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Nthony69
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What Happened to Standards and Etiquette?
Aug 26 2025 09:42PM more by Nthony69
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

There was a time when class, etiquette, and presentation mattered � when women took pride in how they carried themselves, creating an experience that felt intentional, respectful, and elevated. Personal hygiene, attention to detail, and the sense that you were the only one in the room all played a part in that experience.

Lately, though, it feels like those standards have taken a serious hit. There's a casualness, even carelessness, that�s crept in � doors opening to awkward handoffs, hygiene overlooked, and a sense of revolving-door energy that kills the vibe. It�s not about being judgmental; it�s about calling out the disconnect between what's being delivered.

If you're going to ask for top-tier prices, there should be top-tier etiquette, professionalism, and presentation to match � simple as that.

And as for the growing trend of heavily edited or AI-generated photos � especially from certain asian (agencies) � transparency should be the minimum standard. No one wants to feel duped or misled.

Let�s bring back some class and raise the bar again.

1. Hiding Your Face?
Yes, it could be for privacy � and that�s understandable. Discretion matters, especially in certain industries or situations.

2. Hiding Your Body?
Let�s be real: if you're hiding your body, it often signals that your current appearance doesn't match your photos.

3. Outdated Photos?
Some ladies are still using pictures from 3 to 6 years ago � and it shows. Time moves on, and so do looks. Honesty goes a long way.
      
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Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Aug 26 2025 10:32PM     link to this

what happened to composing a blog without those weird characters
sinful_one66
LA, CA
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Aug 26 2025 10:37PM     link to this

Those aren’t weird characters. The system does that for certain punctuation marks. 🤦🏻‍♂️
ColossusJones
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Aug 26 2025 10:38PM     link to this

Most likely it’s a copy/paste issue. For whatever reason the single quotation mark fucks things up.
DoctorPhD
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Aug 26 2025 10:41PM     link to this

I totally agree with you op.
Well men do notice the ladies who do care and dont repeat with those who don't care.
sinful_one66
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Aug 26 2025 10:45PM     link to this

OP, completely agree. This hobby has gotten more expensive than when I first started. Some women think that their looks warrant price but, that’s quite the contrary. I hate gambling and dropping $$$ and getting $ service. I’d rather spend $$ and if the service is up to par, I’d tip and possibly be a regular. Too many dead fish out there. I said what I said.

Women, if business is slow, do things to stay in demand. Word of mouth goes a long way. Us men do ask other men how the experience with you was. If we don’t like what we hear, we move on to the tons of other ladies here.
AverageJose
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Aug 26 2025 11:26PM     link to this

OP, what you have to remember is these girls don’t care about your satisfaction or happiness. You are just another turn in their rotation nothing else.
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Aug 26 2025 11:30PM     link to this

averagejoe you're not meeting the right people
billinirvine
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Aug 26 2025 11:54PM     link to this

^LMA is the right person!
Kelseyforyou
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Aug 27 2025 12:07AM     link to this

@littlemissalice averagejose is just upset with life, don’t mind him
DelilahRose
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Aug 27 2025 12:34AM     link to this

Smh
Emerson1999
Inland Empire, CA
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Aug 27 2025 01:31AM     link to this

dude the last 2/3 meetups I was like wow you sure do know how to take pics i obv didn't say that or walk out because im a degen dog in heat but i do feel like times are changing
sinful_one66
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Aug 27 2025 01:44AM     link to this

It’s more like putting in 25¢ at the grocery store carousel with some of these girls. Very unfortunate. I’d think repeats would pay the bills.

I’ve been fortunate to have a couple ATFs that I don’t even bother visiting some of these turnstiles.
AverageJose
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Aug 27 2025 06:11AM     link to this

@littlemissalice and @kelseyforyou there are exceptions to every rule or norm. I’m sure you ladies enjoy yourselves and make the experience enjoyable or memorable. Keep up the positive vibes.
DelilahRose
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Aug 27 2025 09:56AM     link to this

OP as long as you do your research, you should have no problem. Many tools available to make informed decision. I guarantee you , the good outweigh the bad.
suave88
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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Aug 27 2025 10:31AM     link to this

I think it's basically the same, just depends who you are seeing, some are great and welcoming, some are just going through the motions. Perhaps it's just more noticeable now because donations have inflated while service remained the same.
lucious_licks
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Aug 27 2025 11:57AM     link to this

That’s why it’s always best to show up at your best or atleast almost best self!
He’s right I had so many guys tell me this same thing how I’m sooo different from a lot of other girls and I actually see the difference in the men who actually look forward too me coming because they know i carry myself well and soo humble and understanding! Ladies most of these guys like affection too!! Try it one day take your time and things will look up!
and definitely no drama attached!
I’m on the upscale side for a reason!!!
Lusin_Jan7
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Aug 27 2025 02:27PM     link to this

How much time am I allowed to splain it 🤣🤣🤣. Boy do I miss the good old days, I'm a woman of certain age and do carries myself in a certain way. I will try my best to treat my guest the best to my abilities and would makes sure their soul and body are satisfied. With this in mind I am also aware that no one and I mean no one in the phase of this earth can have 100% satisfaction it is the nature of beast. My aim is to stay in the high 90's. That's one of the reasons I do not travel I have a comfortable place with special area for my guest (bathroom/bedroom) and brand new accessories in case they need for example toothbrush, mouth wash always a clean towels hey i even have body lotion neutral scent 😉. The basics that every provider should. Of course also soft and hard drinks as compliments, as far as my physical appearance what you see on my pix that's what you will get. I maintain myself within the same weight, I'm a very vain women. Now as far a men goes 😱 there are some characters out there but overall good experiences. Nothing turns me off than hearing a grown man complaining and setting your worth (60-80) if I was back 1820 gladly but we are in 2025. Rent insurance, medical coverage you name it, at the end of the day adds up to a pretty penny. So hopefully we all understand scratch each other's back we are in this boat until someone sees dried land. Mean time enjoy it have fun and be safe out there much love 🥰
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