

I guess what I secretly fantasize about is every single hx that comes through the door could possibly be a serious boyfriend or husband.

Then, usually reality sets in. But I never know!

Xoxo
sam_wilson
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Oct 8 2025 11:50PM     link to this

I kinda think I'm cursed to be alone. To be honest, it would be nice to ride into the sunset with a dedicated life partner.

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